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Topic: how to break up with a really sweet girlfriend
Octeadro's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:27 PM
Hey guys,

The relationship hasn't clicked for a long time and I'm deeply bored.

She loves me to death...and I would find her a soul mate if I had the chance. Just to ease the pain.

Someone suggested mailing her a letter....but I would love some advice.

Thanks All,

Michael

no photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:30 PM
Can you not verbalize with her to break up? If this is a long term relationship you are breaking, speaking would be the upstanding thing to do.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:32 PM

Hey guys,

The relationship hasn't clicked for a long time and I'm deeply bored.

She loves me to death...and I would find her a soul mate if I had the chance. Just to ease the pain.

Someone suggested mailing her a letter....but I would love some advice.

Thanks All,

Michael
flowerforyou Try to explain to her that you love her enough to let her go and that is the best thing for her.flowerforyou

GypsySinn's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:32 PM

Easy.
Spend all her money.
Sleep with her friends.

TwilightsTwin's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:32 PM
Sometimes the truth is the hardest, esp. when they haven't done anything to betray you. Just be honest with her, tell her how you feel.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:32 PM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Tue 04/21/09 12:35 PM
Just tell her you can't afford her and the lambo payment shocked shocked shocked

beetlebabe's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:33 PM
Don't dare break up with her in a letter... Maybe write her a letter after breaking up with her just to explain things properly.

Just be honest with her and tell her its not working, if she is that crazy about you she will be deeply hurt anyway so just be straight up about it, no one can knock you for being honest.

Best of luck.

talldub's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:33 PM

Hey guys,

The relationship hasn't clicked for a long time and I'm deeply bored.

She loves me to death...and I would find her a soul mate if I had the chance. Just to ease the pain.

Someone suggested mailing her a letter....but I would love some advice.

Thanks All,

Michael
If she loves you then have the decency to meet with her, talk to her about it and answer any questions she'll have. It might not be easy but it will be fair to her.

ledi180's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:34 PM
Tell her you're gay? Your profile says you're looking for a man for dating so I'm confused.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:34 PM
Like they say in the movies or song too.. if you love some one enough to let them go sometimes they might just come back.

All you can do is ask to meet and say you need to talk and go from there.

Take a chance and hey the worse thing that could happen is you could change your mind or you want to get back together.


Jill298's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:34 PM
You have to tell her. A letter can be so impersonable... and it may come across like she doesn't even get to respond. If she's done nothing wrong, she should get the chance to talk this thru with you. Sit her down and just be honest. You just can't help when you're not in love with someone.

SimplyElla's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:46 PM

Tell her you're gay? Your profile says you're looking for a man for dating so I'm confused.



Well he did say he enjoys playing with phallus' or what not... IDK maybe he is just bi... that is abit confusing, eh?


If you respect her any mister man then let her know in a fair way.. if you all aren't doing that LDR thing tell her to her face and answer all and any questions she will throw back at you.. if you are doing that LDR thing.. call her.. no text or letters or that BS.


flowerforyou

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 04/21/09 12:58 PM
A letter? Oh please don't do that...

You've been thinking about this for awhile so you have already started your closure process. Honour her and the relationship enough to end it with some closure for her too. It still hurts but at least there is no ambiguity.

no photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:00 PM
email her that you want to break up.shocked slaphead rofl rofl

Winx's photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:01 PM

Tell her you're gay? Your profile says you're looking for a man for dating so I'm confused.


Me, too.

no photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:04 PM


Tell her you're gay? Your profile says you're looking for a man for dating so I'm confused.


Me, too.

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

prisoner's photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:06 PM
does his profile say he is looking for a man?oops if so,i would say his problem is solved be seeing you

no photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:07 PM
Start with being honest and talking to her about how you feel. Don't do it in a letter.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:09 PM
flowerforyou Tell her you are looking for a man and that will solve the problem right thereflowerforyou

Riding_Dubz's photo
Tue 04/21/09 01:10 PM
maybe he aian't lookin for a man,

maybe he just wants left alone, i know the feeling sometime flowerforyou


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