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Topic: All the real people are fake
TawtStrat Joined Fri 11/16/12 Posts: 3581	Sun 09/27/15 07:18 PM
It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself. How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet?

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sun 09/27/15 07:23 PM
what if all the fake people are real?

MelMaxx Joined Thu 10/28/10 Posts: 4724	Sun 09/27/15 07:26 PM
..or maybe they are beeeeeotches

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45337	Sun 09/27/15 07:29 PM
How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet? Very..as I did.

unknown_romeo Joined Wed 03/26/14 Posts: 7691	Sun 09/27/15 07:30 PM
Op you seem to be expecting too much from online....online sucks compared to meeting someone in real life it's simpler & you can have an idea what you're dealing with

mightymoe Joined Sun 11/19/06 Posts: 37362	Sun 09/27/15 07:31 PM
It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself. How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet? i think it can just as likely as in real life, but the internet makes it a bit harder... i really don't try to meet anyone off the net, doesn't seem worth it to me... seems that most like to fib about themselves, something that i just cannot deal with

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sun 09/27/15 07:55 PM
this is just another option you never know where you'll meet someone I do know a lady that met a wonderful guy within weeks of being on a dating site.They are happily married so it does happen

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24655	Sun 09/27/15 07:55 PM
.....and I was a lumberjack WAY before it became popular

isharaperera Joined Wed 09/16/15 Posts: 3	Sun 09/27/15 07:57 PM
thats true

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Sun 09/27/15 08:20 PM
Not fake... and likely not quite what folks think I am either. Life be like that.

Kindlightheart Joined Fri 09/19/14 Posts: 2370	Sun 09/27/15 08:57 PM
It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself. How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet? ... I have chatted with some wonderful gentlemen I found on this site...and there is at least one or two that I wish I could meet...but the odds of meeting them...first I have to beat the odds at winning the lottery...to get to them...but as my luck is...if I am beating the odds..I will get struck by lightning next...hmmm..but the dream of meeting a decent guy...yup.. :)

Dodo_David Joined Fri 08/13/10 Posts: 48917	Sun 09/27/15 08:58 PM
.....and I was a lumberjack WAY before it became popular Yeah, the Monty Python kind.

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Sun 09/27/15 09:01 PM
It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself. How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet? ... I have chatted with some wonderful gentlemen I found on this site...and there is at least one or two that I wish I could meet...but the odds of meeting them...first I have to beat the odds at winning the lottery...to get to them...but as my luck is...if I am beating the odds..I will get struck by lightning next...hmmm..but the dream of meeting a decent guy...yup.. :) Somewhere out there is a guy dreaming about meeting someone just like you... Might even be the one helping you up after that lightening. You just never know till it happens.

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Sun 09/27/15 09:12 PM
It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself. How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet? I've seen your posts before when I first started and have seen some of your posts lately, though I don't comment on all of them. mostly because I feel out of my depth. based on your recent posts with all due respect, I kind of feel like you have been reevaluating things in your life. there seems to be a little something that's different. what you find online or in the real world depends on what you put out there. there are real people, both men and women. it takes time to find that hidden treasure. there are also scammers and people who are confused about what they want. it takes time and sifting through the incompatible ones to find what you seek. good luck

Frankk1950 Joined Sat 09/12/15 Posts: 493	Sun 09/27/15 09:13 PM
I was a real fool to think it could happen. Now it looks like I'm just a fool.

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Sun 09/27/15 09:18 PM
It kind of feels like that sometimes. Nobody at all that seems like a real or interesting person and then one comes along and just when you think you've clicked it's "user deactivated" and you're left thinking that that was all bollocks then and not a genuine person interested in you. You think that there's nobody real on this internet and you're being taken in by them because they seem like a real person at last and not just some sad case that resorted to trying to meet somebody this way like yourself. How realistic do you think that it is that you could meet the type of person that you would really like to meet on the internet? I think people deactivate for different reasons, for example if I get a really busy project at work I will occasionally deactivate temporarily just so I can focus and not be tempted to come on here. I do try to let give those people im regularly talking to a heads up but I don't always get a chance. the other reason is maybe they are talking to someone in real life as well and it progresses sure it may have 'seemed' like you had a thing, but maybe logistically it would have been more difficult, and required tremendous effort. their feelings may have been there, but sometimes life throws things at us that we may not be expecting. My point is they may have been real, but perhaps life got in the way, they don't (and shouldn't) owe any person in the net an explanation for living their life the way they want

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sun 09/27/15 09:20 PM
I was a real fool to think it could happen. Now it looks like I'm just a fool. looks like you just started here give it some time

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Sun 09/27/15 09:21 PM
I only go for those Russian mail order brides......they have vodka!

Frankk1950 Joined Sat 09/12/15 Posts: 493	Sun 09/27/15 10:07 PM
I was a real fool to think it could happen. Now it looks like I'm just a fool. looks like you just started here give it some time Appreciate your encouraging words and kind thoughts,as always. It was just a tongue in cheek play on words.

NoCatfish2 Joined Thu 09/10/15 Posts: 107	Sun 09/27/15 10:28 PM
.....and I was a lumberjack WAY before it became popular Yeah, the Monty Python kind. But that means he's okay. It's in the song. "He sleeps all night and he works all day."