I would like some opinions as to what went wrong here? Sure i knew it
would get a rise but gees why cant people step out of there prejudices
and look at the possibilities. heres a neat guy checking out a neat
women and thought she may be she had more than a fantasy at her age and
wanted realism and intelligence and sincerity..whats up here?
................................................................
i wrote:

Hello, WOW it is really tough with all the man hating going on today to
even try to trust someone decent. Then to find someone with all those
story book qualities that isn't taken and married(usually the good ones
are at our ages.lol) But love drives the heart. My name is Drew or short
for Andrew. I wish the pictures were larger. us guys and eye candy lol.
looks like a decent neighborhood in Sacramento assuming it was taken
there.

I am in Florida now and I have been through Sacramento many a times in
my business travels. Actually got hit by a vehicle up in Donners Pass
about 10 years or so ago. Snow and sleet issues at the time.

Any way I am new here actually as of right now (lol) and just wanted to
say hey to some people. Good luck in your search.

blessings
Don Andrew
lake mary, florida
PS:<a href="http://myspace.com/sprintphones"></a> for my profile.
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she wrote back:
Rapunzel : Age: 52 : Sacramento

Body: Hey to you too. What do you mean by your first sentence to me? All
the Man hating going on? What do you mean by that?
And well you wish my photo was larger? I'm glad it isn't.
My photo is much more than what some offer...
And anyway, Who I am, is way more important,
than what I look like....
If I am interested in someone and he in me,
we can meet in person.
Thanks for the blessings.
................................................................
i wrote:
Thu 08/31/06 05:11 PM
Subject: Re: Re: Chivalrous, courageous ...
Body: lets try to put this into perspective....

Hey to you too.

who would love to speak with, meet, get to know & build a long lasting
relationship with one good man who is intelligent, okay trying here lol

honest, ...as long as it doesn't offend your attitude

high caliber, as long as it meets your specific narrow standards

completely heterosexual, monogamous & marriage minded... they are mostly
taken

tall,

strong,

muscular,

masculine,

hard working & hard-

but tender & gentle...

STORY BOOK


What do you mean by your first sentence to me?
it was a moment to get a rise from you to see what YOU are made of....

All the Man hating going on?
defensive is a good word right now...

What do you mean by that?
read between the lines....


And well you wish my photo was larger?
over 40? need glasses? target marketing to a specific age, has a need
for a precise clear photo and a little larger text as a courtesy to
others...

I'm glad it isn't.
denial argumentative paranoid?...

My photo is much more than what some offer...
probably..
which doesn't make it better, makes it hard to convey the story of the
image presented....its communication at its very core...and more people
get connected with clear photos, it's a given...

And anyway, Who I am, is way more important,
than what I look like....
sorry ...second only to your looks and appearance ...in jobs ...in
dating ...in which side of the street one chooses to walk on... as it
defies the very core of men as visual creatures...gods creation as it is
cant be improved upon by your denial as to what is important and what is
only important as a point of your disagreement.


If I am interested in someone and he in me,
we can meet in person.
right!! Okay

Thanks for the blessings.
thank you.



just by your most basic answers you show a lot about who you are and
your attitude.

positive?
attractive?
manners?
appearance?
social skills?
intelligence?
argumentative?
paranoid?
narrow minded?
a follower and not a leader?
closed minded?
judge mental?
superficial?

over 50? maybe 12 good years left....to date and mate and find a sincere
sacrificing non superficial long term relationship.

conversation would of been nice and an intelligent tit for tat...instead
of focusing for the negative...


Wasn't intended to inflame or offend. A rise
yes....conversation...debate...make you think, not with your emotions
but with your brain ....sure.

Don't be offended and fall into the victim syndrome kk.

lol

take that ...lol

very sincerely and with all do respect,
drew

ps:
If I am interested in someone...
stay lite, and have fun...
blessings

...............................................................
she wrote back:
Thu 08/31/06 05:24 PM
Subject: Regarding your note to me
Body: I was wondering why you wrote to me
and sent an email address to write
you at your email address?

I sent a message back to you...
I see that you read it, but no response back.

Why do you send an email address, when you cannot even communicate in a
courteous way,
and respond to a lady's message?

If you cannot be polite in the little things,
how can you be trusted in the bigger things?????

Don't waste my time, if you cannot be a gentleman.
It's just like what I was talking about in the forum,

about wolves in sheep's clothing.
You guys try to look good on paper,
or on the computer screen,
but you do not exhibit one bit of courtesy
to even respond back,
and especially when you were the one who first wrote me and expressed an
interest.
Don't tell me you were too busy to write back,
since you had plenty of time to get online to read my response.
If you had the time to read my response online,
You certainly had time to respond back....
Oh, you guys are a dime a dozen ... get lost.
................................................................i wrote:
Thu 08/31/06 05:11 PM
Subject: Re: Re: Chivalrous, courageous ...
Body: lets try to put this into perspective....

Hey to you too.

who would love to speak with, meet, get to know & build a long lasting
relationship with one good man who is
intelligent, okay trying here lol

honest, ...as long as it doesn't offend your attitude

high caliber, as long as it meets your specific narrow standards

completely heterosexual, monogamous & marriage minded... they are mostly
taken

tall,

strong,

muscular,

masculine,

hard working & hard-

but tender & gentle...

STORY BOOK


What do you mean by your first sentence to me?
it was a moment to get a rise from you to see what YOU are made of....

All the Man hating going on?
defensive is a good word right now...

What do you mean by that?
read between the lines....


And well you wish my photo was larger?
over 40? need glasses? target marketing to a specific age, has a need
for a precise clear photo and a little larger text as a courtesy to
others...

I'm glad it isn't.
denial argumentative paranoid?...

My photo is much more than what some offer...
probably..
which doesn't make it better, makes it hard to convey the story of the
image presented....its communication at its very core...and more people
get connected with clear photos, it's a given...

And anyway, Who I am, is way more important,
than what I look like....
sorry ...second only to your looks and appearance ...in jobs ...in
dating ...in which side of the street one chooses to walk on... as it
defies the very core of men as visual creatures...gods creation as it is
cant be improved upon by your denial as to what is important and what is
only important as a point of your disagreement.


If I am interested in someone and he in me,
we can meet in person.
right!! Okay

Thanks for the blessings.
thank you.



just by your most basic answers you show a lot about who you are and
your attitude.

positive?
attractive?
manners?
appearance?
social skills?
intelligence?
argumentive?
paranoid?
narrow minded?
a follower and not a leader?
closed minded?
judge mental?
superficial?

over 50? maybe 12 good years left....to date and mate and find a sincere
sacrificing non superficial log term relationship.



conversation would of been nice and an intelligent tit for tat...instead
of focusing for the negative...


Wasn't intended to inflame or offend. A rise
yes....conversation...debate...make you think, not with your emotions
but with your brain ....sure.

Don't be offended and fall into the victim syndrome kk.

lol

take that ...lol

very sincerely and with all do respect,
drew

ps:
If I am interested in someone...
stay lite, and have fun...
blessings
...............................................................
So I don't see here I was not a gentleman and not sincere and not
respectfull.!
What do you think at age 52 and 48 and only maybe 12 good years left on
this earth to suck face.... guys and gals are not a dime a dozen but
some insecure, arrogant, vain, self righteous, egoistical.

WOW...like anyone is going to answer back to any email that have sent. I
don't mean to be rude, but I don't think you should have posted that.
Now I am glad that I didn't answer your email, because you would have
probably posted mine also.

I DIDNT WANT ANTONE TO JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT AS THE FACTS ARE
PRESENTED..AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR OPINION.

Dude, that's not cool. Don't air the dirty laundry and post someone's
private message to you for us all to see.

I gotta agree with loserboy.

I see no reason not to post private emails if they are funny.

Ok Drew, since you asked for opinions...

You blew it in the first sentence. If this was your first e-mail to her,
NEVER open the message with defense when she doesn't even know you...
that was simply antagonistic without cause. I understand that you meant
it as a test, but NOT in the first message. If you really want to find
out what she's "made of", why not let her tell you about what she's
lived through before you decide the she needs to be tested.

I think I would be insulted if you were to critique my photo in the
first paragraph of your first message to me. I saw her profile before I
even read your post and I agree it's not a professional portrait,
neither are any of mine. We all do what we can to show the "world" who
we are without "getting our hand chopped off". With the details that she
provided, I think that you had more than enough information to find a
common thread with her.

You lost 10 more points by critizing her idea of the man she wants. Who
are you? Do you KNOW that she'll never find that man? If you don't think
that you meet her ideals, then why try to test her? I think it would've
been more positive to simply tell her more about who YOU are and let her
decide if you meet or excede what she wants.

After that, the messages are just bad posturing.

I know that you were looking for support, but I have an obligation to
myself and to you to speak truthfully.

Better luck with your next attempt.

Thanks for your time,
Rick

thats cool rick!!

They have a skit on Chapelle's Show that would apply here.
It's called "When Keeping It Real Goes Wrong."

Better luck next time.

ReALLy lol

That's not cool man, i hope noone posts my emails.

I agree with you, things posted in an email should be kept private!

Hi Drew,
yeah i agree with the others.
it probably isn't a good idea to print out the email.
i think it's private.

and now that you've done that, would any lady feel comfortable writing
to you, knowing you might do the same?

gee, if someone did that to the email i sent them, i'd be up the
creek....

and a tip.
i usually start casual with a 'hey you have a nice smile' email.

and if there's any response we take it from there slowly.

i dont mean any disrespect, but your emails looks like a whole book and
it took me some effort to read through it.
i'd felt that if i were the receipient you were 'dumping' on me.
and who wants that?

as this forum goes 'just say hi' and let things take their natural
course...

ps: you can't believe the number of private msgs i've received to go
visit with people.

unbelievable!

Andrew Wee
www.WhoIsAndrewWee.com
www.myspace.com/andreww38

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

A 3 month old thread....whats really your issues dude....?

I'll second that, Ontario.

i think i'm hungry

DREW, RICKDOBS AND UNSURE, AND ALL THE REST.

ARE ALL "RIGHT", YOU DREW, SORRY. YOU HAVE SOME REAL ISSUES

WITH, COMMMUNACTIONS WITH 'REAL' WOMEN, IF NOT, JUST REAL PEOPLE

THIS POST 'SHOWS' THAT!!!!!! TO WANT TO DISSECT HER AND YOU HERE

IS ALSO 'SHOWING', THAT "YOU", DON'T "SEE", THIS??????????

FIRST, LIKE RICK SAID, JUST SHOW AN INTEREST, AND BE NICE ON

YOUR FIRST E-MAIL, 'THEN', GO DEEPER, ON LATTER ONES..

"THIS" IS JUST "NORMAL" = TO BE EXPECTED!!!!!!!! ENOUGH SAID!!

well hello to you to iam.LOL Drew grow up she took what you said the
wrong way to beginn with and you just compounded it by what you wrote
back to her.We really didn't need to read it all so now you've made the
sit. even worse by taking her private words to you and sharing them with
the world. Remind me to never write you back ok.