OK,,READY?



To be able to LEAD,,as well as you follow.
To be honest in who you really live.

To be open to hear imperfections you have,
and able to be big enough to work on them,
to become more, without seeing them in anger.

To be confident in who you are, and stand behind your judgments made.

YET, to know your only human, and never perfect,yet work to be your best always.

A man needs to be as equal in his thoughts,,as well as in his actions to do. Yet strong enough to compromise when he See's its the best for all, NOT just him.

A man needs to be able to confirm to himself,
that he is His own MAN MADE...person..

He will stand for what he believes,
yet bend to much degree if prov-en wrong.

A man is a man, once he out grows all of his boy within him.

He needs to be able to bring-out his boy within him,,if he feels he's needed to ACT,,and not look at that as wrong, for others to see.

He needs to be a protector, able to ACT in order to save another.
Yet humble enough to know reason over risk of injury to all.

He needs to first,love himself, in order to ever love someone else.

He must have confidants in who HE IS, and project THAT when needed to do, yet meek enough to take others advices without that offending him.

AND,,a man CAN CRY A TEAR,,and STILL BE A MAN,
For its within his inner qualities of manhood EARNED to HAVE and know,
Which allows his tear to flow. (sorry just had to rhyme),lol

Life, Time, and HIS experience WITNESSED,,
builds his manhood inside as its learned, and called,wisdom..

I think thats about it,,,,lol
But to be real,,WE ALL,,MEN AND WOMEN,,LEARN and GROW to become MORE of who we ARE,,and who we are SEEN AS,,,on a daily basis.
and through an openness to hear, reason, and self analyze US.
We grow and become more of (HOPEFULLY) a better adult through that.

BUT,,,see,,,noew THIS IS A BIGGY HERE,,

WE ALL VIEW THE CONCEPTS OF BEING A REAL MAN,
THROUGH THE REAL MEN WE LEARNED THAT THROUGH?

SO,,,we ALL will have different idealisms within who and what made us THINK THAT,,as we grew to become ONE?

the same things that make anyone a good person - aside from the obvious biological differences

Yeah, in your case, probably wasn't a good move.

Not ALL of them are. You have seen Carrot top, haven't you?

I had a FWB going on with one ex gf and it worked out quite well. We split on good terms (obviously) after deciding that neither of us were what the other wanted/needed, but we'd still remain friends (with the occasional roll in the hay while still single). She was a bit of nympho and we knew each other well and knew we're both 'safe'. We were already a couple for a relatively long time and knew that getting back together as a 'couple' wasn't gonna happen. So, all around, it was a hell of a lot better than just hooking up with a random anybody in a bar who could turn out to be a mass murderer, or have some disease or will rob you blind while you're taking a leak. With any luck I'll never be single again, but just in case, I'd do that again in a second.

And just in case you forget to check and find out that you are out (too late), DO NOT resort to pine cones, poison ivy or fiberglass insulation.....

That would be difficult. Just be you, people need to accept that.

Comedians ARE funny.

but carries himself with confidence and looks people in the eye, really stands out in a crowd.

Ummmmmmm.................

I think the.....

Penis

Is a dead giveaway!!!!!!

I like a man who's open, and who doesn't feel like it's a weakness to confide in his woman.

I use my Dad as my example of what I should be....

Strong, capable, independant, good natured, careing, giving, thoughtful, sincere, dumb as schitt some days, loving, hard working, and very faithful.

Always the shoulder to lean on. The encouraging word. The silent act of just doing the right thing at the right time....whether it is drying a tear, or kissing an owwie...or going to work or war for your loved ones....

Real men stand out as men among men