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Fri 03/06/20 09:35 AM

Being ignorant to the fact that you are racist does not a non racist make..smokin
so you are knowledgeable about how Native Americans feel about comments regarding the original English settlers to America? You are obviously better educated than most of us!

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Fri 03/06/20 06:58 AM
What seems to be missing is the difference between being racially insensitive and a racist. Often times people are defined as racist because they do not understand how what they said or did is viewed by some minority group as racist or demeaning. It is in the perception by the minority group not the reality of what was said or done.

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Thu 03/05/20 08:10 PM

You should point out that the statement "if poor people work hard enough they will become rich" is ********. That’s called individualism and its based on the idea that life is fully controllable, but anyone with a brain knows otherwise. Life is anything but fully controllable.

You will never know what capitalism throws at you, what debts you must pay, how much interest will be applied to debts, medical bills, tuition fees, etc… You can bet on something but that doesnt mean it will happen. Under capitalism, you gamble for success. You are living in a gambling game in capitalist society where the market is ever changing and opportunity is unequal.

“Every night, you should be coming home and selling something, creating something, learning something, etc.”

Has this idiot ever considered that many people tend to be extremely tired after they come home from work? Has he ever considered that what he sees as ‘laziness’ is actually hoplessness? Has he ever considered how many of those people wanted to get a decent education but couldnt afford it, how many drowned in debt before they could graduate, how many got into accidents and we forced to drain their life savings and quit their jobs? Life isnt always "yeah just work hard and you’ll be fine". Capitalism is dynamic and “equal opportunity” only means equal legal rights, not equal economic opportunity. People can work their ***** off every single day of the week and on an anually salary of 40k and still struggle to put food on the table. Mind you, i’m referring to the US here, how do you think much poorer countries in the capitalist world are carrying out?

Those people unable to produce value end up in poverty, become homeless or starve to death, not because they are lazy, but because the social conditions capitalism creates makes it very hard to do so. But capitalists try to justify the obscene inequalities and poverty that capitalism creates, to reassure the rich that they somehow deserved the wealth they accumulated, and to fool the poor into thinking that they simply aren’t working hard enough. It’s really no different than the Divine Right of Kings from the feudal era.

Here are some things that should be asked:

Is it a mental disability affecting their ability to retain information?
Is it a lack of education/A wealth of bad information?
If they are too "stupid" to learn, are they at fault?
Should people be punished by actions they're unable to consent to?
Are we morally righteous if we watch them suffer through poverty?
Where do they live? Do they live in a poor area? Are there any overwhelming problems in these communities that puts the probability of failure at a higher rate?
Is crime a major issue? “Lazy “people whose options are limited often turn to crime.
How little do they earn in their current job? Do they earn minimum wage?
Can they even get access to a decent job? Do they live in an area where there is few job opportunities?
Are their parents poor as well? .
These are questions that mostly conservatives don’t ask, probably because they don’t want to ask. They attempt to distance their utopian view of capitalism from the absolute clownshow that is actual capitalism by making the excuse that all poor people are just “lazy”. A rejection of reality pretty much.



I think most of us can agree that not everyone has the same capability nor opportunity.
Sometimes it is just a matter of opportunity and people have to be willing to do what our ancestors did, pack what little we have and move into the unknown. When they are unwilling and join the ranks of the limited capable. That brings us to the real question, what level of support or lifestyle should society provide for these people? Some type of roof over their head? Access to 3 meals a day? Unlimited health care? A cell phone? Transportation? Big screen TV? Internet access? Where should society draw that line?

In my opinion, IF I'm paying taxes to support you, your lifestyle better be well below mine!!!

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Thu 03/05/20 05:56 PM
A few but not many as is the case of most dating sites. The ones you do find are either not interested in anybody or very picky with who they will communicate.

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Thu 03/05/20 12:07 PM
Let me see if I have some idea of the risk for the US.
Currently there are less than 150 infected people with a population around 330 million. I guess that would be one be 1 infection per 2 million people. I Think the last death toll I heard was 11 - 12 people out of 330 million people. I believe that is about the chance of you getting killed by lightning sitting in your living room.

Now most of us expect the number of cases and the death toll to increase to a much higher number. Even if we had as many infected people as the entire world that would be less than 100,000 with less than 4000 deaths out of 330 million. I suspect something else will actually kill me - not Covid-19!!

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Thu 03/05/20 07:20 AM
Here in the states, that will do nothing other than get you in trouble and possibly cost you your job!

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Wed 03/04/20 09:17 AM

hey I'm James from little rock
James, the original post was from 6 years ago. The OP still does have a profile on here although she is older now. Send her a message!!

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Tue 03/03/20 08:38 PM
Respect is something earned by how you treat others and your behaviors. As for being treated equal, that would assume both are equal. Generally people have some very strong areas and some weak areas. In an ideal relationship these characteristics would complement each other and the sum would far exceed the strength of either. In this case, both are equal. When one is much more capable than the other, the possibility of treating each other as equals is compromised. It is best to know your own capabilities and decide when your partner should be the leader and you be the follower. Often times that will vary depending on what the situation is. We all need to be willing to take that subservient role at times to get the best results of the partnership.

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Mon 03/02/20 01:17 PM


A must see...
https://youtu.be/n-jJNsXbMeY
and you believe that BS?

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Sun 03/01/20 09:36 AM
I real life, maybe to some extent; on the internet, not a chance in h++l.

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Sun 03/01/20 06:31 AM
Would work fine if you both enjoy traveling and can afford to regularly. Some relationships are much better with a lot of alone time!

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Sun 03/01/20 06:25 AM
Edited by oldkid46 on Sun 03/01/20 06:26 AM
Trimming her hair!! - CAREFULLY!!!!!!

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Thu 02/27/20 12:34 PM


Some. Form of sex is needed

Tell that to the doctors of a 60 yr old woman with dementia who thinks she is eight years old or an elderly man who has just had half his bowels and one testicle removed .
They both need love and support not sex
If they were a couple, it would work fine. If they are a couple with one still desiring sex, it isn't going to work very well.

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Thu 02/27/20 11:01 AM
All depends on what you believe:
If you think it is government's job to take care of you, then Obama.
If you think it is your responsibility to take care of yourself, then Trump!

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Wed 02/26/20 06:05 AM

Fantastic Comments Everybody!
Mardi Gras is amazing if you never experienced it there's lots of reasons to go.
The vitality of the people is wonderful.
darkowl I think I may have seen yer krewe a few years ago - simply fun and rich.
Here in BSL its always a treat when one of the Krewes from NOLA show up.
The bayside strip near the pier and harbor has been building up recently.
Lots of great restaurants and night clubs.
I bet they're just packed with revelers!

BSL would be a great place for a Mingle meet. Not as many people as NOLA but could be a meeting point for a group trip to NOLA. Could also run the beach hwy 90 all the way to Biloxi. I bet the Hard Rock is packed too. Plus that brand new aquarium will be open soon in Gulfport. HWY 90 is littered with casinos and all have hotel accommodations and great food.
Certainly a great experience if ya never been.
Plus, we would have a year to plan it out.

Let's not forget Baton Rouge, Hammond, Covington & Slidell. Plus there's 6 Flags, gator farms & swamp tours.
Lots of stuff to do!
Was there last spring and enjoyed it. A meet would be great - spring, late fall, or winter - count me in!

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Tue 02/25/20 07:37 PM
After Hurricane Katrina, a couple guys from Pass Christian (next door to Tom) moved up to this little town in NW Arkansas and started a traditional Mardi Gras here. They had been involved in the ones on the Gulf coast. This was our 15th year celebrating Mardi Gras. This year I just watched the parade and spent time with a couple friends. This was the first year I did not have an active roll in at least one of the events. I do plan on getting back active again next year!! It is a great celebration and helps support the community. Lots of fun but hard on old guys!!

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Tue 02/25/20 06:59 AM
When I think of "minimum wage" I think in terms of what the prevailing local minimum wage is that an employer has to pay to get a starting worker who can actually work. It varies all over the country and it is mostly a demand vs availability thing. There is a difference between urban and rural as well as the local high school graduation rate. Where I am in Minnesota it is around $13/hour, here in Arkansas where I currently am it is more in the $8-9 range. Less jobs and more workers. The idea of a national minimum wage needs to significantly change and actually be based on geographic regions. One size fits all just doesn't work anymore.

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Mon 02/24/20 08:09 PM


NO, I am not happy or satisfied with my life as it is. It would seem a major change is in order for my future.


Hi oldkid waving
Do you have a plan?
Can't make them yet, have a couple of things from in the past that I need to finish up before I can look at a new direction. Hope to have those mostly resolved by fall. I expect another difficult summer.

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Mon 02/24/20 06:17 PM
NO, I am not happy or satisfied with my life as it is. It would seem a major change is in order for my future.

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Mon 02/24/20 07:46 AM
There is no "ALL" for any group. In some situations there are a few, in others, many but never all. The only "all" you may be seeing is who are in your inbox!!

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