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Topic: Mikeys Room For The Honest And Brave
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Wed 06/25/14 01:31 AM
Edited by mikey5360 on Wed 06/25/14 01:59 AM
Good morning everyone,
I would like to keep catching up, once again some of you will be familiar with this story.
With my freshly re assessed quest in mind I posted a picture that posed a question.......the question.



Yes I suppose to most it is obvious..... it��s the key to my heart and it is hidden in my heart room.....corny huh.

This is where I go all metro-sexual guys, so sorry for being sappy, there is some Aussie bloke rooms coming!!

Even though a lot of us are here only for friendship I think it would only be a matter of time before friendships turn to something more substantial, I mean we talk about everything under the sun, we learn about each other in the process, we see what makes other each tick, what makes us happy, what makes us sad, what makes us angry, what we are passionate about and what turns us on or off!.......how can you not start really liking people.

Meeting on the net is a unique way of finding someone. I don��t care if that person is across the other side of the world, great, I really believe my other half isn't just around the corner or in my town, how can that even be.

With billions of people out there what are the odds she is within a few km of me.......nope I just can't accept that, and that is why I am searching the world. If I find her it won��t be possible to jump on the next flight and be there, it has to planned and that takes time, time to get to know one another, thoroughly, without quick sex clouding your judgement.

How many among us have met someone and slept with them pretty much instantly, fallen for them, fell into a relationship and then woken up a few years later and realised you don��t know the other person? Well I will put my hand up......that is what I am talking about.

This place we call mingle affords us a fantastic opportunity to make friends, develop those friendships and maybe......just maybe find the one who is worthy of holding that key and entering the room.





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Wed 06/25/14 04:08 AM


... time to get to know one another, thoroughly, without quick sex clouding your judgement.

How many among us have met someone and slept with them pretty much instantly, fallen for them, fell into a relationship and then woken up a few years later and realised you don��t know the other person? Well I will put my hand up......that is what I am talking about.

This place we call mingle affords us a fantastic opportunity to make friends, develop those friendships and maybe......just maybe find the one who is worthy of holding that key and entering the room.




waving yep

but you gotta be cautious once you meet them in person too unfortunately. The person we meet online is not the full person. Im not talking about scamming, just human nature. communication is mostly non verbal while this medium is mostly verbal.

We are different in person whether we mean to be or not just because all of who we are doesnt translate to what is typed.

once you do actually meet, you really need to get to know them all over again. But indeed you have a leg up on what they think about things.


Yes I agree, it is easy to show our positives but difficult to portray our faults and any nuances that are entirely visual. At least here we have as much time as we want to learn about someone, I'll take a leg, rather than nothing at all

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Wed 06/25/14 04:21 AM

theres just something about being in someones physical presence that changes our behavior. A look, a touch, what they are paying attention to, if they are paying attention to anything...


Ahhhh sorry dear, I wasn't listening, what did you say?

laugh laugh

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Wed 06/25/14 04:45 AM




... time to get to know one another, thoroughly, without quick sex clouding your judgement.

How many among us have met someone and slept with them pretty much instantly, fallen for them, fell into a relationship and then woken up a few years later and realised you don��t know the other person? Well I will put my hand up......that is what I am talking about.

This place we call mingle affords us a fantastic opportunity to make friends, develop those friendships and maybe......just maybe find the one who is worthy of holding that key and entering the room.




waving yep

but you gotta be cautious once you meet them in person too unfortunately. The person we meet online is not the full person. Im not talking about scamming, just human nature. communication is mostly non verbal while this medium is mostly verbal.

We are different in person whether we mean to be or not just because all of who we are doesnt translate to what is typed.

once you do actually meet, you really need to get to know them all over again. But indeed you have a leg up on what they think about things.


Yes I agree, it is easy to show our positives but difficult to portray our faults and any nuances that are entirely visual. At least here we have as much time as we want to learn about someone, I'll take a leg, rather than nothing at all
giggling


Cheeky

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Wed 06/25/14 05:29 AM

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Wed 06/25/14 05:36 AM

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Wed 06/25/14 05:53 AM


This is honest.

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Wed 06/25/14 06:31 AM
I think chemistry plays a big part in finding a partner no matter where they are in the world...I don't limit myself because I'm an immigrant to this country and appreciate cultures in and out of the state...that's why I have a daughter 10yrs old that speaks English,Swahili,and Russian (she Russian and African)because I don't limit myself.....

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Wed 06/25/14 06:38 AM

I think chemistry plays a big part in finding a partner no matter where they are in the world...I don't limit myself because I'm an immigrant to this country and appreciate cultures in and out of the state...that's why I have a daughter 10yrs old that speaks English,Swahili,and Russian (she Russian and African)because I don't limit myself.....


That's a nice piece of sharing early in the morning Tanzy:smile: :smile:

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Wed 06/25/14 07:33 AM

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Wed 06/25/14 03:54 PM
Good morning everyone,

Well you will all know this feeling........my ex is in town for week and I am being blessed with a visit today........oh joy......not.

And thats honest.

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Wed 06/25/14 08:32 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Wed 06/25/14 08:36 PM
A new friend in the making, introduced me to his thread about American Indian Spirituality.......Thanks Jag......there is so much to read and absorb, I am slowly making my way through it.

Every now and then I have come across a post that really strikes a chord with me, this one of them:



It doesn't interest me what you do for a living.

I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting in your heart's longing.

It doesn't interest me how old you are.

I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dreams, for the adventure of being alive.

It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon.

I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain.

I want to know if you can sit in pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it or fix it.

I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own,if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tip of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, or to remember the limitations of being human.

It doesn't interest me if the story you're telling me is true.

I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul.

I want to know if you can be faithful and therefore be trustworthy.

I want to know if you can see beauty even when it is not pretty every day, and if you can source your life from God's presence.

I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of a lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, "Yes!"

It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have.

I want to know if you can get up after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done for the children.

It doesn't interest me who you are, how you came to be here.

I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.

It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied.

I want to know what sustains you from the inside when all else falls away.

I want to know if you can be alone with yourself, and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments.


--- The Invitation - By Oriah Mountain Dreamer - (A Native American Elder)

Thanks Jag....... maybe we all need to ask these questions instead of focusing on the superficial.






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Wed 06/25/14 10:03 PM
Mikey, these are beautiful. I'm going to have to check out the source. Back later.
Hug to you.

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Wed 06/25/14 11:39 PM
No no.. thank you

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Wed 06/25/14 11:48 PM

No no.. thank you


Hey there thanks for popping up, hope you enjoy. :smile:

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Wed 06/25/14 11:53 PM
Deep... Enjoying this so far.

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Wed 06/25/14 11:56 PM

Deep... Enjoying this so far.


Hey man thanks for popping in...welcome.

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Thu 06/26/14 05:09 PM
Bump u back up....love the gifs n pix

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Thu 06/26/14 05:10 PM
Edited by mikey5360 on Thu 06/26/14 05:10 PM

Deep... Enjoying this so far.


Hey bro, I took the liberty of checking out your profile, very well done but add some pics of yourself....there is a bunch of real nice, real girls here I think you will do well.

Thanks for popping up on my metro-sexual thread hahaha

Honest and Brave
Michael

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Thu 06/26/14 05:23 PM
Hah, didn't know this was that, but you're most welcome. Thanks for the suggestion and a topic that sinks deeper than most.
I must refrain from putting up any of my older pics to stop hoards of people from swooning. Don't have any recent ones where I'm actually Prim & proper. laugh

Hope so, trying to bring over a ton of hotties from zoosk recently.. those zoosk guys.... well.. you are not allowed any fun over there.

Just honest, bravery requires fear.

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