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My best friend in the whole world is a girl.
She's smart, funny, gorgeous, and we've never had an arguement in the 8 years that I've known her. That may change soon however. I know everything about her, and everything that she's done or not done. She has a bad habit of hooking up with the wrong men. Sure some are good looking or successful, but most have one thing in common, they are scum. She always invites me out someplace, and there is always a guy she knows groping her, smooching, whatever. In fact, she seems out of place without a guy's hand on her ass. It's degrading, and also insulting to me since I have no interest that way in her, but am forced to watch the show. Am I less of a man, because I don't tell her off? She could have so much more, but I'm beginning to think she does'nt deserve it. I have other friends telling me to quit wasting my time with her, but how can you tell somebody to get lost when they have'nt screwed you over? |
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You sound jealous........
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Wow. She doesn't deserve it? Sounds like you've already decided to "quit wasting your time". I wouldn't want a friend that thought of me that way. Or if they did, I'd hope they pointed it out to me rather than complaining about it to random strangers.
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exactly, you sound jealous. but perhaps if your not whats the harm in just telling her you "you know i feel uncomfortable being the third wheel while your out on dates, so if you want to do something could we do it when your not out on a date?"
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leave before the arguments start.....
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You sound jealous........ That possibility is worth exploring. I'm not a fan of groping however, I would'nt want to be in their place |
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My best friend in the whole world is a girl. She's smart, funny, gorgeous, and we've never had an arguement in the 8 years that I've known her. That may change soon however. I know everything about her, and everything that she's done or not done. She has a bad habit of hooking up with the wrong men. Sure some are good looking or successful, but most have one thing in common, they are scum. She always invites me out someplace, and there is always a guy she knows groping her, smooching, whatever. In fact, she seems out of place without a guy's hand on her ass. It's degrading, and also insulting to me since I have no interest that way in her, but am forced to watch the show. Am I less of a man, because I don't tell her off? She could have so much more, but I'm beginning to think she does'nt deserve it. I have other friends telling me to quit wasting my time with her, but how can you tell somebody to get lost when they have'nt screwed you over? 
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maybe you should try groping her to see what all the fuss is about......
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maybe you should try groping her to see what all the fuss is about......
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yeah, he's gay Nothing wrong with being gay, but sorry I'm not :P |
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good thread
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Wow. She doesn't deserve it? Sounds like you've already decided to "quit wasting your time". I wouldn't want a friend that thought of me that way. Or if they did, I'd hope they pointed it out to me rather than complaining about it to random strangers. Oh yes, most definitely this is not a place to talk about things to random strangers ............................. |
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Some people just have to learn the hard way.
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Wow. She doesn't deserve it? Sounds like you've already decided to "quit wasting your time". I wouldn't want a friend that thought of me that way. Or if they did, I'd hope they pointed it out to me rather than complaining about it to random strangers. Oh yes, most definitely this is not a place to talk about things to random strangers ............................. A little late for that...dontcha' think...? 
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i'm sticking with jealous......
quite frankly if you weren't you wouldn't be so willing to tell her off and boot her to the curb for going with other guys. if it was just friends you would just stop hanging around her while she had guys around simple as that. you mise well just accept the fact your jealous and move on with it. |
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Monier it sounds like the SAME thing I have with my best friend of 11 years. IF its ment to be it will be.
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Nothing wrong with being gay, but sorry I'm not :P well grab that a## then it is not like she cares.when you see her walk up and just take one for the gipper
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Wow. She doesn't deserve it? Sounds like you've already decided to "quit wasting your time". I wouldn't want a friend that thought of me that way. Or if they did, I'd hope they pointed it out to me rather than complaining about it to random strangers. Oh yes, most definitely this is not a place to talk about things to random strangers ............................. A little late for that...dontcha' think...? I do believe he was being sarcastic. |
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Nothing wrong with being gay, but sorry I'm not :P well grab that a## then it is not like she cares.when you see her walk up and just take one for the gipper Sorry to high-jack this for a second but.... John can I pull your tail? 
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Wow. She doesn't deserve it? Sounds like you've already decided to "quit wasting your time". I wouldn't want a friend that thought of me that way. Or if they did, I'd hope they pointed it out to me rather than complaining about it to random strangers. Oh yes, most definitely this is not a place to talk about things to random strangers ............................. A little late for that...dontcha' think...? zOMG Sorry I forgot to add /Sarcasm to the end of my response lol |
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