Thanks for asking . Watching repeats of 'Frasier', while eating Pizza, and drinking Cola. I'm such a kid.

I'd mainly just keep it, for the sake of the memories. I think I'd almost feel like we never happened, if I didn't have some sort of keepsake left from our relationship. I just always feel like I need something physical infront of me, to prove to myself, that we were together, because as the years go by, it can feel like it was all a dream. I know that may be hard to understand, though. I'm the same way whenever anyone I know dies.

I understand relating it to someone who dies...ending a relationship can seem like a "death" of sorts, so I understand what you are saying, totally. However, in my mind, I don't need something physical to convince me I had something emotional, spiritual, or of real value at a given point in my life. My mind holds it all, without the physical representation of that relationship...therefore, I need no physical object to remind me of it...and in the end, if it's gone, it won't be any closer with a physical object to represent it.

I'd let him do what he wants with his. As it was his in the first place. I'd probably keep mine, as we were once in a special relationship together, and I want to stay true to my feelings, by keeping the jewellery as a symbol of our memories of times spent together. I seriously don't think I could give such a sentimental thing away. I may sound soft saying that, but I love deep.