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Topic: Please Help Me!!
KennethP5206 Joined Wed 03/07/07 Posts: 2082	Thu 02/14/08 08:53 PM
So i have a boyfriend whom i likevery much; however, i made a mistake and kissed another guy!! And like the other guy too!! What should i do??? It's all over for you, you done stepped over the line and there is no going back. You can't change what you did. Once a cheater always a cheater

briank66 Joined Sat 09/01/07 Posts: 2335	Thu 02/14/08 08:54 PM
Don't be a slut.

smiless Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 13765	Thu 02/14/08 08:54 PM
What does your gut say to you? That will be the best choice! All the best and check out my profile for jokes and quotes if you like. John

ranjon333 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 133	Thu 02/14/08 08:54 PM
i would rather know now cus i know i wouldnt get mad if i knew right away rather then finding out later that you also lied to me

clarkkentmike Joined Mon 12/17/07 Posts: 293	Thu 02/14/08 08:55 PM
Take them both to the Jerry Springer Show and let them fight it out. Whoever wins that's the one for you. LOL

Peccy Joined Thu 06/28/07 Posts: 17181	Thu 02/14/08 08:55 PM
I really do love my boyfriend... it was a mistake... guys would you rather know or not?? NOT If you really loved him you wouldn't have kissed the other guy. You want someone to sympathize with you, sorry not happenin.

Big_Jim Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 373	Thu 02/14/08 08:56 PM
You COULD try to control yourself, but it is a little late for that, now isn't it?

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Thu 02/14/08 08:56 PM
its just wrong confess right now

Mac60 Joined Mon 09/17/07 Posts: 706	Thu 02/14/08 08:56 PM
Well you certainly can't hurt either of their feelings. That just wouldn't be right. So do the honorable thing. Find a bridge to jump off.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Thu 02/14/08 08:56 PM
A healthy relationship is honesty. But here is my advice. A kiss is a kiss. If it was one time, I wouldn't tell my boyfriend...especially if I don't plan on going any farther with that kiss. Now, if you went a step further than a kiss, you can't keep that a secret because somehow the truth always seem to come out...whether you are ready or not.

greekboy08 Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 267	Thu 02/14/08 08:56 PM
So i have a boyfriend whom i likevery much; however, i made a mistake and kissed another guy!! And like the other guy too!! What should i do??? How would you feel if your boyfriend did this to you? You say you like him very much! Thats a lie if you did you wouldnt even think about kissing another guy! To be honset you are proabably not good enough for ethier guy

iceprincess Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 5938	Thu 02/14/08 08:57 PM
chalk it up to being stupid.............if all you did was kiss from now on keep your lips to yourself and if you can't control yourself around this other guy tell the bf and stop stringing him on.........if you tuly"love" the bf then keep your mouth shut but bear in the back of your mind to never open your mouth about him "cheating" when you feel jealous as you are a hypocrite

BrandonJItaliano Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 1022	Thu 02/14/08 08:57 PM
Isnt Maury Povich good for stuff like this?

Shananigans19 Joined Wed 12/19/07 Posts: 563	Thu 02/14/08 08:57 PM
Well thanks everyone who was actually helpful!... I've heard enough!

GuideHenri Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 632	Thu 02/14/08 08:57 PM
I really do love my boyfriend... it was a mistake... guys would you rather know or not?? NOT If you really loved him you wouldn't have kissed the other guy. You want someone to sympathize with you, sorry not happenin. I'm sympathizing. Who hasn't ever kissed someone else during a relationship?

Big_Jim Joined Tue 01/15/08 Posts: 373	Thu 02/14/08 08:58 PM
Well you certainly can't hurt either of their feelings. That just wouldn't be right. So do the honorable thing. Find a bridge to jump off.

GuideHenri Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 632	Thu 02/14/08 08:58 PM
A healthy relationship is honesty. But here is my advice. A kiss is a kiss. If it was one time, I wouldn't tell my boyfriend...especially if I don't plan on going any farther with that kiss. Now, if you went a step further than a kiss, you can't keep that a secret because somehow the truth always seem to come out...whether you are ready or not. Yes

greekboy08 Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 267	Thu 02/14/08 08:58 PM
A healthy relationship is honesty. But here is my advice. A kiss is a kiss. If it was one time, I wouldn't tell my boyfriend...especially if I don't plan on going any farther with that kiss. Now, if you went a step further than a kiss, you can't keep that a secret because somehow the truth always seem to come out...whether you are ready or not. This is just plain wrong!!!! A kiss is not just a kiss!!! I would dump both your asses!!! You girls can say what ever you want nethier one of you would stay with your boyfriend if he kissed another girl!

iceprincess Joined Tue 11/07/06 Posts: 5938	Thu 02/14/08 08:59 PM
OMG the kid is 19 lighten up on her who in this "room" hasn;t done something stupid better yet who over the age of 25 in this room hasn't done something worse

Shananigans19 Joined Wed 12/19/07 Posts: 563	Thu 02/14/08 08:59 PM
I really do love my boyfriend... it was a mistake... guys would you rather know or not?? NOT If you really loved him you wouldn't have kissed the other guy. You want someone to sympathize with you, sorry not happenin. I'm sympathizing. Who hasn't ever kissed someone else during a relationship? Thnks Guide!