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Topic: teenager love
Atlantis75's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:43 PM
When you were a young teen, did you love someone secretly? Or openly?

Since I was about 10, I was in love with a girl in middle school but never dared to tell her. This went on for a good while...around the time I was 16 I started to forget about her and look for someone else.

willy_cents's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:47 PM
heck, when I was a teenage I was in love with every member of the opposite sex that walked past....lol...haven't changed a bitpitchfork

justme659's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:51 PM
Secretly, And he was out of my league. I still remember his piercing blue eyes and melt my soul smile.

mssilverfox's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:51 PM
Yes, I was a freshman in high school..He was my very first love and we went together off and on all thru hs.. He was a yr older and when he graduated he moved to California.. I was devastated.. We met again many yrs later, had one night together and then he died....:cry: brokenheart

msmyka's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:51 PM

Yes, we were pretty good friends in HS and I recently found him on Facebook... apparently his GF doesn't allow him to be friends with even remotely good looking females and promptly removed me from his page.

11JD11's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:54 PM


Yes, we were pretty good friends in HS and I recently found him on Facebook... apparently his GF doesn't allow him to be friends with even remotely good looking females and promptly removed me from his page.


Talk about an ego boost. should be nice to know your too hot to be his friend.

willy_cents's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:55 PM


Yes, we were pretty good friends in HS and I recently found him on Facebook... apparently his GF doesn't allow him to be friends with even remotely good looking females and promptly removed me from his page.
<~getting facebook page so you can be a friend on itdrool

msmyka's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:55 PM

Not really apparently she does this a lot.... I would never let a guy pull that crap on me.

11JD11's photo
Fri 06/18/10 07:58 PM
Sounds like she has trust issues. Sucks for him.

Queene123's photo
Fri 06/18/10 08:07 PM
i actually had a major crush on this boy in first grade. yea i know. it was cute... we moved before the following yr so i didnt see him. but i rememberd his last name, i found the address i thought was his as to find out it belong ot his grandma i got a letter from him when i was about 13 he sent me a pic and he looked the same he had a baby face

my mom and i went down to klamath falls later and we had seen him at his step dads gas station. so i talked to him a bit. but i was shy at 13
but over the past seveal years i have been curious about him.. just to see how hes doing... no he doesnt have a facebook i havent found him on there.. but i belive i found his home addy and phone but never botherd to call or send a letter

chelsea466's photo
Fri 06/18/10 08:17 PM
I moved to hamilton when I was in grade 1 and became good friends with the boy who lived behind me and we use to hang out all the time. Everyday, evening and weekend. I moved back to St.Thomas 5 years later and I have seen him since and we talk on facebook but I have never told him just because he was like the brother I never had. Who knows maybe one day I will tell him.

EquusDancer's photo
Fri 06/18/10 10:09 PM
In secret. I was the quiet one at school and the couple of guys I found attractive were way out of my league.

Atlantis75's photo
Sat 06/19/10 09:27 AM
Edited by Atlantis75 on Sat 06/19/10 09:28 AM

In secret. I was the quiet one at school and the couple of guys I found attractive were way out of my league.


How does someone or someones to be "out of the league" of someone's else "league" ? I assume, this isn't about football or baseball teams.

EquusDancer's photo
Sat 06/19/10 11:03 AM


In secret. I was the quiet one at school and the couple of guys I found attractive were way out of my league.


How does someone or someones to be "out of the league" of someone's else "league" ? I assume, this isn't about football or baseball teams.


One tends to be on the outside looking in when one moves around a lot. My views were far wider then most anyone at any of the schools I went to due to moving to different states. Small town mentality can't handle the difference, and while I was quiet, I wasn't going to be walked all over just to fit in, which made it worse.

I wasn't going to be a cheerleader just to fit into that whole clique, nor play with the jocks. I saw no point in beating a sheep half to death just to fit in to the farmer/FFA group. (And yes, I saw that happen).

jadday's photo
Sat 06/19/10 06:50 PM
I loved him openly from the time I was 13 until I was 21. We were inseparable all throughout high school. 8 years and 2 kids later we both grew up and grew apart.

thayet153's photo
Sat 06/19/10 07:31 PM
In High School the only guys I were 'in love' with were fictional, because of course at the time I believed boys were better in the books...

unsure's photo
Sat 06/19/10 07:43 PM
I was actually IN love with my brother's best friend for OH SO MANY YEARS!!! I think EVERYONE knew it because I was so shy and quiet BUT when he was around...I was just crazy acting.
I have always said that he IS my "fantasy love." I would never want to date him because it would ruin my fantasy!! He just recently got a divorce and my family was like..OMG THERE YOU GO!!
My children know about him and actually just met him about 1 1/2 years ago when my Dad passed away. The first thing out of their mouths were..OH SO YOU ARE BRIAN!!! blushing

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sat 06/19/10 08:16 PM

Yes, I was a freshman in high school..He was my very first love and we went together off and on all thru hs.. He was a yr older and when he graduated he moved to California.. I was devastated.. We met again many yrs later, had one night together and then he died....:cry: brokenheart


OMG!!! What did you DO to the poor guy?? lol

ValentinaSS's photo
Sat 06/19/10 08:37 PM
i married my teen love

mssilverfox's photo
Sat 06/19/10 08:41 PM


Yes, I was a freshman in high school..He was my very first love and we went together off and on all thru hs.. He was a yr older and when he graduated he moved to California.. I was devastated.. We met again many yrs later, had one night together and then he died....:cry: brokenheart


OMG!!! What did you DO to the poor guy?? lol




hmmmmm I'll never tell...laugh pitchfork bigsmile

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