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feelyoungagain
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Joined Wed 02/28/18
Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 05:50 PM
Topic: What should i do?..
QUOTE:

Im marriage with mentally illness man and i just found out after we got marriage,he seems has bipolar likes to cursing and shout even with our baby 10 old months.i dont know he did on purpose or not but many times our baby feel off while he was with him,the lasttime he was laydown on the bed and let our baby grab and holding drawer and standing by himself was actually not strong enough to standing by himself and fell off.i want to talk with our pediatrician about my husband behaviour but he threaten to divorce me and took a baby.i dont have income and family in state,my husband is US citizen if we divorce he will win for a baby. What should i do?...


I am not giving your partner a free pass, but... when someone is mentally unstable they have less self-control over their actions and hurt others. This is never their goal mind you, but I would say you have to be the one to decide what's best for your and your child's safety and long-term well-being. I doubt he would get the baby; most women get custody, especially when the child is young. Besides, you can keep a record of such incidents. Do you call the police? Do you record the incidents on your cell phone? Do you have records of mental health interventions, hospitalizations (especially involuntary ones), psychiatrist/out-patient treatment, family testimonials, past partners, etc.? I strongly suggest you talk to someone, such as your pediatrician. You don't want to be accused of neglecting to keep your child safe. You do not want the state to take this child from both of you and put it in foster care. There are plenty of resources out there for you. Start with the pediatrician. He/she should be able to assist you.
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 05:38 PM
Topic: Getting married.
QUOTE:

Never married!

Had some LTR's but never the big M.

Unlike most guy's my age I don't have 3 or 4 ex wives and 7 or 8 kids I'm ignoring out there.

I have one (1) child, my daughter who will be 16 in Nov, her mother and I were together for about 17 years.


Correct me if I'm wrong, but I get the stark impression you are passing judgment on certain people. However, you could just as easily be judged for your decision, which was raising a child with a woman to whom you were not married. Many people would frown upon that. God forbid you had two separate homes. More judgment there (not from me). I.e., you're making yourself look high and mighty, whether intentional or not. Just some food for thought...
Edited by feelyoungagain on Sun 08/16/20 05:43 PM
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 05:32 PM
Topic: woman
QUOTE:

Welcome ;-)
Because no one is obligated.


Exactly! Or, they're simply not interested in you.
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 05:31 PM
Topic: Love
That sounds like therapy is due
feelyoungagain
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Sun 08/16/20 03:51 PM
Topic: relationship goals
QUOTE:

Why do you say this? If you are in a relationship with the right person, I bet you will enjoy it


You, nor anyone, knows the future. Things change and there is no guarantee you will enjoy your partner or relationship to the point you don't want to leave, or should leave. Pessimistic, but that's reality.
feelyoungagain
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Sun 08/16/20 03:49 PM
Topic: relationship goals
QUOTE:

My goal is to not be in one.


Same here
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:48 PM
Topic: Interested
QUOTE:

Why do men say they are interest yet they are inconsistent with their actions?


Because they're men? LOL
feelyoungagain
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Sun 08/16/20 03:48 PM
Topic: Getting married.
QUOTE:

I figure that many on here are divorced or widow/widower. What age did you get married? I'm just curious to see how different my path was. Thanks everyone.


I have been single and will likely never get married. I honestly question my ability to be with the same person for the rest of my life. I don't think I have it in me to work on something for the long haul. I also don't believe in divorce. However, that's not to say I can't find a long-term and meaningful relationship. I've had my share, but I will not get married.
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:45 PM
Topic: Age difference
QUOTE:

Is it acceptable for a older guy over 50 to date a much younger women ( age limit 18 above )?


I don't care or judge what you do in your personal life as long as you're abiding the law with a consenting adult (i.e., 18 or above).
feelyoungagain
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Sun 08/16/20 03:42 PM
Topic: Sugar Mum or Sugar dad
QUOTE:

Can you just be a sugar Mum instead of divorcing your husband not doing enough for your sex life and attention? Same goes for the men!


Sure. Who says you can't do what you want with your personal life? I personally don't care and I say to you, "You do you!"
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Sun 08/16/20 03:41 PM
Topic: Do tall people have more advantage than short ppl?
QUOTE:

It's all propaganda and lies.
Tall people are cursed. They will never enjoy the simple pleasure of driving a cute fast sportscar.
The will always be bumping their heads on stuff and low ceiling objects.
And tall people never get to wear cute fun clothes.


LOL That is the craziest thing I've ever heard.
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:40 PM
Topic: Do tall people have more advantage than short ppl?
QUOTE:

Are there advantages that go with being tall,and do short people lose anything for being short?


Are you talking about the dating field? I think it depends on whom you're referring to. My experience has been that shorter men are less successful and on occasion, very short or very tall women are less successful.
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:38 PM
Topic: Some Things That Put you Off when Looking at Profiles?
Gross grammar and spelling errors.
Incomplete profile.
Narcissistic profile.
No picture or a picture of a landscape for example.
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:35 PM
Topic: Where are the real and serious men, 40 yo + ?
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I'm a few days old on the site & all I'm getting is the robotic Hi in my inbox from younger men even after clearly stating I'm only willing to date 40+

So, I'm here asking; where are the 40+ men? The ones who are ready and raring to go for the long haul?

I've honestly filled my profile and feel free to (AMA) ask me anything. I'm an open book.

Only the serious ones, hit me up. Let's get on to writing our success story.

Love,

Imani from Nairobi Kenya :flag_ke:


Maybe try using the search option.
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Sun 08/16/20 03:34 PM
Topic: rate me
QUOTE:

You've been a member for over 3 years and that has been plenty of time to have filled out your profile which you did not do. The rating is very low.


Based on this comment alone, I'm not even going to bother and check out his profile; let alone rate it. All I can say is "WOW." SMH...
feelyoungagain
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Sun 08/16/20 03:32 PM
Topic: Hi Gorgeous girls and womens out there come for fun
QUOTE:

Gorgeous girls and womens come for a fun loving time


So... you want girls and women? I would hope you don't want girls, but simply women. It's women btw. That's plural for the singular of woman in case you didn't know.
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:31 PM
Topic: Hello everyone!
QUOTE:

Yes, anything about that?


Hahaha Good response
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:30 PM
Topic: Older women
QUOTE:

Hello friends, I have realized that I am attracted to older women. I hardly get attached or attracted to someone in my age bracket. Sometimes, i get a bit disturbed when I meet a woman older than myself and I tell of her my interest in her. Most of such women think I need their money. Sadly enough,I am attached or attracted to older with brains. Is this normal loving women older than myself?


You can't help whom you love or are attracted to. So if it feels normal to you, and ignore everyone else's opinion, then go for it. I'm attracted to younger men. No one ever says it's abnormal and if I do, I simply tell them to mind their own life and not worry about mine.
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:27 PM
Topic: FEAR TO DEAD
QUOTE:




LOL
feelyoungagain
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Posts: 444
Sun 08/16/20 03:26 PM
Topic: FEAR TO DEAD
QUOTE:

Last week we went to buried our member who caused of an acident then after burial it was a custom those those people that "after every buried old people talk to people" now when we are about to leave their they called one mzee to talked to us then he said "THE FIRST TO LEAVE HERE WILL DIE"now all of us since last week now what should we do?


Believe what you want and decide whether or not you should worry about what was said. Then again, really? Besides, it's not like the time line was predicted. It could mean, though I don't believe it, that one of you will die before the other in your 90's. Did you consider that this person may have false beliefs, delusions, or simply beliefs different from yours? So, you can believe what you want. Good luck
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