The one that I am currently trying to find the courage to have with my boyfriend... It's not working since you don't think I'm important enough to find the time to call, text, or see.

Thank you! That's all I'm asking for. This marks the second time in about a month in a half that I've played the wait and see how long it will take to call or text me. I already got an email from a friend asking why I put up with it and my dad said something about it today as well. I told him last time we went three days without talking that it would be nice to atleast get a text saying he was thinking about me or something. I just don't wanna be kept hanging on for the sake of him having someone to fall back on when he's bored or whatever. Don't get me wrong when we spend time together things are great. It's the time inbetween us getting to see each other that is starting to pizz me off.

OK, since apparently I'm implicated in this whole concept somehow....

1. Intelligence -- I've spent most of my life in relationships with women who would have a hard time identifying the front end of a horse. The best gf I ever had was smarter than I am (although she still disputes this).

2. Creative -- I admire people who can draw or write or play an instrument or sing or paint or take pictures or whatever. I have a strong creative drive and tend to get along with others who share this.

3. Communication -- The essence of any good relationship, any good interaction. In my experience, good communicators are practically extinct -- assuming they ever really existed in the first place.

4. "Outside-the-box" -- I am never going to be conventional. If you want the Ward Cleaver type, you're in the wrong yard.

5. No drugs, no alcohol. Lost too many people to those already. They will not be a part of my life.

6. No kids. I take a lot of flak over this one, but the reality is that I would not make a good parent (or parental substitute) and I do not want to be involved with someone who is one. It's a preference, plain and simple. A mandatory preference. It doesn't mean I think you're a bad person, it just means that your priorities are, of necessity, going to be radically different from mine.

7. No preaching. I don't mind being involved with people who hold other religious views. We can talk about that as much as you want. But I am not here to be "converted" or to be condemned to your version of hell simply because I WON'T be converted.

8. Anything political bores me to tears. I'm an anarchist. I don't believe any flawed, fallible human being has any business being given sanctioned authority over other flawed, fallible human beings. If you do, that's fine. I just don't want to hear about it.

9. I can't cook without starting a nine-alarm fire or causing radiation poisoning in a twelve-mile radius. I don't expect you to cook. If you want to, fine. If not, there's Arby's or the microwave. I'm not picky. If it involves beef and/or peanut butter, I'll be fine.

10. If you want to say something, say it. I won't try to pull it out of you. I will ALWAYS be willing to listen but I will not hound it out of you.

11. I don't care if you make more money than me, came from a better family, in a better house, in a better state, or whatever. It's just stuff. If I like you, it's because of you, not because of stuff.

Apparently! But does atleast calling once in a while make you any less of a man? Is it really that hard to send a text or call just to say hey I was thinking about you?

Apparently! But does atleast calling once in a while make you any less of a man? Is it really that hard to send a text or call just to say hey I was thinking about you?

Cleaning helped the last time I was pizzed, but I wasn't even in the mood to clean this time. Why are (most) guys a$$hole$???