There is a sex shop here by that name lol.

How about "Coccolarvi" Italian for pamper yourself.

OR

"Mimarse" Spanish for the same thing.

People talking on the damn cell when they are driving. If it is THAT important PULL OVER! Do not jeapordize your life and and lives of other for your selfishness. Why should others have to suffer because you are being reminded to pick up little Suzzy from band practice?

Another one is people that litter. I have to live on this plant just like you do. I do not throw trash in your back yard so leave it out of mine! Show some damn respect for the world around you. It is not that hard to carry around the trash until you find a proper bin to put it in. I even bet that it is lighter then before you took whatever was in it out.

You say children like it is more then one. Is that how people say hello where you are from? Maybe it is a sign of endearment? I am not sure. seems kind of odd to for a child to come up to somebody and say, "Hey I know you!" then kick you. I am sorry I am breaking up laughing over here.

I would hand it a joint and tell it to calm the f**k down

Just read your profile. How can you enjoy fun on the site, if you cannot properly use the forums? To me this is where all the fun is.

And what if I do HUH?! What are you going to do about hmmmmm? Do not judge me because I have nothing better to do.

If government is going to put health warning labels on
beer, wine and liquor, let's at least have a little truthfulness about the matter!

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol may cause you to wake up with breath
that could knock a buzzard off a **** truck at 100 yards.

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol is a major factor in dancing like an idiot.

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol may cause you to tell the same boring story over and over again until your friends want to smash your head in.

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol may cause you to tell the boss what you REALLY THINK while photocopying your butt at the office Christmas party.

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol may leave you wondering what the hell ever happened to your pants (panties) anyway.

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol may cause you to roll over in the morning and see something really scary (whose species and/or name you can't remember).

WARNING: Consumption of alcohol may create the illusion that you are tougher, handsomer, and smarter than some really, really huge biker guy named "Big Al".

Oh I know not all the apples are bad. A little rain must fall before a rainbow can form. It is just frustrating when crap like this happens.

But C'est la vie! Life goes on right? You jut got to get up brush yourself off, and move on. Life is too sort to worry about little things like this hold you back. When there are children starving, people living on the streets, wars going on, people dieing. Then being cheated on seems to small.

I know! Men for the most part try to play all big and macho, but yet when it comes to relationships, they are cowards.

Party at Whisper's place! I have already started!

F**k crying. Life is FAR too short to sit around crying over the lost of a bloody idiot. I am not the one that lost. It was him. HE is the one that broke my trust, HE is the one that betrayed me, HE is the one that lied, and HE is the one that can rot in hell! LOL.

Well my suspicions are over, and sadly indeed correct.

Well I never did get a chance to surprise him. He ended up texting me, making plans to meet an hour later. We ended up spending the whole day together. I am just getting home infact.

I do admit, I looked at his cell phone,texts were all from men. I think I am just going to keep an eye and ear open, and see if I notice anything, more, then when I get the chance to be able to surprise him again I will.

I don't know, it's weird, when he starts to act all strange, like I mentioned in the opening post, I get all worried. Then all he does is spend time with me like we did today, and I just push all the worry to the back of my head, and enjoy the time.

I know I am messed up LOL.

If i go there and it is nothing, then it would be like a regular visit that I have done many times in the pass. As much as i love him, to be able to talk about a problem like this that kind of communication is just not there. and that is mainly because of me, I have never been comfortable with openly admitting how I feel. I am usually a VERY trusting person, but this feeling is just something I just cannot shake. I just do not know either LOL.

Thank you! As much as I appreciate them men jumping in with the advice, it is nice to have it from another female.

But really how am I sneaking? I am only doing something that he has never had a problem with me doing in the pass. Sure is something is not right there is going to be a scene, but in the end if he is being dishonest, is it not best that I know 100%? anybody can lie. and if he is cheating on me, it is not like he is going to come right out and tell me.

That is the whole point. If he really loves me and misses me as much as he claims, then me popping over should not be a problem. IF by chance somebody else is there, then yes it may hurt a LOT for a period, but at least I will know.

That is what I am thinking. Which is why I think I am going over there in the morning and "surprising" him with breakfast.

I should also add that he is starting to buy me more gifts then usual. Friday alone, he had boughten me a chrystal vase, we got our pictures done (first picture I actually have of him and I) took me out for supper, bought me chocolate and then finished by taking me out to the bar.

I have never experienced somebody cheating on me before, so to see the signs is rather new to me. But lately I have been seeing some different behavior from my boyfriend.

the two of us have been together for about 9 months now. Things have been great, we see each other regularly, text each other all the time, and always try to communication open. One routine we had is he would always come over to use my tub after his night shifts.

Lately he has not been coming over. He will make plans then cancel them. Like today, he did not come over after work (another thing that makes me go hmmmm)but texts me after his shift at 6am saying that he can barely keep his eyes open, and that he was just going to go home and crash. That he will text me in a few hours and we will get together by me coming over to his place. I let it go thinking that is was strange as it never mattered in the pass how tired he was he still came over. But i still let it go, as I know he never sleeps more then like 5 hours. So I wait for his text around noon. Nothing. 2pm rolls around. Nothing. 5pm, and still I ma hearing nothing from him even after me texting him. 8pm comes along and I finally hear from him. He tells me that he is just getting up, and that he was still half asleep laying in bed. I asked him if he wanted a cuddle buddy as I was really wanting to see him as it is not going on three days since we have seen each other and we live only 5 minutes away. So I ask him, and he usually jumps all over it no matter how tired he was, but nope not tonight. Tonight when I asked him he response with, that sounds really nice, but why do we not get together in the morning as he was still tired. AFTER SLEEPING ALL DAY! So now I am here pissed off after waiting around for him all day just for him to again say that he did not want to see me. AND has not texted me since.

So what do you guys think? Should I be worried? Or am I being silly?