The terms like "Nice Guys Finish Last"..But nobody ever mentions that nice GIRLS finish last as well!..I've seen time and time and time again where a "nice" guy will meet a "nice" girl and a well..not so nice girl..the "nice" guy will go for the not so nice girl instantly..let her completely dog him out then when shes done dogging him he will go back to the nice GIRL and dog HER out when he could have just went for her in the first freakin place..whats wrong with people?!?!

Well, one...there is no such thing as "nice guys/girls." They are typically only "nice" off their own merit or because mommy said they were, usually they have err...well, how to put this lightly...**** it, they are codependent almost always.

Quite honestly, I don't want a girl that will constantly put up with my **** and still compliment me with the same tired *** compliment like "you're sexy" or some other trivial ****.

Man up, life is hard and it doesn't get any easier just because you are "nice."

Its been my experience that its even harder when you're one of the nice people..lol

Its been my experience that its even harder when you're one of the nice people..lol

I agree,, the world is getting just a bit colder and there are far more who think being nice is a weakness or fiction than there are who believe it is attainable, maintainable and real

we get what we ask for,, it is why so many women deal with dead beat dads because women lowered their standards,, now women and men lower their standards when it comes to expecting a certain tact and considerateness in others... so those who are still 'nice' are being lost in the fold,,,,,but dont give up and dont lower your standards,,,

from MW

NICE: 6 a : socially acceptable : well-bred <from a nice family> b : virtuous, respectable <was taught that nice girls don't do that>
7 : polite, kind <that's nice of you to say>


you CERTAINLY seem all of these things and I hope you never settle for a partner who isn't as well

Nope..I don't settle for less than what I know I deserve..which is why I always end up single..cuz I don't take crap just to be able to say I got a man..sooooooo..yeah I think I might just stay single..its easier..lol

I can TOTALLY relate,, but Im not closed off to love, just ALOT more open to meaningful 'friendships' until the right one comes along,,

So if I agree with you, will you answer me? Haha...

I me.

Awww Fear, so JADED!!!
I'm a nice person and it's not just hearsay!! LOL I think some make "nice" sound like "doormat" or butt-kisser and a self-proclaimed moniker to insinuate oneself onto others. "Nice" to me means not a jerk, not totally self-centered, reasonable, affable, moral, patient, kind-hearted, not a user or abuser, (although we all use each other with permission in relationships). Nice does not mean perfect or pliant. It's about giving others chances, AND OURSELVES. I've been too nice at times and gotten a boat load of abuse and hurt for it, but I stick to my guns and I honestly cannot help but be nice. Doesn't mean I'll put up with nefarious creeps or jerkoholics, though. And it doesn't mean I'm "nice" 100% of the time. One can only turn one's cheek so often, you know??

I'm not jaded, I'm bitter.

Honestly I think many of those that put themselves within the nice guy/girl category fail to mention other issues they may have.

And yes it never fails that at times when someone is with this nice guy/girl they end up finding them boring and see someone else that catches their attention and they seem to go with the excitement. Even if it don't last the one with the one that was boring will not last either.

Problem with too many is lack of communication.......

Life is meant to have fun not sit back and waste away.... there is always something that two can go do and keep the communication flowing...