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Topic: Since we're on the topic...
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Mon 05/11/09 11:15 AM
Edited by YouAndImake1 on Mon 05/11/09 11:24 AM
Watch the numbers relevant to this post...
number of views VS number of replies
bet it's disproportionate...
I'm also willing to bet that the replies will be very disproportionate to the estimates... I wonder why... what

1. What percentage of marriages or relationships will be affected by infidelity?

There is no exact number for the rate of infidelity in our society. However, the sad truth is that, whatever the figure is, infidelity happens far too often.

Our best estimates, which come from studies done in the last five to ten years, reveal that 45-50% of married women and 50-60% of married men engage in extramarital affairs at some point in their relationships. So somewhere around half of all Long Term Love Relationships (LTLRs) are marked by this ultimate betrayal.


I myself cheated years ago (25) and lost my true first love. I was in the Marines, I drank, the boys carroused without a thought for our wives. It was like "Quien es mas macho" with us.
The years have gone by, changes made and my life assessed as to my purpose and worth...

Have you ever cheated? Yeah, I know, you don't want to put something up on a site where you're trying to "meet" the "one" but,,,
have you?

TBRich's photo
Mon 05/11/09 11:17 AM
No, I honestly did not cheat when married. However, some of my long-term relationships were on the iffy side and I do admit cheating during them.

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Mon 05/11/09 11:18 AM
I have never cheated, but it's probably a technicality. Was separated but not divorced, hooked up with someone. So in some eyes, yes I have, in other eyes, no.


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Mon 05/11/09 11:18 AM
I have never cheated.

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 05/11/09 11:19 AM
laugh I think I did when I was 15laugh

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Mon 05/11/09 11:20 AM
Edited by feistybaby on Mon 05/11/09 11:20 AM
No, not that I haven't had offers or been tempted but when I make a commitment I honor it. If at some point I am unhappy enough that I would even think of cheating it is time to get out of the relationship and look for one that is more fulfilling. But you get out before you start your search leaving not only the other person with their dignity but yourself as well.

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Mon 05/11/09 11:20 AM
I have never cheated. I know how much it hurts and wouldn't want to hurt someone else that way. If I felt like I was interested in someone else...I would have ended the other relationship first

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Mon 05/11/09 11:21 AM
I did when I found out he had cheated on me....didn't make it any better and made me feel like crapohwell

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Mon 05/11/09 11:23 AM
I was married for 20 years and I can say we both never cheated on each other. He was using drugs behind my back and that is considered a form of cheating in my eyes.

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Mon 05/11/09 11:23 AM
I have never cheated.

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Mon 05/11/09 11:26 AM
Edited by YouAndImake1 on Mon 05/11/09 11:27 AM

I did when I found out he had cheated on me....didn't make it any better and made me feel like crapohwell


Some are not brave enough to be honest these days... flowerforyou

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Mon 05/11/09 11:26 AM
Edited by Eddiemma on Mon 05/11/09 11:27 AM
I have done allot of other stupid things in my life,,,but I can proudly say I have never cheated on my woman in a relationship... It's one thing if you are dating multiple people or just casual dating (which is very rare I usually date one person at a time)..but when your in a relationship exclusively then that is that...
I think it's pretty obvious...

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Mon 05/11/09 11:30 AM


I did when I found out he had cheated on me....didn't make it any better and made me feel like crapohwell


Some are not brave enough to be honest these days... flowerforyou
I don't have that problem....people either accept me or they don't...bigsmile flowerforyou

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Mon 05/11/09 11:32 AM
will be honest yes I have...I was Young dumb and full of c*m...But I have learned my lesson,that isn’t who I want to be.... to inflict hurt and pain on another human being is just pretty damn cruel.

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Mon 05/11/09 11:37 AM
i've never cheated... and having been thru this from the other end... I don't think I ever will - it hurts too bad...

Savitar's photo
Mon 05/11/09 12:48 PM
nope , never done the cheat thing , if i find myself seriously considering it , i look at the relationship i am in , because its probably time to move on ,

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Mon 05/11/09 04:59 PM
I need to get with the survey people on this one since they are clearly WRONG.
The stats here show that,,,

33.3% of guys cheat (2 out of 6)

and

25% of women cheat (2 out of 8)

Must be some kind of conspiracy or sumpin'...

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Mon 05/11/09 10:15 PM
I have never cheated on a woman once we agreed to be exclusive. However, I have ben accused of cheating on a woman that I hadn't discussed this issue with.

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Mon 05/11/09 10:24 PM
Nope, had it done to me and it did not feel good.....

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Mon 05/11/09 10:26 PM
No, I was accused of it...but I never did cheat on any of my partners. Never will, that kills more than just your soul in the long run...

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