Getting laid is easy, realationships are hard. I find that when me and a girl are just hanging out everything is fine, as soon as we put that lable boyfriend, girlfriend into effect a couple of months go by fine than all of a sudden I'm the worst boyfriend ever. What I don't understand is everybodies looking for that connection and wants to feel wanted by another but why do people make it hard with some notion of a movie perfect romance. I am completely honest from the get go and keep my word eventually alot of my ex's come back and just want to be friends with bennies. Not to say I am a slut that sleeps with alot of girls but i'm looking for that connection and want to settle down be with one woman who is my best friend, lover, partner, consel, and everything else two people in love should be. These girls that have come gone and come back all tell me they love me and I think keep me around as a comforter but I tell you it sometimes gets to be to much. All I want is for someone to talk to and go through life with but its almost like i'm collecting ex wifes who will always give me the bad feelings and expect me to sooth thiers, all the grief non of the pleasure. Don't get me wrong I have alot of people who care for me and take care of me when I get down. But I don't have that intimate connection with anyone. Please tell me thier is a beautiful nerdy woman out there who loves to travel and understands sometimes you have to have down time to be able to do something wonderful later. And she has goals and reads likes plays, art, is aware of world politics and is willing to fight for her freedoms. Well I'm done just had to vent felt alittle frustated but day dreams over back to the real world.

if you build it, they will come..eventually. maybe the first thing you should do is keep ex's..ex's, otherwise you look like a doormat and that probably isn't a quality you want and it certainly isn't helping you. hang in there, one day someone will recognize you're a keeper. good luck!

First, paragraphs, that was extremly difficult to read. Second, it is more than likely the women you are picking...not the other way around. Most issues come down to choice, we choose the path or the people, then it doesn't work out...and we blame the other people. Third, you have a list of things you want, my suggestion...look until you find them all and don't settle.

Change the type of women you date.

Yep

...or at least they'll breath heavy...

I totally agree

Well seems like the ones you are meeting are not into a long term relationship. Or maybe your getting too serious for them. Keep looking you will find the one that has all the quality's your looking for and you are what they are in fact looking for.

Your sentence structure and spelling is such a mess that I don't understand what you are posting about.

We attract or deflect people because of the attitude we have. The more postive attitude you have the more postive people you will attract.

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