I am not giving your partner a free pass, but... when someone is mentally unstable they have less self-control over their actions and hurt others. This is never their goal mind you, but I would say you have to be the one to decide what's best for your and your child's safety and long-term well-being. I doubt he would get the baby; most women get custody, especially when the child is young. Besides, you can keep a record of such incidents. Do you call the police? Do you record the incidents on your cell phone? Do you have records of mental health interventions, hospitalizations (especially involuntary ones), psychiatrist/out-patient treatment, family testimonials, past partners, etc.? I strongly suggest you talk to someone, such as your pediatrician. You don't want to be accused of neglecting to keep your child safe. You do not want the state to take this child from both of you and put it in foster care. There are plenty of resources out there for you. Start with the pediatrician. He/she should be able to assist you.

Correct me if I'm wrong, but I get the stark impression you are passing judgment on certain people. However, you could just as easily be judged for your decision, which was raising a child with a woman to whom you were not married. Many people would frown upon that. God forbid you had two separate homes. More judgment there (not from me). I.e., you're making yourself look high and mighty, whether intentional or not. Just some food for thought...

Exactly! Or, they're simply not interested in you.

That sounds like therapy is due

You, nor anyone, knows the future. Things change and there is no guarantee you will enjoy your partner or relationship to the point you don't want to leave, or should leave. Pessimistic, but that's reality.

Same here

Because they're men? LOL

I have been single and will likely never get married. I honestly question my ability to be with the same person for the rest of my life. I don't think I have it in me to work on something for the long haul. I also don't believe in divorce. However, that's not to say I can't find a long-term and meaningful relationship. I've had my share, but I will not get married.

I don't care or judge what you do in your personal life as long as you're abiding the law with a consenting adult (i.e., 18 or above).

Sure. Who says you can't do what you want with your personal life? I personally don't care and I say to you, "You do you!"

LOL That is the craziest thing I've ever heard.

Are you talking about the dating field? I think it depends on whom you're referring to. My experience has been that shorter men are less successful and on occasion, very short or very tall women are less successful.

Gross grammar and spelling errors.
Incomplete profile.
Narcissistic profile.
No picture or a picture of a landscape for example.

Maybe try using the search option.

Based on this comment alone, I'm not even going to bother and check out his profile; let alone rate it. All I can say is "WOW." SMH...

So... you want girls and women? I would hope you don't want girls, but simply women. It's women btw. That's plural for the singular of woman in case you didn't know.

Hahaha Good response

You can't help whom you love or are attracted to. So if it feels normal to you, and ignore everyone else's opinion, then go for it. I'm attracted to younger men. No one ever says it's abnormal and if I do, I simply tell them to mind their own life and not worry about mine.

LOL

Believe what you want and decide whether or not you should worry about what was said. Then again, really? Besides, it's not like the time line was predicted. It could mean, though I don't believe it, that one of you will die before the other in your 90's. Did you consider that this person may have false beliefs, delusions, or simply beliefs different from yours? So, you can believe what you want. Good luck