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Topic: Do you makes freinds easily
smartwithsparks's photo
Fri 10/17/14 11:13 AM
Or they tend to run ,,lol

Kindness is free


Being nice costs nothing..


Time can be well spent..


Or totally wasted...



flowerforyou waving

soufiehere's photo
Fri 10/17/14 11:40 AM
I went to 5 different high schools (parents married 11 times
between them) and had no problem acclimatizing at each, so
I think I have no problems making friends...seems to come
naturally.

I still have the same friends I have had a lifetime.

I have also heard, over the years, that I can be intimidating.
I find this hilarious :-)

no photo
Fri 10/17/14 11:47 AM
I am told I have a kind heart and am very easy to get a long with. I love meeting new people and learning about new cultures. Sometimes I get hurt because of my trusting nature (that there is good in everyone), but I believe everyone deserves a chance and maybe by me being kind to them I can have an impact on their life or maybe just on their day.:smile:

panchovanilla's photo
Fri 10/17/14 11:49 AM
You ladies don't scare me:tongue:

But then, I don't always have a lot of sense.:banana:

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Fri 10/17/14 11:53 AM
true friends are extremely difficult to get , you may have "colleagues" easily , but friends ? it could take you the whole life to tell that this is your friend .

Beachfarmer's photo
Fri 10/17/14 12:00 PM
They once flocked to me. I'm much more judgemental now.

panchovanilla's photo
Fri 10/17/14 12:01 PM


You ladies don't scare me:tongue:

But then, I don't always have a lot of sense.:banana:
come closer and say that .. Mr vanilla .. Giggling :-)

Just as soon as my back-up arrives.

panchovanilla's photo
Fri 10/17/14 12:15 PM




You ladies don't scare me:tongue:

But then, I don't always have a lot of sense.:banana:
come closer and say that .. Mr vanilla .. Giggling :-)

Just as soon as my back-up arrives.
making me laugh :-)

I'm an easy friend:wink:

no photo
Fri 10/17/14 12:16 PM
everyone you meet is a potential "friend"......you never know who you are going to get along with.....so I am always open to meeting new people and possibly making a life long friend.

panchovanilla's photo
Fri 10/17/14 12:24 PM
Truthfully, I make friends easily.
But I mean just aquaintance type friends.
Real close friends, I am a little cautious.
I'm not at all intimidating.
My nephew told me I should have a beard,
because when I do, I look 'serious'.
His wordsrofl

dreamerana's photo
Fri 10/17/14 12:28 PM

Or they tend to run ,,lol

Kindness is free


Being nice costs nothing..


Time can be well spent..


Or totally wasted...



flowerforyou waving


making friends takes time, effort and building trust.

it different than showing kindness and being nice or friendly.

I am nice to people and give most a chance until they give me a reason not to. essentially, I give them the space to build a friendship or dig their own hole.
when they show that their true self isn't a person of quality, I give them their distance and wish them the best

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Fri 10/17/14 12:34 PM

true friends are extremely difficult to get , you may have "colleagues" easily , but friends ? it could take you the whole life to tell that this is your friend .


I agree with this. It is very easy for me to meet people and "befriend" them. of sorts. But my true friend circle is small. But those friends are with you thru thick or thin and for life.

Those fiends are hard to come by but worth their weight in gold

no1phD's photo
Fri 10/17/14 01:42 PM
Edited by no1phD on Fri 10/17/14 01:43 PM
.no.. my mother used to have to..
tie a pork chop around my neck..
just to get the dog to play with me...

. I had this one really good friend when I was very young.. she would only come over on Saturday nights....
. she would read me stories... watch movies with me.... and play with my Legos with me... but oddly enough.. when I reached an age, where I could stay home by myself on Saturday night..... she stopped coming over..tears
...

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Fri 10/17/14 01:51 PM
I find it easy to talk to strangers and most people I meet become friendly acquaintances....But when it comes to true friends, it's a much deeper emotion...It takes me a long time to get to that depth, but once I do, it's cast in stone...I can count my true friends on one hand...:heart:

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Fri 10/17/14 02:16 PM
It's nice to meet new people and become friendly acquaintances, but it takes time to get to know someone really well and become a friend.
I do have a few friends and many friendly acquaintances. Maybe some of them shall become friends in future. Remains to be seen.smile2

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Fri 10/17/14 02:16 PM

true friends are extremely difficult to get , you may have "colleagues" easily , but friends ? it could take you the whole life to tell that this is your friend .


You are right.smile2

Georgemoon's photo
Fri 10/17/14 02:36 PM
Howdy I agree causal friends seem to be very easy for me but they seem to just flow in and out of my life. I have no long term friends the one a grew up with moved away lost touch. Recently I found completely by accident a couple with kids. Bear with me lol She overheard my comment about wieght loss so she suggested a product she was selling (you know the type.) But the funny thing was after meeting her husband we could literally finish each others sentences. We were very close After 2 years they moved to Newfoundland The last Island off the coast Fogo. We still phone but it is not the same. Your right it takes time and commitment. Also atleast in my case being very over weight and not the norm we see on TV most just keep on walking. They don't hang around to see who you really are.
George

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Fri 10/17/14 02:38 PM

Or they tend to run ,,lolKindness is freeBeing nice costs nothing..
Time can be well spent..Or totally wasted...flowerforyou waving

yes. im well loved by alot of peopel

Awatersign's photo
Fri 10/17/14 03:11 PM


true friends are extremely difficult to get , you may have "colleagues" easily , but friends ? it could take you the whole life to tell that this is your friend .


I agree with this. It is very easy for me to meet people and "befriend" them. of sorts. But my true friend circle is small. But those friends are with you thru thick or thin and for life.

Those fiends are hard to come by but worth their weight in gold
I totally agree with you guys,I'm really cool with everyone,I like to talk crap with people bigsmile ,love making people laugh and smile,but I can switch REALLY FAST if you're phony or just messed up,and I can honestly say,"I'm your friend to the end"!:wink:

mysticalview21's photo
Fri 10/17/14 04:52 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Fri 10/17/14 04:55 PM
op I make friendly acquaintances waving flowerforyou ... and have a few friends... some since I was a child... my personality has been good to me ... in making friends with some & acquaintances ...

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