Topic: what women want?
bashajones's photo
Thu 08/21/14 10:35 PM
Women want a walk-in 10x20 closet with floor to ceiling shoe racks....

Beachfarmer's photo
Thu 08/21/14 10:40 PM
They like to bounce. bigsmile

Amelinng's photo
Fri 08/22/14 02:18 AM





Not all 'mature' people are experienced....I try to take precautions and do some research, but it could still slip thru' and you won't know until the truth is out about the scam! Then, it may be too late. For now, friendship will suffice. Goodluck with your lady friend!

But my lady friend is well educated and in her 60+ age and had children. Is this not enough to give her experience?!!

Age is not the criteria....a 30+ may be more experienced than a 60+!
If you are not exposed to that kind of environment and life experiences, you will never understand what hit you!

I agree that AGE is not the criteria definitively; however, in all PROBABILITY a 60+ person has experienced much more of life, both good and bad, easy times and hard times and learned how to cope with or handle the problems which come up in everyday life and in relationships, and I believe that is what LUNG was referring to. JMHO :smile:

I agree with Missy that is what I was referring to. Anyway I decided to give my lady friend more time because she is a very good person and there are a few real people these days. Waiting for the circumstances may be will change. flowerforyou flowerforyou


Sorry for 'assuming', Lung! Here's wishing you the best with your lady friend.flowerforyou

Amelinng's photo
Fri 08/22/14 02:21 AM




Not all 'mature' people are experienced....I try to take precautions and do some research, but it could still slip thru' and you won't know until the truth is out about the scam! Then, it may be too late. For now, friendship will suffice. Goodluck with your lady friend!

But my lady friend is well educated and in her 60+ age and had children. Is this not enough to give her experience?!!


Age is not the criteria....a 30+ may be more experienced than a 60+!
If you are not exposed to that kind of environment and life experiences, you will never understand what hit you!

OOOH I like that,,,SOOOO true
BUT what woman want? I havent got a clue,,,UGHHH


That is so true....some of you can be so 'clue-less!!'

myshell711's photo
Fri 08/22/14 11:01 AM


what women want...by phD..no1..
. honesty.
... they want company. they want somebody to understand.them
. they want to know you are really listening. when they are talking.
not that you're just hearing them. but you are comprehending what they're saying.. they want you to reach out and hold their hand..
. they want you to put your arm around them when its cold out.
.. they want you to be that warm fire.
on that cold autumns day...
. they want you to keep the draft from coming in through the windows and doors... they want you to keep the cold out... they want you to keep them warm.. figuratively. spiritually. literally

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Amen, bro,
got it in one (Well...maybe 12 sentences lol)

I am pleasantly surprised by this honest, accurate, insightful and considered answer without basting it in your usual razor-sharp humour (No criticism there as your humour rocks) Thanks for showing that side of you...interesting....




I concur...Although I think it's a generalization...I believe Most people want the above mentioned...Not just women..:)

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 08/22/14 11:06 AM
flowerforyou

myshell711's photo
Fri 08/22/14 11:07 AM


Hey Beachie...flowerforyou

Just gave you a nudge..Took me awhile, forgot how to do that..Haven't been on here in like forever..flowerforyou :smile:

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 08/22/14 11:39 AM
flowerforyou happy

Women want you to be a friend.

Maxisu's photo
Fri 08/22/14 11:53 AM
Edited by Maxisu on Fri 08/22/14 11:57 AM



what women want...by phD..no1..
. honesty.
... they want company. they want somebody to understand.them
. they want to know you are really listening. when they are talking.
not that you're just hearing them. but you are comprehending what they're saying.. they want you to reach out and hold their hand..
. they want you to put your arm around them when its cold out.
.. they want you to be that warm fire.
on that cold autumns day...
. they want you to keep the draft from coming in through the windows and doors... they want you to keep the cold out... they want you to keep them warm.. figuratively. spiritually. literally

.
.




yes, no 1 just inspired me to write later in the creative section...and be more honest about it.

I think it's more complicated than just that.

It needs to be mutual


I once had a guy that also works in show biz being totally taken by me.
In theory, he would have been the perfect match for me
He was extremely smart, friendly, down to earth and an exceptional artist to me
I supported him, believed in him like I would with any artist that I would promote
He was truly in love with me but I was going through a separation with my husband at the time so he was just a a booty call to me.

He however managed to uplift my ego. I was amazed that he would respond to whatever random crap I would send him, putting a lot of thought in it. I LOVED THAT ! It made me feel so special…but still I wasn’t falling in love with him.
Any music, thoughts, poetry I shared, he immediately commented, trying to figure me out, showing interest in me at all times.…when he did Juilliard (school) and I have no musical education at all…

AGAIN I LOVE THAT …still not enough though

As soon as my ex would show interest in me again he became second. I sometimes did not respond to his mails and he kept patient. Even when success started to grow for him he stayed so terribly loyal...making me his priority in between interviews

When he texted me right before going on Ellen Degeneres show I felt proud for him but let him go…and quit answering his calls as I think I would have been unfair...and my own career wasn't doing that well.

Since he has a GF but still keeps texting me every now and then. I have not replied in years and I know he would just come back if I let him know I am in town.
But that would destroy his balance and relationship he has now.

I’m thinking of him because I am now infatuated with someone the same way he was with me and it scares me because I wonder, maybe this time the situation is reverse for me. It sucks….
All that to say, I think no one has loved me as much as he did…but it needs to be more than just warm…it needs to be hot, intense, profound…AND MUTUAL !

That is the difficulty..


bashajones's photo
Fri 08/22/14 02:10 PM

They like to bounce. bigsmile


*bouncing*

no photo
Fri 08/22/14 02:24 PM

They like to bounce. bigsmile


Some bounce better than others ohwell


bashajones's photo
Fri 08/22/14 02:36 PM


They like to bounce. bigsmile


Some bounce better than others ohwell




ELMO!!!!

Bentkat51's photo
Fri 08/22/14 04:05 PM
Edited by Bentkat51 on Fri 08/22/14 04:08 PM
Want a man strong enough to allow me to b strong...and strong enough to lift me up when i am not.

no photo
Fri 08/22/14 05:36 PM

I want someone to open my pickle jar....:tongue:
i think we could work something out.... hmmmm

bashajones's photo
Fri 08/22/14 05:36 PM
I want someone to open my pickle jar....:tongue:

seahawks's photo
Fri 08/22/14 05:41 PM


They like to bounce. bigsmile


Some bounce better than others ohwell


this is why I like trampolines.!!! laugh laugh laugh drinker drinker :wink:

bashajones's photo
Fri 08/22/14 08:23 PM
Women just want someone to shovel their driveways...hehe

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 08/22/14 08:49 PM

Women just want someone to shovel their driveways...hehe


Women should be able to shovel their own driveways.

After all, they are well practiced at shoveling the Sheesh, look at the time. Gotta go.




LUNG1954's photo
Sat 08/23/14 11:17 PM
I know a good woman in her 50 yr age, was going thru' her divorce after 5 yr of separation when her ex.. found someone new. She has a new friend they exchange personal photos. After 2 months of communication he told her he likes her photo and want to go deeper in the relationship and told her that he needs someone beside him, and he can't do without her....and want to spend the rest of his life with her. He doesn't mind to come and meet her. She had scammers before this man so she fears of new scammer and said; "if this one is a scammer that will destroy me."
I advised her to go to the end of their relationship and meet him as soon as possible even if she is in the divorce process. I know this process is very harmful to the woman especially if she is a mom. Do you have any advice to her?

bashajones's photo
Sun 08/24/14 12:04 AM


Women just want someone to shovel their driveways...hehe


Women should be able to shovel their own driveways.

After all, they are well practiced at shoveling the Sheesh, look at the time. Gotta go.







I've never shoveled a driveway in my life, and at this age...I'm not gonna start...lol


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