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To STOP trying to deceive me?? LOL, one day they will realize that it does NOT work on me to lie. There was this guy at work who seemed really nice and had been flirting with me for WEEKS now. Well, I finally gave him my number yesterday so we could get to know one another. Now, I hadn't spoken to him a whole lot until today. Well, we spoke this morning before work just long enough for him to walk away and me catch a glimpse at his left ring finger. Well, thats the FIRST thing I look at when I speak to a man...lol. Apparently he wasn't going to mention that he was married. At lunch, I went to a lady I have known for years since she's his "desk neighbor" and asked if he was married. She confirmed what I already figured, so outside at lunch I lifted up his left hand and said "when were you going to ask your wife if it was alright that we hung out??" He shut up fast...
GAH! LOL, I know not EVERY man is like this, but it sure does p!$$ ya off when they do that crap! |
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I refuse to learn anything!
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men learn?!
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He didnt lie....
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Edited by
JaymeStephens84a0lc
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Wed 08/13/08 03:17 PM
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Lying by omission is STILL LYING, especially when you're married with 3 kids tryin to hit on the new hottie at work. |
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men learn?! Men wont learn and women wont shut up about it..... |
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He didnt lie.... |
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Men wont learn and women wont shut up about it..... So true |
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men learn?! Men wont learn and women wont shut up about it..... I did NOT say that every man lied, I just said this guy did and well... several others I've come in contact with. Usually doesn't last long though, I have a way with knowing when someone's lying and call them out on it immediately. |
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He didnt lie.... BAH! LOL, he didn't get THAT far with it. |
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You just gotta be more direct, I ask in a joking manner then if they lie... I have recource to assult with food items or a beverage at a later date.
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You just gotta be more direct, I ask in a joking manner then if they lie... I have recource to assult with food items or a beverage at a later date. Haha, I think callin him out in front of everyone who was out smoking at the time was pretty direct. |
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If you have been talking to him for WEEKS and the ring finger is the FIRST thing you look at when talking to a guy......how come you only noticed his ring AFTER you gave him your number?
Why not ask him right then and there instead of asking another person? |
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Never happen
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If you have been talking to him for WEEKS and the ring finger is the FIRST thing you look at when talking to a guy......how come you only noticed his ring AFTER you gave him your number? Why not ask him right then and there instead of asking another person?  I was wondering the same thing?? |
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If you have been talking to him for WEEKS and the ring finger is the FIRST thing you look at when talking to a guy......how come you only noticed his ring AFTER you gave him your number? Why not ask him right then and there instead of asking another person? 
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To STOP trying to deceive me?? LOL, one day they will realize that it does NOT work on me to lie. There was this guy at work who seemed really nice and had been flirting with me for WEEKS now. Well, I finally gave him my number yesterday so we could get to know one another. Now, I hadn't spoken to him a whole lot until today. Well, we spoke this morning before work just long enough for him to walk away and me catch a glimpse at his left ring finger. Well, thats the FIRST thing I look at when I speak to a man...lol. Apparently he wasn't going to mention that he was married. At lunch, I went to a lady I have known for years since she's his "desk neighbor" and asked if he was married. She confirmed what I already figured, so outside at lunch I lifted up his left hand and said "when were you going to ask your wife if it was alright that we hung out??" He shut up fast... GAH! LOL, I know not EVERY man is like this, but it sure does p!$$ ya off when they do that crap! Was the guy showing more than just a friendly interest in you? If it was more than that, then he Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? Some married women flirt with guys at work as well. Or was it just a platonic friendship? Did he not say ANYTHING when you confronted him. 
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If you have been talking to him for WEEKS and the ring finger is the FIRST thing you look at when talking to a guy......how come you only noticed his ring AFTER you gave him your number? Why not ask him right then and there instead of asking another person? I was wondering the same thing?? I said he flirted with me for weeks, didn't say I talked to him much. I said he and I hadn't even talked all that much til this morning. He said "I want to come hang out with you, when will you have some alone time?" Trust me, the way he said it meant he was interested in more than friendship. And no, he said nothing when I confronted him. |
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One more question, why am I all of a sudden the bad guy? LOL, I did NOTHING wrong. I could NOT have known he was married without someone telling me. I even checked to make sure I wasn't jumping to conclusions when I saw the ring on his hand.
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Aren't guys who are married allowed to flirt? No. They should flirt with their WIVES, and not try to bring some innocent into the mix or hurt someone. |
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