i have had long lasting relationship ,. But always get bord! how can i keep the flame lit. I just dont see how couples do it! I go from being in love to just loving what happens to them like a friend. what is that?

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sorry! I'm not gay!

I was planing on deleting my profile but before i do..i just want to get honest opinions. A better look at myself.. Maybe i'm the problem idk.

Hummm at times we are better if we in fact look within first. Make sure what it is you really want... Your young don't focus so much on a relationship right now. Focus on life, work and just having fun....

Well it might help by not advertising your looking for a active partner women tend to shy away from those that only want a booty call. Well unless that is all they are looking for.

But when the right one comes along you want have to worry about staying interested in them, you will wonder where they have been all this time.....

Good time to break out the Kink...that always chases away boredom

$.02

Look at the type of women you're choosing, maybe that's the issue.

The flame burns low....its what happens.....having the friendship to endure the latter years and companionship is all important...distance can rekindle the flame one person doing their own thing and not constantly being together.....the longest burning flame I ever had the worked out of town at least once a month for a week to two weeks at a time.....distance makes it grow.....constant vicinity makes it blow

Maaaaaybe its not "all" the women

You might have some sort of attention disorder?

You seem like a great guy but it could be the girls your choosing.

Your profile states you want an activity partner. Instead maybe change it to friends. Everything has to start somewhere and friends is a great place to start. Take the time to make friends and get to know people.

You also only joined 2 months ago. Just keep posting in the forums and have fun. It's free and it isn't a miracle worker. What's the rush anyways? Stick around and enjoy the ride.

I am going to guess that you are boring.
Relying on someone else to make you whole.
Ebb and flow.
Be the paddle.

Maybe you worry too much about seeing your woman as a source of entertainment. Find a girl that likes to do the same things you do so you can do them together.

It's a lot easier to change the activity that you and your lady do than it is to just change the lady.

Hope that helps, bro.

Well if you're go from being in love as you say so many times to just loving them. I don't think you really were ever in love.


To add, women are not toys that when you get bored. Toss them out.

when you find out let me know......

Not sure how many relationships you have actually been in that are really serious, but dont get all crazy on yourself. Dont delete your profile, let everyone get a chance to know you. thats when real relationships bloom.

Ok Ken from your profile, and form seeign your comments on the forums. I'n ot sure its you. Perhaps its the women you are picking. If you actually connect with this person emotionally, than you can jsut start experimenting. If you bored sexually- get creative. someimes after you've been with someone a long time(like years) you get into a comfortable type of love. but that does not mean that the flame is not still there. Relationships take work on both parts darlin. So you can always try new things, like taking up dancing, roller blading, biking, hiking, cooking classe. soemthing you can learn together and have another common inerest. Good Luck and If you do decide to deactivate, Good Luck with your business and you will be missed.

Are you sure its YOU thats getting bored??

I agree, sometimes just doing something spontaneous can be a pick-me-up, taking a weekend drive to the country and spending a night in a local inn, pack a lunch jump in the car and go somewhere fun (a park, an aquarium, zoo etc) and enjoy.