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| Topic: why is it so hard for single moms to find a good man | |
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It doesn't change much when you are 50 and empty nested lol! Except maybe the guys get younger that show any interest at all in you.
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I raised someone else's child for 22 years. now I'm alone but enjoying the grandchildren that child has blessed me with. as for buttons: whats up cutie?
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Most guys see single moms and think their easy! I for one don't think that but being a single father myself I know that single fathers tend to be looked at like dead beats! Unfortunately it comes with the single parent look! Being a single mom has nothing to do with being easy, thats insulting , im a single mom never been easy , desperate anything different than I ever was before, I take care of my kids on my own , I dont need childcsupport or a dad for them its not a prison sentence to be with people that have kids, were human, were fun, were normal .My life hasn't been put on hold if anything its better . so do I ,I raised my kids with my own effort I faced lot's of trials and hardship now with the grace of God my daughter is in university,, |
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Hey! there are millions of good men out there. The reason single moms think there is no good guy out there is that, most single moms were once hurt by someone they so much loved and when they find one who wants to occupy their tender heart, they become scared of giving the guy the chance to prove himself worthy. Maybe single moms should stop using their past experience to judge their "yet to come" experience. If you don't give that guy a try, you will never know if he is the right guy. I am proud to be a single dad :)
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Hey! there are millions of good men out there. The reason single moms think there is no good guy out there is that, most single moms were once hurt by someone they so much loved and when they find one who wants to occupy their tender heart, they become scared of giving the guy the chance to prove himself worthy. Maybe single moms should stop using their past experience to judge their "yet to come" experience. If you don't give that guy a try, you will never know if he is the right guy. I am proud to be a single dad :) True  I was widowed 11 years ago, my life changed from one moment to the next. The last thing on my mind was a relationship - my concerns were: - will I be able to fend for myself and bring up a balanced human being - will I be able to offer the parental support and guidance of both parents as a single mom - a number of 'friends' thought that I was a single threat and began retreating, so I got to spring clean the friends list. - everyone else had their own opinion of how I should live my life - I now live on another continent and 15000km away, - nature took its course and I met someone who was right for me at the time but had to failed marriages and his idea of family was paying alimony and having nothing to do with children, - the result, being single by choice for 4 years has helped me form a very good bond with my daughter, those around me, my family etc....my daughter is a well balanced pre-teen, well-mannered and is now starting to see that relationships are a healthy way of life ...... We all have a different pace, different needs physically, emotionally, spiritually and mentally and so you have to pace yourself, be proud of who you are and keep the little ones respect above all else......the rest does take its course........ 
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hye.i'm a single mom for 2 kids 9&5 yrs old.i take care my kids and a sick mom.the need to have a partner or husband is just to have a complete family and always accompanion each other.to meet someone with dirty thoughts and narrow minded is the thing i will avoided.you can share yr experience with pleasure.i'm not good in english but try to my best to understand you.
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One guy can make you hate all the guys,but one guy can teach you that not all the guys are same...
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up until just a few years ago i didn't mind dating a single mom,but then i realized,it's hard to find a single woman above the age of 25 that doesn't already have 4 or 5 kids and doesn't have their tubes tied.because i would love to be a dad someday,so now i've chose to look for single women with 0 kids that would like to have kids someday.
also another issue i have with single moms is,us guys are always being told "my kids have a dad,they don't need another one".ok so if i meet your kids and they turn out to be little brats,i'm supposed to sit back and do nothing?screw that! |
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Well, I couldn't agree with you more, but... about nature taking its course in a relationship, I think that is not true. Nature has no role to play in your relationship. God has given to every man the "will" power. You decide how you want to love and live.Uhm... we all have individual difference, it worked for you that way, it may not work for the next lady. You shouldn't use another woman's story love story to compare with yours. Just allow your heart, not your feelings, to guide you. And also involve God in your decision.
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Well, I couldn't agree with you more, but... about nature taking its course in a relationship, I think that is not true. Nature has no role to play in your relationship. God has given to every man the "will" power. You decide how you want to love and live.Uhm... we all have individual difference, it worked for you that way, it may not work for the next lady. You shouldn't use another woman's story love story to compare with yours. Just allow your heart, not your feelings, to guide you. And also involve God in your decision.
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Well, I couldn't agree with you more, but... about nature taking its course in a relationship, I think that is not true. Nature has no role to play in your relationship. God has given to every man the "will" power. You decide how you want to love and live.Uhm... we all have individual difference, it worked for you that way, it may not work for the next lady. You shouldn't use another woman's story love story to compare with yours. Just allow your heart, not your feelings, to guide you. And also involve God in your decision.
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Im a single mum to two beautiful girls aged 6 and nearly 4. And find it hard to get a man the minute they hear kids they run a mile and never hear from them again. But my kids will always come first im sure the right guy will come along eventually im in no rush im only in my late 20s yet ;-)
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Am a single mum of one and I know what u mean its hard to find someone even more so am from glasgow and dont hav alot of family here.
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Hey am a single mummy of one and find Iit hard to meet anyone as I am from glasgow and cnt get out to meet anyone as dont anyone where I live. And most guys I hav meet Iin the past just want sex.
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Hey am a single mummy of one and find Iit hard to meet anyone as I am from glasgow and cnt get out to meet anyone as dont anyone where I live. And most guys I hav meet Iin the past just want sex.
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Opss my post has show up a few times lol
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I think whether you have kids or not is irrelevant if someone likes you than it shouldn't make a difference.
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Hey,Am Paulinho.HI pretty I AM new here so i am
looking to meet new people, a friend and a lover.I am seeking for a special person to be a friendship, a true friend walks in when the whole world walks out and one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's want me to pamper me and love me unconditionally,who is kind, sincere, honest,passionate, loyal,sense.... |
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Hey,Am Paulinho.HI pretty I AM new here so i am
looking to meet new people, a friend and a lover.I am seeking for a special person to be a friendship, a true friend walks in when the whole world walks out and one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows. Someone who's want me to pamper me and love me unconditionally,who is kind, sincere, honest,passionate, loyal,sense.... |
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I'm a single mom of two kids one in preschool and one in diapers I can't find a guy for nothing only guys I seem to attract are fake
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