Topic: Plural women
Rubicat's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:07 AM
No offence willing but no matter what their age women have issues and thats the truth.Give it a trial run first. If it works well whatever floats your boat. I think its going to be real fun being so scandalous at your age! You go Willing!:drinks :banana: rofl

willing2's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:09 AM

frankly....I suggest you are re-bounding, willing.

Where's the love? Sounds as if only convenience.

Could be a very real assumption.

The divorce date has been applied for and I have a little anxiety about the outcome. Just my imagination screwing with my head.

However, for the last four years, I have lived alone. She would hitch a ride with her Uncle once or sometimes twice a month. Staying just for the weekend.

All of the new group aren't the types men or women would be swooning over.

dreamerana's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:10 AM
Edited by dreamerana on Wed 09/24/14 08:13 AM


what about a woman with plural men. if it's about economics and a better life. since people say the man is supposed to be the provider. why not have a woman be the queen bee.


Whatever arrangement you and they decide on. Just make sure you don't get into anything abusive.

I'd hate to see you more wounded.


^^^^^^ this is very kind.

I thought you were being facetious with your original topic so I was being a smart aleck. I apologize for that.

after reading further I understand the idea behind the question.
never having been involved in anything but a monogamous relationship, I could see the idea of being roomates but not of sharing a partner.

however, I do know of a family a couple of houses away from me for whom this has worked for almost 18 years.

I don't know the full circumstances only that he has his wife and concubine in the same household. for whatever reason, he had to become her protector.
the kids of both women were raised together all as equals.
so I guess if it's something that works for everyone and isn't harming anyone do whatever works for you.

willing2's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:11 AM

No offence willing but no matter what their age women have issues and thats the truth.Give it a trial run first. If it works well whatever floats your boat. I think its going to be real fun being so scandalous at your age! You go Willing!:drinks :banana: rofl

That's why I posted this.

I need advice on how to handle or not handle petty jealousies, resentments, etc.

Rubicat's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:26 AM


No offence willing but no matter what their age women have issues and thats the truth.Give it a trial run first. If it works well whatever floats your boat. I think its going to be real fun being so scandalous at your age! You go Willing!:drinks :banana: rofl

That's why I posted this.

I need advice on how to handle or not handle petty jealousies, resentments, etc.

You sure are and hopefully it will work- better find out if they will get along first. Invite them both over for a meal.

Lpdon's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:26 AM

With the economy the way it is, wouldn't it make sense for a man to have him a couple women in the home?

If a woman and 2 men wanted the same arrangement, they could work that out.

Me, I'm straight and will focus on the topic of plural women. Also, the man being faithful to both and the women being faithful to the man. Trust and honor.

Plural marriage is illegal in most states. Marriage, for me, wouldn't be an option of consideration. I won't get married again for any reason.

For me, it wouldn't be a lust thing. If I get laid three times a month, I'm good ta go.

It would be more of a communal living arrangement. Where all our combined assets, resources and abilities could make for better living.

I am very aware, the idea would seem wretched and vulgar and wouldn't even be considered.

For you with open minds, what do you see as the pros and cons of a polygamous lifestyle?






I can definitely see a lot of pro's with being with two women at once, A LOT of pros!

The only con would be if they both hit the rag at the same time of the month you better have a damn bomb shelter for yourself built.

mrld_ii's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:27 AM
Well, that's ONE solution...but, I'll bet there's much better ones.

For instance, "with the economy the way it is", we women could just continue getting college degrees at higher percentages than men and continue delaying marriage and child-birthing while we establish ourselves and excel at our careers.


We little ladies can continue to no longer require the males' presence, just simply to make ends meet


and can simply enjoy what HE, as a person - NOT as a paycheck - brings to the equation.



bigsmile



no photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:29 AM
You would have to make "IT" their idea.....not yours.

willing2's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:47 AM

Well, that's ONE solution...but, I'll bet there's much better ones.

For instance, "with the economy the way it is", we women could just continue getting college degrees at higher percentages than men and continue delaying marriage and child-birthing while we establish ourselves and excel at our careers.


We little ladies can continue to no longer require the males' presence, just simply to make ends meet


and can simply enjoy what HE, as a person - NOT as a paycheck - brings to the equation.



bigsmile




Great for the young, dumb and full of ****.

But, old farts like you and me are past all that. We have what we have.

I won't give up their anonymity. These are only two of the millions of older, retired, widowed, good Mexican women. They were raised in the days where only the males were pushed to educate, advance and succeed.

My soon to be ex had only a sixth grade education. Her Grandfather told her, if she wanted more schooling, she'd have to get a job and pay for it.

Very good chance, the only education these two had was just enough to read, write, math and learning all the National Hymns.

They both worked the US owned factories and did field labor. They both receive a pension. Adds up to about 200.00 a month.

They can't cross to the US. That's the good part. I'll still have my man cave here. Peace and tranquility. OM-CHAKA-CHAKA. OM-CHAKA_CHAKA.

willing2's photo
Wed 09/24/14 08:50 AM

You would have to make "IT" their idea.....not yours.

Great idea.
On gal has an adult son with downs. His intelligence level is at about three years old. He doesn't require much care other than making his meals.

The other one would be free to go take care of her daughters kids until her son-in-law comes home.

Stability and a little better quality life is what's most important to them.

mrld_ii's photo
Wed 09/24/14 09:28 AM

Great for the young, dumb and full of ****.

But, old farts like you and me are past all that. We have what we have...



It appears you do not know what "getting a college degree" and "delaying marriage and child-birthing" entails,

or you would not assume that the only women who obtain a higher education are those who are "young, dumb and full of ****".


Also, while you and I MAY BE of similar ages, I have ALWAYS made sure that I can financially support myself and my children - whether a man is present in our lives, or not.

I've also secured my future financial needs.




Sorry that you haven't and now feel the need to raid two (or more) women's retirement savings TO get by.


Best of luck in your search. drinker

willing2's photo
Wed 09/24/14 09:47 AM


Great for the young, dumb and full of ****.

But, old farts like you and me are past all that. We have what we have...

Sorry that you haven't and now feel the need to raid two (or more) women's retirement savings TO get by.


Best of luck in your search. drinker

Don't have a clue as to where you ASSume I'll be raiding anything.

I will provide all the necessities needed to open a neighborhood store and taco stand.

WE, will live off the income they generate.

I have my own gig I tend to.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKpbNvDg6zY

Sing along.


JIMMY JONES

Handy Man

Hey girls, gather round
Listen to what I'm putting down
Hey babe, I'm your handy man

I'm not the kind to use a pencil or rule
I'm handy with love and I'm no fool
I fix broken hearts, I know that I truly can

If your broken heart should need repair
Then I'm the man to see
I whisper sweet things, you tell all your friends
They'll come runnin' to me

Here is the main thing I want to say
I'm busy 24 hours a day
I fix broken hearts, I know that I truly can

Come, come, come
Yeah, yeah, yeah
Come, come, come
Yeah, yeah, yeah
They'll come runnin' to me
(Fade)
That's me
I'm your handy man


mrld_ii's photo
Wed 09/24/14 10:12 AM

Don't have a clue as to where you ASSume I'll be raiding anything...


I didn't "ASSume" anything...

YOU started this thread in which you expressed concern over the currently poor economic conditions;

YOU opined that ["getting a college degree, delaying marriage and having children" and] supporting one's self is NOT an option available to "old farts like you and I".


I merely corrected YOUR false ASSumption that I should be included in the "old farts" that "WE" are and stated that I am STILL able to financially take care of myself, regardless of MY advanced/advancing age.


Again, best of luck in your search. drinks





willing2's photo
Wed 09/24/14 10:22 AM
Edited by willing2 on Wed 09/24/14 10:40 AM



no photo
Wed 09/24/14 12:38 PM
Too bad they abolished slavery. You could have just bought a couple women and you could avoid all this worry about how to make it work.

dreamerana's photo
Wed 09/24/14 04:12 PM





I know offtopic , but just had to say this is true.

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/24/14 04:17 PM

This a topic that just screams for popcorn and a chairdrinker
If the women are happy why not and three incomes can make life a lot more comfortable.
Should get interesting when they start fighting over you:banana:
Not for me though I want all the attention and I dont share a man.Also dont do threesomesdrinker
... having to rethink our relationship now...laugh :banana: :thumbsup:

MariahsFantasy's photo
Wed 09/24/14 04:30 PM
Too confusing. Plus, the penis as it is, is not pleasant to look at anyway. Two would just revolt me and wouldn't work out.

no photo
Wed 09/24/14 04:31 PM

Too confusing. Plus, the penis as it is, is not pleasant to look at anyway. Two would just revolt me and wouldn't work out.


rofl

no1phD's photo
Wed 09/24/14 04:36 PM
Edited by no1phD on Wed 09/24/14 04:37 PM
.. I want to say something like...
must be looking at the wrong penis..
.lol... but I won't say that..ohhhhh..
.. I think too late..slaphead laugh :angel: