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w/e, the date should start before I even read your profile, otherwise its just moving too slow. 
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Friends first! Take it slow is my motto.... Old fashioned works for me   Good for you Thanks hang in there the right person will come along that will cherish those values
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lol I went on rant in a topic of mine. But it brought some good replies..and hmmmm :blusing: a nice conversation away from it as well
 http://mingle2.com/topic/show/139402
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Friends first! Take it slow is my motto.... Old fashioned works for me Good for you
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   Sorry peeps its random rant time...Well grrrr. Why do everybody have to start dating right away...especially online...because you don't have that chance to just mingle and get to know a person in a "normal" way. But apparently if you say you like someone than it must mean you want to date that person right away. I'm sorry but lol while I"m on here I'm still old fashion. I like to get to know a person, become friends before thinking about something more...well at least I think I do. I know I'm not the only one online who is still old fashion...even if we are online....okay I swear I'm done now... lol any christian men interested in a stocky ranting christian female. Check out my profile.   i'm confused. first part: i want to get to just hang out and get to know people. I don't want to rush into dating. second part: hey, anyone wanna date me? I think alot of people have differnt defintions of old fashion. I personaly want to hang out and get to know someone as well. Thats generally what a date is. If there nearby, and we hit it off, sure i might ask them if they want to hang out and go do something. I've tried the meet at a bar, go to dinner thing. It doesn't work for me. To much stress, and pressure. Usually people that want to just talk online for months even though they live close by, have something to hide, are really insecure or are playing games. There is something to be said for going with the flow though. |
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You're quite welcome, you seem to have a very good head on your shoulders. I hope you never lose that, don't change. thank you, you seem to as well, continue being yourself!!
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it's a mixed blessing/curse ... on one hand if you e-mail/chat w/someone often you can kind of feel them out...then later start talking (for hours  ) on the phone you get to know alot more about them and esp for the shyer person, they may share/open up alot more than in person...or if they're Really shy you or live outside your little microcosm you would most likely never have met them at all...then if you meet and click in person...well that's what most of us are here for...on the other side they may be sociopaths and/or pathalogical liars...anyway, the best of luck to you and i hope your prince charming sweeps you off your feet and you live happily ever after I wish all of you, even you pushy sort the best of luck in finding who you're looking for.  
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Nothing wrong with that thinking at all, it only makes sense really. I mean you really ought to be friends first, before deciding whether you want to take the relationship to that next level or not. Otherwise it's like skipping dinner to get to dessert you know? It's backwards, and you end up getting hurt that way, expecting more then one ought to be when first meeting someone. It's especially wise I think online to take things slow, because you don't even know the person in real life yet. For all you know, you could be getting your hopes up, only to be let down when you do finally meet. I will admit, I am guilty of getting overly involved sometimes though, and getting in over my head, it can be quite easy to do at times really. But it doesn't change what you said, what you say is very true, and if more people would heed it, there would be less heartbreak I think.
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You're not the only person that is old fashioned. I am too. I figure there's somebody for each of us old fashion people as well
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Well personally,I have a great deal of respect 4 U sweetheart.Godspeed!Cy
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hey at least I feel better   
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lol don't blame ya
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Sorry peeps its random rant time...Well grrrr. Why do everybody have to start dating right away...especially online...because you don't have that chance to just mingle and get to know a person in a "normal" way. But apparently if you say you like someone than it must mean you want to date that person right away. I'm sorry but lol while I"m on here I'm still old fashion. I like to get to know a person, become friends before thinking about something more...well at least I think I do. I know I'm not the only one online who is still old fashion...even if we are online....okay I swear I'm done now... lol any christian men interested in a stocky ranting christian female. Check out my profile.
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...... ...... ......  
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Topic:
Does Your Heart...
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Thank you all for taking the time to read and for your wonderful comments... Pam, Angel, Erica, Suze and Tiff...thanks so much. 
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((((((((hugs)))))))) britty, debbie ad wouldee Kisses sweet tiff....how are ya love. Ahhhh we love you to tiffs....and I will pray about the situation with the co-workers.......
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Topic:
Dating a churchgoer
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Topic:
Does Your Heart...
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Topic:
Dating a churchgoer
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I would but lol I go to church...not all the time mind you but I do love my church family and I do love God. I don't expect all my friends to love God, I have plenty who don't. But I think the person I'm looking for...if you can call it that...would be someone who shared the basic same beliefs as I do. Now...do they have to go to church...no...but believe in God...yes because thats how I'd want to raise our family. But again mind you I love all my friends who don't believe in God and I don't pressure them I just would rather have my guy believe in Him.
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   Thank you
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