When I signed up to this (and a couple of other sites) I was sceptical - I didn't think you could meet your match online. Not really.

Well, I suspended my judgement and took the plunge and here I am. Now I do believe it's possible, in fact I've seen a fair few people hook up with great success on dating sites.

However, here I still am. Single.

I'm pretty sure I'm not a looser or a sorry case. Hell, it's an effort of will to write such a whiny post at all (whining -really- isn't my style). I'm not sure I'm all that good looking, but I'm happy with how I look. For some reason I just don't seem to be able to get any response or interest from people.

It's beginning to wear a bit thin really, I'm not built to be single and this chronic lack of TLC isn't doing Mike any favours. Where is she hiding? I'm certain I'll meet this girl, this Girl who'll laugh at my silly ways, this Girl who'll come out into the hills with me, this Girl who'll share my curiosity for everything and anything. This Girl who'll spark my interest like a supernova.

So, Mingle2 I put the following question to you:

Can you find me this Girl?

and please, can you find her soon?

M

You have to wish with all your

Have you tried the upgrade?

You sound like an awesome guy, and very very funny. Maybe the fact you live in England doesn't help????

I can send her over soon but it is going to cost you........

get yourself down the Crown and Septer

or the Castle Green

full of wemons mate

Nope, Is it worth all that? I might look into it as my little treat this month...



Ahh, the Englishers are few and far between to be sure - and as a whole I think we're less favourable towards the whole online dating thing. But if you think about it, if I believe that I can meet my match online, and I'm the kind of guy who'd go online and start looking, surely the kind of girl I'd like to meet would be the kind of girl who'd be inclined to do the same? Just how fuzzy is my logic getting here?

Still, there are people on here and many, many awesome people too. There are Englishers out and about.

I'm very definitely out and looking for love, my plea is borne of frustration. And possibly insomnia... but lets concentrate ont he romantic one, shall we?




Bah! Take your easy solutions and get! I'm living for the open Mic nights at Perfect 5th atm. Maybe a more varied pint-acquiring system is required to snare a likely female?

Joy was being sarcastic about the upgrade!

It took me a year on Mingle before I met someone. Well, actually, we meet right off but a year before I trusted him enough to meet.

Be patient!

Dating someone should not be taken lightly. This is your happiness, health, finances, personal life, etc. I think people jump into bad situations too fast or they don’t consider how badly a person can screw up their life if they are not careful -- even the most casual dating.

This is your life! Be patient!

ive got a female friend who lives near you.

ill hook you up if you like??

ill find a pic

YOU HAVE TO TRY MUTUAL MATCH MAN!!!!!!


















BAD joke,,,IT doesn't work well.

But to be real,,melody is right-on here..
So I can only add that do a local seach as your a long way off here,,,and SEE who's around??
And MAYBE even if the ones close to you are not GREAT.
in your thoughts,,maybe you could stillmeet one or two,,just to do something together,,dance ,,movie,,anything as TWO,,,will help,,and in the mean while,,you might meet HER on here..??
Just a thought man,,,good luck..

her name is princess pretty

interested??

Granted, and some damn good advice, thankyou

...But (there had to be a but, right?), How does one commit to anything if the second one thinks of a date one extrapolates into the future all the endless ways in which things can go bad or one can get hurt? How can anyone even contemplate a date under such stringent controls?

I'm enough of a hopeless romantic to feel that I'd rather risk it all, fall apart and rebuild myself time and time again. Each time knowing that it might happen again and each time it being the worse for it. It seems more noble to throw myself at something whole-heartedly and fail than to watch the opportunity flutter away. How can anyone feel regret for an opportunity that exploded when they reached for it?

...for that matter how can anybody get away with overextending his metaphors quite so shamelessly?

You get my point? I'm happy to be reckless and throw myself at something - it's all I've ever been able to do.

OMG. Where have you been all my life?!

OK,,,THIS REALLY PISSES ME OFF HERE!!!!




WHERE DID "YOU" GET THIS PICTURE OF MY EX AT??????????










Well,,maybe very CLOSE,,,,lol joking man

You chaps crack me up.

I'm gonna scoot for the night methinks - I'll check in tomorrow and see if the Mingle crowd answer my pleas

Nunight folks and folkesses.

Do a search before bed and see if ONE's THERE......?

Have a goodnight man..!!!!!!

Searched, found, and messaged. Here's hoping eh?

COOL,,thats all ya can do...

You've been here less than a month, give it more time before you get frantic. And post more in the forums, that's how many people meet. Personally, unless I've seen you in the forums, I'd really rather not talk to you. Good luck.

Sweets, you are still young. Keep living and enjoying your life. Being single sucks, but being in a crappy relationship because you are tired of being alone sucks even more! Only if you were a free years older and closer!