Madam, boy, that's a tough one. Would it be possible for him to live somewhere else? I don't know, if it were me, that I'd want to be living with someone, having these feelings, right away. Too much pressure on you and any potential relationship. And, if things aren't right for whatever reason, then what? Something just seems a little off-kilter to me on this one, but can't really pinpoint it. But, I'm also thinking, if you're questioning it, something's not feeling quite right to you either and I'd go with your instincts.

Sending positive vibes and thoughts your way, my sisterfriend!

Your to funny chica ruthie.....I need to e-mail you too...lol

Some things do seem to good to be true and were frightened of those most of all. I recently had something that I also thought the same before meeting. Anyhow, my situation was different.
Take it slow and let yourself go.
I know what your feeling and its scary. Were here for you anytime you need to chat.
Keep us posted on what happens ok.

Good Luck!
Laurie

Madam.... before I can share my opinion, I just want to double check something...

Honey.. is this the same man that you posted abotu not too long ago that wanted to change aspects of who you are & how you live your life? Cause your answer to this is gonna play heavily in my advice

Regardless.. I feel the need to call upon the Angels of Peace & Protection to surround you. They should be there now.. all you need to do is allow

Enjoy your life, worry about yourself first and don't get too emotionally invested, especially with someone who is your tenant. There are plenty of men out there and there is no need to be beholden to one person so early on. You have plenty of time to assess who he is from a casual perspective; there is no harm in this. so do that. Otherwise, we can call in the mob...

ok here's the deal...its gonna be a long one here. i dont usually post my personal issues on here. but ive so many wonderful friends here....here goes...

i have been thinking of renting a room out in my house. i placed an ad a while back. a man answered the ad quite some time ago. he is from ohio. he wanted to relocate here to the area. he is an educated man and i checked him out. over the course of a period of time we talked alot. during our talks, things got more onto a personal level about friends, family, likes, dislikes, etc.... we found that we are so much alike it is scary. we then started chatting online via web cam and exchanged pics....WOW is all i can say WOW WOW WOW....this guy is HOT!

now, i am me. i dont pretend to be something im not and im very outspoken. even my profile here states what i am.

our conversations have turned into more than a "friendship/tenant" thing. he has made it clear that getting to know me over the course of time that his intentions have changed. i keep telling him that we need to keep it as friends and that let nature take its course. cam/pics are different than real life. i live in the real world. this guy is one that could have the 18 yr old barbie on his arm, no problem! i am what i am. im an overweight, middle aged woman. it is what it is. i dont not love myself. i love who and what i am, but again, i live in the real world. ive been honest and upfront with him about what i weight, etc... he says nothing to him matters. its me that interests him. looks can be changed but only if i want to change them not for him. ok...this guy has game...hahaha...i always say, when its too good to be true, it is!

anyways....he is to be here this coming tues/wed to move in. to the spare room of course, but i am nervous as hell!!! i too have really become "close" as far is it can be with him and do not want anymore disappointments in my life. ive tried to keep distance stating that we already know we are friends, lets leave it at that and see what happens, but he insists that he feels strongly about more than that. i dont know.... i hope ive explained well enough for some advice on the matter

sista's help me out here xoxoxoxoxo

I think it should be as a friends/tenant thing if he's living there. If it turns into more, he should find another place to live while you guys date and feel each other out. That way, you can avoid being taken advantage of...