Topic: What a joke!
fstock87's photo
Tue 11/01/11 08:19 PM
255 local matches... and about 3 of them have been on in the last month... if all I wanted to do was post in forums and chat with people hundreds of miles away there are tons of sites for that!

southern_bee's photo
Tue 11/01/11 08:26 PM
yer doing it wrong.

fstock87's photo
Tue 11/01/11 08:30 PM
ok, what should i do differently?

southern_bee's photo
Tue 11/01/11 08:33 PM
from my experience i dont use this site as a dating site,i use it to talk to people bc ive met a lot of great and nice helpful and funny people and i use other sites to find people to date,which is were i met my new boyfriend,

fstock87's photo
Tue 11/01/11 08:44 PM
pretty much my point exactly... this dont look much like a dating site.

southern_bee's photo
Tue 11/01/11 08:49 PM
Edited by southern_bee on Tue 11/01/11 08:50 PM
personally for me its not but there have people that have met and now have a relationshp

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 11/01/11 09:11 PM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Tue 11/01/11 09:17 PM
It can be both. Have patience and give people in your area a chance to see what you are about in the forums. If your posts are upbeat and amicable your responses will go up.

Your profile is not going to help your chances. When you make a better effort then your mutual matches will be notified and more people in your age group/location will check in.

lizziebee89's photo
Tue 11/01/11 09:27 PM
try myyearbook.com

RainbowTrout's photo
Tue 11/01/11 10:54 PM
One of my favorite buddies was 4000 miles away. We were so close.:smile:

msharmony's photo
Wed 11/02/11 08:16 AM
there are so many resources here, why just utilize mutual match?

there are nudges and people who viewed, and you can even 'search' by your own criteria

I find many of the nudges and people who viewed are usually ONLINE , because it doesnt work in two weeks, doesnt mean it doesnt work,,,

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 08:44 AM

255 local matches... and about 3 of them have been on in the last month... if all I wanted to do was post in forums and chat with people hundreds of miles away there are tons of sites for that!


Wasn't your last thread about the same thing? What do you hope to get from these kinds of threads?

newarkjw's photo
Wed 11/02/11 09:03 AM
Hell your from Ohio. There is nothing but steers and oh nevermind. It is what it is.......smokin

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 09:34 AM

255 local matches... and about 3 of them have been on in the last month... if all I wanted to do was post in forums and chat with people hundreds of miles away there are tons of sites for that!


You are right, this is not your ‘usual’ dating website so can understand your frustrations … in saying that though, I think you’re being a tad naïve .. anyone who is serious about dating someone doesn’t settle with one website, they join multiple sites in order to improve their chances of meeting someone.

Good luck

no photo
Wed 11/02/11 09:46 AM


255 local matches... and about 3 of them have been on in the last month... if all I wanted to do was post in forums and chat with people hundreds of miles away there are tons of sites for that!


You are right, this is not your ‘usual’ dating website so can understand your frustrations … in saying that though, I think you’re being a tad naïve .. anyone who is serious about dating someone doesn’t settle with one website, they join multiple sites in order to improve their chances of meeting someone.

Good luck



They also don't rely solely on dating sites to meet people. This should just be one way to meet people. Everyone should be getting out and meeting people in other ways as well.

alookat101's photo
Wed 11/02/11 09:47 AM

255 local matches... and about 3 of them have been on in the last month... if all I wanted to do was post in forums and chat with people hundreds of miles away there are tons of sites for that!
Personally I find Mingle2 to be one if not the best meeting websites that are out there..,A friend here is only a key stroke away and that's every single day.

chrisdamu's photo
Wed 11/02/11 02:21 PM
don't the other sites charge? i mean this site is free and if it's dead why would i go to a site that charges?? this isn't about being negative this is stating the facts. this site is dead!

WolfEyez's photo
Wed 11/02/11 02:28 PM
Edited by WolfEyez on Wed 11/02/11 02:28 PM
Every match that shows up for me has not been online in like forever. But I keep my account on this site because I've met some really great people.

As for the dating aspect, I use other free dating sites for that.

motowndowntown's photo
Wed 11/02/11 03:31 PM
Yeah, geez, I've been on here for like five minutes already and haven't gotten one marriage proposal.

smilesatyou's photo
Wed 11/02/11 04:52 PM

Yeah, geez, I've been on here for like five minutes already and haven't gotten one marriage proposal.


Do you mean in 5 mins today or since 2008 after 11,000 ish posts? :P

boredinaz06's photo
Wed 11/02/11 05:31 PM

255 local matches... and about 3 of them have been on in the last month... if all I wanted to do was post in forums and chat with people hundreds of miles away there are tons of sites for that!


I think your standards are too high! Have bottle of cough syrup then look for chicks!