Topic: Does a woman like it when a man shows his true feelings and
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Wed 07/08/09 09:51 AM

Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


I don't agree

Why is a mans deepest feelings not valued?

He's a human being with valid human emotions men can be strong as well as sesitive. They are humans. We might be wired a little differently but emotionally we are the same. Society has taught men not to show their soft side. It's a shame really

I have held many a male freind in my arms as he cried over a broken relationship etc

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Wed 07/08/09 09:52 AM


Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


I don't agree

Why is a mans deepest feelings not valued?

He's a human being with valid human emotions men can be strong as well as sesitive. They are humans. We might be wired a little differently but emotionally we are the same. Society has taught men not to show their soft side. It's a shame really

I have held many a male freind in my arms as he cried over a broken relationship etc



You're an exceptional woman. flowerforyou

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Wed 07/08/09 05:46 PM

Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


I disagree with you. Some women hold confidences in the highest regard. I don't recall telling girlfriends personal things a man has shared with me. There is nothing wussy about a guy feeling something deeply, and sharing it with his special woman in trust. In fact, it is endearing.

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Wed 07/08/09 06:49 PM


Does a woman like it when a man shows his true feelings and really open to her? I mean as a man I'm not sure what a woman is looking for...for some reason girls say "why cant i find a good man?" ....i think the main point of dating is basically to have a family in the future..what do u think?

IMO
they want to know that the man is human and not a machine. they want a man who is passionate about things and who feels. they don't want a man who cry's at a sunset or can't control his temper. crying at funerals is ok and is somewhat expected and being angry is ok but it should be controlled. a man who shows no emotion is someone they feel has no passion. he doesn't get out of sorts because he doesn't care.


auburngirl is right about the dating thing though. everybody has their own goals in dating.


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Drew and Connie hit the nail on the head...

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Wed 07/08/09 07:12 PM

Does a woman like it when a man shows his true feelings and really open to her? I mean as a man I'm not sure what a woman is looking for...for some reason girls say "why cant i find a good man?" ....i think the main point of dating is basically to have a family in the future..what do u think?

Consider this...

If your NOT showing your true feelings... Your lieing to her.

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Wed 07/08/09 07:27 PM

Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


And btw, I'll know Exactly what to do with him!!! bigsmile

4974's photo
Wed 07/08/09 07:29 PM
I consider that a man, one who can talk about his feelings..so yes

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Wed 07/08/09 07:39 PM
Yes

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Wed 07/08/09 07:41 PM
"Real men stuff their feelings down deep inside, when your stomach hurts, you're doing it right"


Moondark's photo
Wed 07/08/09 07:43 PM
Even those of us who wanted a family usually reach a point that we no longer want kids if we haven't had them by a certain age. Having a partner to really share life with in a way you just can't with friends is important to many people.

And yes, we do like it if a guy shows us just how into us he really is. So long as it isn't after a week or two. Too early, it can freak us out.

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Wed 07/08/09 07:47 PM
NO LIE LIE LIE AND LIE SOME MORE!!!



I'm kidding sure they do but not all at one time!! Don’t overwhelm them about how you feel--sometimes just showing them is better than saying it! Actions speak louder than words

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Wed 07/08/09 07:53 PM
Open up about what? It depends. If you feel opening up is telling me how you want to bang my friends, or something then.. no.

Being open is fine in my opinion, but to the point where you sound fem no.. I dont want to hear whiny complaints. There are boundries there.

If you are knowing me 2 days, or a month or two, and your all "i love you" and all desperate, and crawling up my butt when I am not extending myself in any similar way, then MAN KEEP IT TO YOURSELF, or purchase a body pilloowwww... orr watch some more pornn...

Or, do some inside work better yet, and get yourself together emotionally, to where you belong in a relationship.

I dont do extremes very well.

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Wed 07/08/09 07:57 PM

Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


I'm sure some women are like that, just as some men can't handle when women are open and willing to communicate. But, you cannot assume all women will be like that. I'd say for most, communication is an important thing.

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Wed 07/08/09 08:09 PM
Don't do what you think they want. Be yourself. Some women will like it and some won't. But do you really want to be with a woman but not be able to be who you are?

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Wed 07/08/09 08:10 PM
Edited by Unknow on Wed 07/08/09 08:15 PM

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Wed 07/08/09 08:15 PM
Edited by singmesweet on Wed 07/08/09 08:27 PM



Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


I'm sure some women are like that, just as some men can't handle when women are open and willing to communicate. But, you cannot assume all women will be like that. I'd say for most, communication is an important thing.


"In my experience" doesn't assume all women. Only the women I've had relationships with. I don't believe I've had a relationship with every woman on the planet.



I can't speak for others, but communication is far from overrated.

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Wed 07/08/09 08:24 PM
Edited by Roco on Wed 07/08/09 08:27 PM

Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


Agreed. This is a strong statement, but more often than not, it is true. The girls want the guys to open up, show their true feelings...cry perhaps...once they see this, a light switches in their heads to dump the guy...don't fall trap to this, it's a test.

Roko

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Wed 07/08/09 08:26 PM


Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


Agreed. This is a strong statement, but more often than not, it is a true. The girls want the guys to open up, show their true feelings...cry perhaps...once they see this, a light switches in their heads to dump the guy...don't fall trap to this, it's a test.

Roko


It makes me wonder what kind of women you guys are dating when you think this way..

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Wed 07/08/09 08:27 PM


Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


Agreed. This is a strong statement, but more often than not, it is a true. The girls want the guys to open up, show their true feelings...cry perhaps...once they see this, a light switches in their heads to dump the guy...don't fall trap to this, it's a test.

Roko


You need to rephrase that to in your experience. Please do not generalize. Better yet, try dating WOMEN.

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Wed 07/08/09 08:28 PM


Communication is highly overrated in my opinion. In my experiences, when a woman finally finds a man who is open and willing to communicate his deepest feelings, she doesn't know what to do with him. She'll think he's a wuss and not a "take charge" guy.


Agreed. This is a strong statement, but more often than not, it is a true. The girls want the guys to open up, show their true feelings...cry perhaps...once they see this, a light switches in their heads to dump the guy...don't fall trap to this, it's a test.

Roko


I totally disagree with this, if anything I think the culture teaches this, and some men (and women) go for it. But true women who really wish for real and true love, won't run at the first time a man opens up to them. Having a soft side to go along with the more manly side is not a bad thing at all, or at least it shouldn't be.