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Hi.
I just got back from meeting with a guy (we've met up two other times prior to this most recent visit). I have really grown quite fond of him. It seems like he is really easy to talk to & has a lot of the same interests. However, this last visit it seemed like something was weird.. I just did NOT get a good vibe. He was gone quite a bit; said he was at work. That is perfectly fine with me--i'm not that "needy." He left to go to work one of the nights & said I could use his laptop -->so I of course was on Mingle checking mail and found out it was actually his after I had clicked into it... anyway there were tons of messages from other chicks about meeting up... and they were all the same messages that he sent to me.... :O I was freaking out... & i'm not some weirdo that checks guy's stuff at all... this was just some weird sign I think... letting me know that I should stop where I was @ with this guy. I was so scared and in the hotel room alone... nice hotel room (had a kitchen & a living room and a hot tub. I'm aching inside... something doesn't feel right, but I really like this guy. Any thoughts? Thanks... Tyleah |
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I think you should go with your gut instinct, hun... if it doesnt feel right, it probobly isnt... so dont worry about that dude! There are plenty of other guys on here that are even better! Good luck and keep searching till you find the perfect one!
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Ok, so you have to ask what to do? I think you know what you need to do, lose the loser and don't look back.
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Hi. I just got back from meeting with a guy (we've met up two other times prior to this most recent visit). I have really grown quite fond of him. It seems like he is really easy to talk to & has a lot of the same interests. However, this last visit it seemed like something was weird.. I just did NOT get a good vibe. He was gone quite a bit; said he was at work. That is perfectly fine with me--i'm not that "needy." He left to go to work one of the nights & said I could use his laptop -->so I of course was on Mingle checking mail and found out it was actually his after I had clicked into it... anyway there were tons of messages from other chicks about meeting up... and they were all the same messages that he sent to me.... :O I was freaking out... & i'm not some weirdo that checks guy's stuff at all... this was just some weird sign I think... letting me know that I should stop where I was @ with this guy. I was so scared and in the hotel room alone... nice hotel room (had a kitchen & a living room and a hot tub. I'm aching inside... something doesn't feel right, but I really like this guy. Any thoughts? Thanks... Tyleah  He done got BUSTED |
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Yeah... was unsure of how to react because I didn't want to be dropped off in the middle of Chicago so I acted normal like everything was just great...
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Uh yeah sounds like he is all over the place but that doesnt mean really anything since your dating...........my question to you is how if you only dated him a couple of times that you are in his hotel room............I mean thats weird already.........
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I am sorry you had to find that stuff out, but like you said it's a sign. You deserve someone honest and can do much better.
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Run!That does not sound like someone you will be able to trust in a relationship,if that is what you are after.If he is using the same line for every girl he meets,then he doesn't see them as individuals-just objects.At least you found out now before you got deeply attached.
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Hi. I just got back from meeting with a guy (we've met up two other times prior to this most recent visit). I have really grown quite fond of him. It seems like he is really easy to talk to & has a lot of the same interests. However, this last visit it seemed like something was weird.. I just did NOT get a good vibe. He was gone quite a bit; said he was at work. That is perfectly fine with me--i'm not that "needy." He left to go to work one of the nights & said I could use his laptop -->so I of course was on Mingle checking mail and found out it was actually his after I had clicked into it... anyway there were tons of messages from other chicks about meeting up... and they were all the same messages that he sent to me.... :O I was freaking out... & i'm not some weirdo that checks guy's stuff at all... this was just some weird sign I think... letting me know that I should stop where I was @ with this guy. I was so scared and in the hotel room alone... nice hotel room (had a kitchen & a living room and a hot tub. I'm aching inside... something doesn't feel right, but I really like this guy. Any thoughts? Thanks... Tyleah yea.. run, especially if hes saying the same thing to others. there is no trust issue there at all.. and my feeling is that he can be a controler if you stand by him any longer..... |
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 Marry him
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I have a couple of questions. First, are you two just dating? Did you both commit to each other already? Are you being intimate with each other?
If you said yes to the first one, You are just dating. He's just dating. To me that implies that you both are free to date others. If you can answer yes to the second question, first off, you commited after the second date? Isnt that a tad bit soon? If so, hes a toad, move on. And if you answered yes to the third question, he's using you for a booty call only. Move on. |
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My only thoughts about this is he send the same very messages to every woman he would like to meet up with and that's only because he didn't know what else to say, none the less he probably wanted to get catched by some one.
Sooner or later it was gonna happen. Sorry you had to be the one it happened to. Move on and you can do better. 
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Marry him Like the man said  and then divorce him taking everything he has got including his pants with you. |
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hahah... yeah ;p
Anyway--> thanks ya's! I should just go on looking for someone way better. :) |
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Go with your gut... that is for sure it doesn't sound right at all
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Edited by
Winx
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Thu 04/09/09 08:50 PM
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You're 19 yrs. old. This is the 3rd time you've met the man. You were in a hotel room in another city. You're visiting him and he has other things to do?! You find out about these emails. You felt scared. Do you see something wrong with this picture?
Maybe it's time to move on. That's something to think about. |
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This guy sounds like a real pig! You obviously deserve much better!! Just never let your guard down too soon. Make the guy you date SHOW you his devotion and commitment to you.
things will be better!
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What's this hotel room got to do with anything? You're not in one with him, surely???!!!! Said you just got done.... so I'm assuming that was just other info.
Well, on the one hand, too soon in the relationship for you to be getting upset about other gals. BUT, ALWAYS TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!! Lots of nice jerks in the world. AND, I can't help but think he WANTED you to see his stuff and be known. Why else would he leave himself and his computer innards exposed? |
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Well since he trusted you with his LAP TOP maybe you should just be open and ask him ......talking bout things never hurts. Then maybe you guys can remain friends? Just my thoughts!
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Edited by
Miss_No_So
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Thu 04/09/09 09:04 PM
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Silly Silly Silly girl... I would have messaged all them other girls, saying **I thought I better add this about myself before you find out, I am transsexual, my parents have cut off my allowance so I can not pay for my internet connection... so please can you send me some money and a new dress in big floral...** |
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