I'm not. I'm actually looking for answers.. Just want to know if there are any young mothers who wish to share there story with me because it might help me in future.

So this may be TMI for a dating site but my ex husband and I had a meeting in court. I didn't pull any of the low blows I didn't bring in pictures of the bruises or discharge papers from the ER from the teams he beat the crap out of me. But I have had five surgeries in the last two years and in court he said that I was the equivalent of Frankenstein and I couldn't have anymore kids so pretty much "what use am I" it hurt so bad. I'm refusing to stoop his level and after ten years of being together he knows I wouldn't and he know it's a sensitive issue for me so him to bring it up in public was just to humiliate me and be mean. I don't understand how some men can feel macho by being a bully to the mother of their children.

I've said it before and I will say it again..
Lube and Kleenex... N1 add-on..
POF....yup... works every time..lol

"Live, laugh, love because you never know
when you're gonna die."
Len Bias

Len Bias' story is very tragic. I went to high school with
him. He was an awesomely talented basketball player. He
got a scholarship to the University of Maryland where
he continued to play awesome basketball. On the night
he got drafted by the Boston Celtics as a top pick
AND signed a HUGE endorsement deal with Reebok he decided
to celebrate. Him and some friends smoked crack. Len
didn't stand a chance. The crack caused him to have a
massive heart attack. He died that night. He lived to
see his dreams come true only to have his life snatched
away before he could live them. In an ironic twist of
fate Len's brother, another talented basketball player,
got shot to death after having an arguement at the
local shopping mall. He was poised to follow his
brother's footsteps into college and then on to
the NBA. Some punk with a bad temper and a gun
took his life before he even had a chance to live
his dreams. The above quote is apparently the
Bias family motto. The family told each other
the above quote frequently.

Thanks Doug. You know it's weird, but at 53 ), I feel like a turbo charged version of a 33. I can't explain it! Just happy!

Thank you MJ! Your a welcome addition to our Mingle group.

Very good choice

Happiness is something we all seek with a partner or on our own.
What are some of the things you do to make yourself happy and can suggest to others?

Don't ever date an Indian man..
unless you know where his mother lives
then you can blackmail him

Don't ever drink with Indian man..
cause he carries curry leaves
the drink can make you very weak

Don't ever wear that dress..
cause he will ask to lift it up
He likes to see what he is going to feel

the list is long
it's all there in Google
but as Jacktrades says
there are some exceptions..

like mememememe, i,i,i,i, memememe

shucks, don't ever date an older Man
because all you get
is a lot of advise.

Mmmmm, Yesss!...rules were made for spanking.

I would like to trade you.
I will give you 3 for 1 Indian....,
one clamins he is South African, one claims he is in Germany & one that claims he is in Italy, but can't speak Italian.


It is an international adventure & game of ' Lier Lier Pants On Fire'

how many females like to fish ?

Ummm...don't think that's gonna work...
Will attract plenty of scammers though...
If I want warm and wet I'll take a shower...hahaha

Yea just like

God help me, this might be the best-written Disney animated film of all time. =)