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Topic: Ok..so I have always heard...
ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:36 PM
my ex girlfriend slapped me in my face
it broke the skin i bled all over
i didnt say a word
i got laid off for a month
and after living with me for 6 years
she moved in with a dude who isnt even a legal citizen
:smile:

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:37 PM
Hummmmmmmmm ones must look at it this way if one is a good girl/guy and they drop you for someone else. Be thankful for it was not what you thought it was. You see if they really wanted to be with you and it was meant to be they would still be there right by your side.

No relationship can flourish when only one thinks this is the one unless that feeling is mutual it will slowly die and fade away.....

Maybe the relationship was lacking something they thought they found it with someone else but found out later it was not there either. Regardless if it was or not it was not there with the first one they left either or they would not have found the need to leave..

no photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:37 PM

So if I agree with you, will you answer me? Haha...
yes...laugh

ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:39 PM
and um duh
nice guys/girls finish last because
people want disposable relationships
which is i think its what i was just saying

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:41 PM

I get tired of hearing that nice people are supposed to be boring. I'm far flung from being boring and have references to prove it!! laugh laugh laugh I'm nice with spice!! :wink:
Anyway, really, what is boring is "not nice", self-centered, egotistical show offs and game players yawn . It gets REALLY OLD, really fast!! And that's why those types of attractions fizzle so fast. Too much unnecessary, built-in drama that comes off like "B" movie material.


Lmao did not mean to imply nice guy/girls are boring that was only example.whoa slaphead

Besides hell I consider me one of the nice or good ones and hell no one knows what I will say and always have something to say at that. I still love to do many things I'm not hung up on myself helllllllllllll I would be a good catch well if anyone can handle me but I have my issues as well...

But as I said if they leave ya for that wild thang or bad girl/guy your better off anyway...bigsmile

ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:43 PM
whoop whoop

ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:44 PM
after 6 years im better off. awesome

isaac_dede's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:47 PM
nice girls=non-adventerous(not always) but say things like "I can't do that, I'm a nice girl..."

Not-so-nice girls=..."sure i'm down"(not always)


Nice sometimes means reserved(both guys/girls) but again not always...but that is the overall impression.

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:50 PM

after 6 years im better off. awesome


Hummm I have had 2 of them one for 10 years one for 12 years before they ended and yes honestly truth is I'm a better person without them neither one is truly happy where they are today.

But.........hey they made their bed let them lay in it....:thumbsup:

ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:50 PM
whoop whoop

ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:53 PM
lets just agree that relationships
are imperfect and leave it to chance
cuz we're all over-thinkin' this like a
professor in drag

ImJustaMan's photo
Fri 04/09/10 12:59 PM
TxsGal3333 thanx 4 the wisdom
mcl to the o's and sorry to any drag professors
much love to you guys

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/09/10 01:00 PM
There is no such thing as perfect only what fits your lifestyle.

Over thinking naw it is just reality myself at my age the way I see it if it is gonna happen it will if not so be it.

Believe me it will not stop me from living and going to do the things I want too. If it so be I have someone fine if not fine.

The way I see it take me as I'm or walk away if they choose to walk a way then it was for the best we learn our lessons within life and move on.............

It one is not happy with themselves they will never be happy with another nor can someone else make you happy. You have to be happy with yourself first......whoa

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Fri 04/09/10 01:26 PM
Edited by msharmony on Fri 04/09/10 01:27 PM

its cuz nice = boring
trust me im a nicer guy than you and i know
whats goin down in this b!tch a55 piece
bein with a boring nice guy/girl is makin chicks/dudes
feel old and boring/getthe fear of forever
plus if your man/girl isnt full of 5h!t
what will you complain about
to your friends to seem cool?? whoop whoop mcl



being nice is only boring if one doesnt enjoy nice

and thats cool, cause everyone has a preference

I am told by others that I am nice,, I have NEVER been told I am boring.....I am capable of all types of NON boring things, like watching sports, going to concerts, shooting darts, bowling, traveling, dancing, singing, laughing, cracking jokes , etc,,,,

People can still be 'fun' while maintaining some standards and ethics and treating others with decency.

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Fri 04/09/10 02:57 PM
Kristy, (or is it Kristie), you are one of the nicest people on here and you are a hottie in your own right!
I found me a boring nice guy and I AM LOVING IT!! He's fabulous and actually far from boring. I hope this will be forever for me and I hope a forever guy for you!

TxsGal3333's photo
Fri 04/09/10 04:59 PM

Kristy, (or is it Kristie), you are one of the nicest people on here and you are a hottie in your own right!
I found me a boring nice guy and I AM LOVING IT!! He's fabulous and actually far from boring. I hope this will be forever for me and I hope a forever guy for you!


Awwwww I'm happy for you girl to be honest I like the ones that are easy going and not in such a rush. Ya know those kind that know what they want with little drama.....

Hummmmmmmmmm well as for me lets just say I have found one lately that might fit that bill for me bigsmile still getting to know each other. Shhshshs all I know he can handle me as much as I talk and well that is saying something all by it's self:laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Only time will tell .............whoa

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