Topic: Hmm!?
nicky2627's photo
Sun 10/19/14 11:41 PM
nice ques any answers

Kindlightheart's photo
Wed 10/22/14 09:38 PM
What's on my mind when viewing and/or reviewing profiles without writing something could be one of several things, ...my friends flipping me cr*p for being on a dating site and I am showing off the profiles that interest me,.. Sometimes start to write something than change my mind...or the infamous my stupid touchy touch screen...damn...oops :thumbsup:

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Wed 10/22/14 10:09 PM
Edited by NoMindGamesPlease on Wed 10/22/14 10:10 PM

omindgames, please stop stalking me




Not funny. whoa

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Wed 10/22/14 10:48 PM

I view profiles of those who message me, or if someone impressed me on the forums.
I don't message back all the hi and hey babe type of messages.

hi

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Thu 10/23/14 12:27 AM
Edited by graywolf55 on Thu 10/23/14 12:31 AM
laugh It doesn't bother me at all. Who ever views my profile is seeing the Man behind the Graywolf (for whatever reason) maby because of the forums i participate in or answers i give? All receive a((( hug))) Thank you!! What gets me is they agree in a mutual match wanting to "meet on mingle"? I send a friends first and never hear from them again? I've got good friends that call me and talk"now this is needed"!! I'm trying to be more active on here and participate more but pain from texting with my right arm is most of the time very unbearable!!! And Thanks to all those that send messages on my condition!! All over the World people view profiles on here even if you do have a 50 mile radius set for your match. I'm not going to say i'm going to remain where i live "if the Right Lady is persistent" so Stalk on!devil tongue2

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Thu 10/23/14 12:33 AM

laugh It doesn't bother me at all. Who ever views my profile is seeing the Man behind the Graywolf (for whatever reason) maby because of the forums i participate in or answers i give? All receive a((( hug))) Thank you!! What gets me is they agree in a mutual match wanting to "meet on mingle"? I send a friends first and never hear from them again? I've got good friends that call me and talk"now this is needed"!! I'm trying to be more active on here and participate more but pain from testing with my right arm is most of the time very unbearable!!! And Thanks to all those that send messages on my condition!! All over the World people view profiles on here even if you do have a 50 mile radius set for your match. I'm not going to say i'm going to remain where i live "if the Right Lady is persistent" so Stalk on!devil tongue2


Hey there wolf, keep going. flowerforyou
Sorry I abandoned a topic, but Scooby opened a nice bar and we can even smoke there!
http://mingle2.com/topic/414588?page=1

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Thu 10/23/14 12:49 AM


laugh It doesn't bother me at all. Who ever views my profile is seeing the Man behind the Graywolf (for whatever reason) maby because of the forums i participate in or answers i give? All receive a((( hug))) Thank you!! What gets me is they agree in a mutual match wanting to "meet on mingle"? I send a friends first and never hear from them again? I've got good friends that call me and talk"now this is needed"!! I'm trying to be more active on here and participate more but pain from testing with my right arm is most of the time very unbearable!!! And Thanks to all those that send messages on my condition!! All over the World people view profiles on here even if you do have a 50 mile radius set for your match. I'm not going to say i'm going to remain where i live "if the Right Lady is persistent" so Stalk on!devil tongue2


Hey there wolf, keep going. flowerforyou
Sorry I abandoned a topic, but Scooby opened a nice bar and we can even smoke there!
http://mingle2.com/topic/414588?page=1
flowerforyou Thank you for the invite!! But i just perved your profile and you don't want a man to be over 54 so i'm over the hill for you?oops winking :angel:

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Thu 10/23/14 12:54 AM
Edited by NoMindGamesPlease on Thu 10/23/14 12:52 AM


Hey there wolf, keep going. flowerforyou
Sorry I abandoned a topic, but Scooby opened a nice bar and we can even smoke there!
http://mingle2.com/topic/414588?page=1
flowerforyou Thank you for the invite!! But i just perved your profile and you don't want a man to be over 54 so i'm over the hill for you?oops winking :angel:

Well, I am not looking for any now. Just having some fun on the forums and looking for something in a fridge to make a sandwich. Soooo hungry!!!!!!!!!!drool
To the kitchen! Over and out! :laughing:

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Thu 10/23/14 03:29 PM



Perhaps they read posts on forums and just check the profile afterwards? It is one of the possibilities.
Yes! As i am reading the forum their are some who caught my attention that makes me curious checking on their profile.


I do the same. Let me check your profile. BRB :laughing:


I agree. I do it all the time. I see an interesting post and I check the profile to put it in context. People who make a lot of interesting posts probably get checked more often. You should be flattered if people are checking your profile. And if they do it multiple times it's probably because the have not yet committed your profile to memory. That's what the profile is there for. As to why they don't leave a message. In my case it would be a lot of "Oh yeah now I remember...." No harm, no foul. IMHO.

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Thu 10/23/14 04:01 PM

Why is it that my massage send 2 times?
Perhaps your first 'massage' was enjoyable laugh

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Thu 10/23/14 05:33 PM
If we worked together and I looked at you 1,214 times a day that wouldn't bother you, but because we're online you suddenly decide to be paranoid?

I think you're more interested in those looking at you, so stfu and ask them.

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Thu 10/23/14 05:53 PM




Perhaps they read posts on forums and just check the profile afterwards? It is one of the possibilities.
Yes! As i am reading the forum their are some who caught my attention that makes me curious checking on their profile.


I do the same. Let me check your profile. BRB :laughing:


I agree. I do it all the time. I see an interesting post and I check the profile to put it in context. People who make a lot of interesting posts probably get checked more often. You should be flattered if people are checking your profile. And if they do it multiple times it's probably because the have not yet committed your profile to memory. That's what the profile is there for. As to why they don't leave a message. In my case it would be a lot of "Oh yeah now I remember...." No harm, no foul. IMHO.


laugh
I'm interesting! laugh laugh

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Thu 10/23/14 06:32 PM




Perhaps they read posts on forums and just check the profile afterwards? It is one of the possibilities.
Yes! As i am reading the forum their are some who caught my attention that makes me curious checking on their profile.


I do the same. Let me check your profile. BRB :laughing:


I agree. I do it all the time. I see an interesting post and I check the profile to put it in context. People who make a lot of interesting posts probably get checked more often. You should be flattered if people are checking your profile. And if they do it multiple times it's probably because the have not yet committed your profile to memory. That's what the profile is there for. As to why they don't leave a message. In my case it would be a lot of "Oh yeah now I remember...." No harm, no foul. IMHO.



My sentiments exactly!!!

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Thu 10/23/14 08:14 PM





Perhaps they read posts on forums and just check the profile afterwards? It is one of the possibilities.
Yes! As i am reading the forum their are some who caught my attention that makes me curious checking on their profile.


I do the same. Let me check your profile. BRB :laughing:


I agree. I do it all the time. I see an interesting post and I check the profile to put it in context. People who make a lot of interesting posts probably get checked more often. You should be flattered if people are checking your profile. And if they do it multiple times it's probably because the have not yet committed your profile to memory. That's what the profile is there for. As to why they don't leave a message. In my case it would be a lot of "Oh yeah now I remember...." No harm, no foul. IMHO.


laugh
I'm interesting! laugh laugh


I agree. A moth in flight seemingly erratic yet guided by the light.flowerforyou

Gregakagreg's photo
Thu 10/23/14 08:24 PM





Perhaps they read posts on forums and just check the profile afterwards? It is one of the possibilities.
Yes! As i am reading the forum their are some who caught my attention that makes me curious checking on their profile.


I do the same. Let me check your profile. BRB :laughing:


I agree. I do it all the time. I see an interesting post and I check the profile to put it in context. People who make a lot of interesting posts probably get checked more often. You should be flattered if people are checking your profile. And if they do it multiple times it's probably because the have not yet committed your profile to memory. That's what the profile is there for. As to why they don't leave a message. In my case it would be a lot of "Oh yeah now I remember...." No harm, no foul. IMHO.



My sentiments exactly!!!



Nice to meet you. Since you are "luking4frens" you will find many here. Welcome.

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Thu 10/23/14 09:32 PM
NoMindGamesPlease.....I understand what you mean when someone checks on your profile periodically....like every day, don't leave a message, don't say hi....and if it is someone in your region/country, it does give you the creeps drool ! I had one who checked in every other day without fail.... nearly 2 weeks! Thank God he stopped...!rant

But for everyone else who checked once in a while, it is ok, cos' I do that too....and sometimes, by accident.... trigger finger!! flowerforyou

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Fri 10/24/14 06:22 AM

NoMindGamesPlease.....I understand what you mean when someone checks on your profile periodically....like every day, don't leave a message, don't say hi....and if it is someone in your region/country, it does give you the creeps drool ! I had one who checked in every other day without fail.... nearly 2 weeks! Thank God he stopped...!rant

But for everyone else who checked once in a while, it is ok, cos' I do that too....and sometimes, by accident.... trigger finger!! flowerforyou


smile2 Good to see you Ame!flowerforyou
Yes, distance makes a difference in these things, but again, we are here to chat, perhaps even meet, so we all check other people's profiles, some more often than others (after reading their posts}.
I figured it's not a big deal.
And accidents...oh well, I learned not to put a lotion before using anything with a touch-screen. :laughing:

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Fri 10/24/14 07:10 AM


NoMindGamesPlease.....I understand what you mean when someone checks on your profile periodically....like every day, don't leave a message, don't say hi....and if it is someone in your region/country, it does give you the creeps drool ! I had one who checked in every other day without fail.... nearly 2 weeks! Thank God he stopped...!rant

But for everyone else who checked once in a while, it is ok, cos' I do that too....and sometimes, by accident.... trigger finger!! flowerforyou


smile2 Good to see you Ame!flowerforyou
Yes, distance makes a difference in these things, but again, we are here to chat, perhaps even meet, so we all check other people's profiles, some more often than others (after reading their posts}.
I figured it's not a big deal.
And accidents...oh well, I learned not to put a lotion before using anything with a touch-screen. :laughing:


Hey I was going to send you a message but your profile is set so that anyone that is more than 50 miles away can't message you. Maybe that explains some of the lack of messages?

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Fri 10/24/14 08:01 AM
when you limit your self to a 50 miles that nocks out 99.9% of anybody on or of the forums.just thinin.

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Fri 10/24/14 08:39 AM
Edited by NoMindGamesPlease on Fri 10/24/14 08:56 AM
The settings are the way they are for two reasons:

1) Spammers and scammers are annoying and they NEVER give up, so this prevents them from sending message from overseas while maintaining a fake profile in which they claim to be within the region of 50 miles.

2) I do not want to get into long distance relationships or make pen pals (exchange text messages and phone calls) , so if the person is in Hamilton, Ontario, Canada there is a chance to meet, get to know each other and take it from there


There is a simple way to resolve this and it is called "add as a friend" invitation.
If you chat with someone on the forum and want to add this person as a friend, I think it is possible even if mail filters are up and running.


After an initial exchange of messages there is no problem with keeping in touch by mail, because new Mingle mail setting would overwrite the filter settings once the mail has been sent and received.