Why are you so sure she already didn't? There are a lot of married men and women on online dating sites. LOL

It could be about secret French made or naked sexy cook phantasy. It happens to some middle aged men who watch too much porn when wife and kids fall asleep.
Besides the fantasy part, there is a reality check. Since escort services can be quite expensive and leave unwanted clues on monthly bank statements, it is more convenient and budget friendly to find a married woman who is not high maintenance and wouldn't risk his marriage or hers.

Thank you devildog123. You made me laugh. LOL

Was it raining? Perhaps he shrunk? Oh well, I never believed in those one size fits all ... LOL

Couldn't agree more.

I agree. Some men are used to paying for everything and still insist on doing so even on a meet and greet. Not all of them, but MOST of them expect a compensation.
Sorry, but it doesn't work that way anymore. Welcome to 2014 and good bye. In case of expectations of a compensation call an escort service. Just delete my number, please and thank you. LOL

Couldn't have said it better, so I'll second that.

I insist on separate checks on meet and greet. Both of you explained why. Dates are different. But the same etiquette still applies.
It's not about anything free for her and, in return, a compensation for him.
If I see it going in that direction I'll simply politely say thanks, but no thanks and walk away from either meet and greet or a date.

What if there is no steak due to being separated for a while because of career or some health related issues?

He can cheat three times at once; first time, last time and never again. I wouldn't hesitate leaving without ever looking back. Not for a second.

Just curious...what's this model's name on Mingle?
Sorry! Sorry! Sorry!I know.. bad joke! But I couldn't resist. It reminded me of one profile photo and those mighty abs. LOL

Are you SWM 44+ from Hamilton? Are you? No, you are NOT.

Also, your profile is not inviting.Nothing interesting in it... sorry

So what do you want to chat about?
Why don't you come out of the dark, stop peeping and join these great people on the Mingle's forum? You can meet some really nice people here.

You do not like it? Waste of your time?
Well, e-mail and text messages exchange take even more time than leaving few comments on the forum.

So, don't even try to pee on my leg and tell me it's raining.
Thanks and no thanks! Bye!

Your profile seems fine to me.
Welcome to Mingle and good luck!

And now...what???

From "V for Vendetta" (2005)

Creedy: Die! Die! Why won't you die?... Why won't you die?
V: Beneath this mask there is more than flesh. Beneath this mask there is an idea, Mr. Creedy, and ideas are bulletproof!

http://youtu.be/LGGPufySwZ4

Of course not! Both men and women equally need to resolve some issues from the past relationship(s) before moving on to the next one.

It was a VERY short correspondence and I left out some juicy stuff beyond TMI from his last e-mail which was supposed to convince me to jump on his offer of FWB. I couldn't stop laughing after reading it. ROFLMAO

So sorry to hear that. I know how it feels. Here is HUG for you.

Situations change. People change. Some people claim they have changed, regret their behaviour and want to start over. However, in some cases baggage from the past along with some unresolved issues can be a heavy burden in future.
Before discovering Mingle I have met someone online and begun exchanging e-mails. He said he quit drinking after the divorce and tried to start over. However, it seems to me that he refused to face some of the other issues unrelated to drinking, believing his alcohol abuse was the only reason for failure of the marriage.
After family and friends tried to help him by pointing at some of the other issues (he didn't not specify what those issues were) he felt hurt and betrayed by them "because they took his ex-wife side".
He thinks most women are very ungrateful. They do not appreciate what men are willing to do for them. He couldn't find a decent women who is financially independent, has a job and her own car (because he doesn't have a car and that's why women do not want to date him), does not expect a men to go shopping together or do any repairs (because he doesn't like working and really likes women who do it on their own), understands he needs his time and space, but can be there for him on weekends when he gets a day off (however she should keep in mind that as a superintendent he works most weekends) and when he is in a mood to get together (because he works so hard and has an important position with huge responsibility ). He also mentioned that when he had money he didn't have a good relationship with his children (who live in the other province) and now he doesn't have the money, but has a good relationship with them. However, he complained they call only when they need something and now he has to take a loan to help one of his children with a mortgage down-payment, because he already helped the other child the same way.
After such an introduction he invited me to meet in a corner store close to the building where he works as a superintendent, to buy us a meal and offered me a friendship with benefits disregarding the fact I clearly stated I am not looking for such a relationship in my profile.
I respectfully declined an invitation to meet in person and wished him more luck with someone else.
He was hurt as if he offered me a Holy Grail and my refusal proved him that I am just another ungrateful woman (like most other women) who didn't appreciate him because he doesn't have a car and can't recognize a good hard working man who wears his heart on a sleeve. That was the end of our correspondence. At least I taught so.
Than out of the blue he e-mailed me to ask how to block "all these 20 years old who want sex with him in a hotel room", because he is not interested in them. Amazing!
The beautiful world of online dating! LOL