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| Topic: why is it so hard for single moms to find a good man | |
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Don't even.. If ur a good lady who's ready to get out there, do it n don't even stress half the crap regurgitated here.. PEOPLE make good friends, lovers, parents.. Don't accept the terms of someone who hasn't levelled up to the game yet.. Work on u n ur kids so ur ready for the right match for u.. Single parents are the elite squad, some folks just need to prestige up a bit more to attempt this platform.. Our lives are hectic and removed from self thinking because we steward other humans.. Don't ever feel regretful that some chump doesn't understand that.. Dude came up into my house n couldn't work, help, go n check the roof or kick a footy with my boy cos he's awkward n needs an eight year psychological impact statement , trust, im talking to him reeeeal slow n kicking him out.. That guy indignus wrote the walkthru for people without kids.. They need to read it, not for u to feel bad mate.. Plenty of self respecting, hard working parents won't pay that children as baggage nonsense.. We kno u we're always privelliged to get a look in on our babies all day, n me personally, whilst I agree that working on yourself in life in general is the best way to be a role model n move forward in life.. Solend er in profile changes nothing, no pics or preferences.. The world can see here is a hot blooded woman from the deep dark south n sex is just as important to me as my motherhood.. Work it.. Id rather ask those without kids respectfully Parent thier Sex lives better n pay heed to what the man said cos if the profile says: Miss Thang... Lives Here.. Has Kids Yall better behave n have some respect n bring ur A game or hand the controller over to someone who can yeah. My thoughts anyway babe id hate to see anyone catch a bad vibe from this topic A lot of sense spoken here me thinks. |
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I don't think single dads are deadbeats at least understand what a single moms go through I agree, single dads are in the same position, so they understand what it's like. And I think being a single parent, mom or dad, shows a certain amount of responsibility and capability. 
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Well men r woman with no kids r have never been around kids r whatevr the case may be usually don't want someone with kids I think. Maybe they're scared r intimidated. But for me a sin gle dad, have no problem finding Interest in a single mom. Because a woman that can do it by herself has my respect. And it shows me that they have good character. Cuz it's hard to be a single parent ...men r woman. And if a man r a woman don't want to get to know u because of that then f#*% em!!!! U don't want them around you r your kids!
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you know why it's so hard for single mom's, and single women for that matter...cause your all out chasing hero's....tv and media has everyone believe they are a Kardashian and there is a wealthy, johnny depp look-alike out there for them if they just wait...then when a good, hard working, honest guy comes along but isn't physically beautiful or a jet-setter(we've been bamboozled to think this and the lottery are gonna come our way) you compare him to this hero image you have and when he falls short you convince yourself you can do better...good luck with that.
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you know why it's so hard for single mom's, and single women for that matter...cause your all out chasing hero's....tv and media has everyone believe they are a Kardashian and there is a wealthy, johnny depp look-alike out there for them if they just wait...then when a good, hard working, honest guy comes along but isn't physically beautiful or a jet-setter(we've been bamboozled to think this and the lottery are gonna come our way) you compare him to this hero image you have and when he falls short you convince yourself you can do better...good luck with that. deadbeat, looser, sperm donor **** head, are the words for the father who chooses not to be there. these women that want the above will quickly dump or not even go near a man who she thinks will run when the going gets tough because she needs to think for her kids too not just herself. now men might think they are capable of dating a single mom and being there but its the mother that can read you like a book because she has to make the right choice. a lot of men think that a single mom will settle more easily but that's not the case, it does not matter if your prince charming with a seven inch coat hanger, if she feels you might not be there for the long haul you wont stand a chance. |
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you know why it's so hard for single mom's, and single women for that matter...cause your all out chasing hero's....tv and media has everyone believe they are a Kardashian and there is a wealthy, johnny depp look-alike out there for them if they just wait...then when a good, hard working, honest guy comes along but isn't physically beautiful or a jet-setter(we've been bamboozled to think this and the lottery are gonna come our way) you compare him to this hero image you have and when he falls short you convince yourself you can do better...good luck with that. deadbeat, looser, sperm donor **** head, are the words for the father who chooses not to be there. these women that want the above will quickly dump or not even go near a man who she thinks will run when the going gets tough because she needs to think for her kids too not just herself. now men might think they are capable of dating a single mom and being there but its the mother that can read you like a book because she has to make the right choice. a lot of men think that a single mom will settle more easily but that's not the case, it does not matter if your prince charming with a seven inch coat hanger, if she feels you might not be there for the long haul you wont stand a chance. I agree with that very much m333...I probably fail to realize that more than I care to admit when functioning in a potential relationship with a woman with children... |
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Im a single mom of 2 toddlers and it seems like all men want is sex I agree with you..i just dont understand why most of the guy just only want sex or dirty talks when they learn that a woman has kid.. |
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i am a full time single dad i have 2 childen under the age of 6. i have fouund that all that women want is sex. no one is willing to commit any more and people seem cold and heartless , and just out for themselves. I think a lot of men are this way as well... truth is all of society is this way now a days, internet has made it so easy for people to become sleezy, unfortunatly making it hard for some of us "old fashioned" people, some of us wanting something amazing... many of us get used and end up hurt... |
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Hi, im a single mother too, to one child and i think its not about them just wanting sex but how available are you? Do you make it easy or not? Ur a mother,a diamond.
 i personaly take alot of my time about relationships ( i learn from the last) it drops off the bad apples  |
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I am a single mother. Yes I think it is hard but as a mother it is your job to really get to know a man before you even let him in your life a little bit. Every guy you meet you should be thinking would this guy be someone I could have my children around every day and be a role model if not let them kick rocks. If the guy you date cant see how precious a child is and the time that you are taking away just to see him then he is not for you or your children. It may get annoying because you have to invest alot of time but I say invest the time and save your heart. I am a firm believer in it takes a real man to be a step father to another man child. I would never even date a guy that cant understand that my schedule may change or my child may get sick the last minute or that I present myself in a respectful manner and deserve respect because I am still human and I am still a woman. Alot of people do not understand a single parents life a real man or woman will take the time to learn.
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I am a single mother. Yes I think it is hard but as a mother it is your job to really get to know a man before you even let him in your life a little bit. Every guy you meet you should be thinking would this guy be someone I could have my children around every day and be a role model if not let them kick rocks. If the guy you date cant see how precious a child is and the time that you are taking away just to see him then he is not for you or your children. It may get annoying because you have to invest alot of time but I say invest the time and save your heart. I am a firm believer in it takes a real man to be a step father to another man child. I would never even date a guy that cant understand that my schedule may change or my child may get sick the last minute or that I present myself in a respectful manner and deserve respect because I am still human and I am still a woman. Alot of people do not understand a single parents life a real man or woman will take the time to learn. We single male Melmacian parents understand.
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I to am a single mother. I have 3. My sons' dad and i are still legally married, but its because he is a dead beat who wont help and i cant afford to raise my kids AND pay for the divorce both just yet. However....we are separated. And i AM a single mother.
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HEY IF UR LOOKING FOR SEX THEN I WILL HELP YOU PLS CONNECT WITH US.
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Edited by
FLIGHTPHOENIX
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Wed 11/26/14 02:47 AM
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Most guys see single moms and think their easy! I for one don't think that but being a single father myself I know that single fathers tend to be looked at like dead beats! Unfortunately it comes with the single parent look! I would never look at them as dead beats dad's they are awesome my son has play date's with there kid's. Dame an easy brahahaha I don't think some women go into over protective mode when it comes to there kid's. . 
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In my opinion ,single moms who has had bad relaitionships tend to follow in that pattern of attraction,however there are some amaizong men out there who dont scare of easilly but the connection has to be there,and i agree when most guys see a single mom they think "easy target"but that dont mean you have too fall for it!i think it takes a real man to be willing to take on loving another mans child as his own,for woman it is easier to love a child even when the child is not yours
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I agree. I raised my 3 without help and we are perfectly fine.
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Well miss my thoughts are that when two people share a moment of intamcy the western worlds tends to tell us its a prison sentence the east looks at it as a beautiful experience that two enjoy Google "Osho" and get more insight :-) i don't look at it as a prison sentence <shrug> i was very happy married for 13 + years |
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dah, honey there men. lols
my first priority is my children, and since my daughter is grown its time to play. yea!  
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In my early youth I had some experience with a single mother. She was too emotionally distant and left me believing she only thought of my interest as 'puppy love'.
I had a second relationship years with a woman that was so distant and almost nonchalant about me that I definitely felt I was #5. She had a teenage daughter (#1) that did her best to keep her mother and I away from each other. I stopped seeing her soon after I realized there was no future with the mother. I was left with the feeling of being used as a toy for sexual pleasure by the mother. I did not feel connected or accepted. I enjoyed reading the posts and learning from each of you. It's a shame that most of you have disappeared from this site. It would be good to have some other parents to share experiences and insight as a single parent. Perhaps my words will encourage more participation. bye now... |
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I think the answer is clear, there aren't that many good men compared to good women. Again, why? Because women's survival tool is love. Men's survival tool is power. So, who is going to be the better person? Most men feel threatened unless they control women who's only goal is to love them. It's hard to find a good man who has healthier and smarter ways of using power.
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