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Guess their age...
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30
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Hi Betty, I have not heard from you in a while.
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Hi Joyce, I will be 62 in Oct. of this year. I have not had a date in years so I do not know what dating is like anymore. I bet it has changed a lot.
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Does anyone really care?
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I am real and care a lot for people.
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Topic:
life after 60
Edited by
kiteman
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Fri 08/21/09 07:24 AM
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Welcome to Mingle 2. I am 61 years old and looking for a woman from 50 to 61 years old. Dave
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I am interested in women my age just have not met anyone nice in a long time.
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Are you lonely?
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Been a widower for 20 years and I have no kids. I have no family that lives near me. I am waiting for my brother to retire. He is going to move then. When he is settled I will move near him. It may be 3 more years. In the mean time I am lonely.
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Not one date
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How many widowers out there?
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Why do you feel that way? People are talking to you they care that is the start to friendship :) I do not see the caring, just people like to talk. I care so much it hurts and no one sees that, Yes I was depressed and it showed I am sorry for that. I am okay now. I want to be able to help others. |
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How many widowers out there?
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I feel so alone and scared at times too. Carol,what can we do to help each other? I am hanging in their, I am happy just no friends on Mingle 2 |
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How many widowers out there?
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(((((Betty))))), just got this read, my thoughts go out to you. Kiteman, just hang in there & post. People will reply & you will gain friends. Many of us post in "waves" as our schedules allow. Sometimes I an able to post alot & others I post very litle. You just jump in to a conversation & say what you think. We are a very diverse group & if you are posting, people will reply. Hang in there & keep trying, it will happen. Thank you, I am trying and still only one friend |
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Both of my parents have died and I miss them both.
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How many widowers out there?
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I feel so alone and scared at times too. Carol,what can we do to help each other? |
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How many widowers out there?
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I see whenever I say how I feel no one replies or cares. I have known Betty for a while and she is the only friend I have made through Mingle 2. I care about people and I feel bad for all who have lost a loved one. ((((Dave)))  Don't fell that way hon. We all care on here and we have all been through the devastion of losing a loved one. Just because someone didn't reply does not mean we don't care , we all do very much and we are all so sorry for each others losses and pain. It's not just this group. I know I am not alone in losing someone. You are the only one who cares and says so. Still no one in this forum even acknowledges me, accept you. I have said welcome to Teresa and no reply I'm sorry I haven't replyed, I have had my own set of other problems with greiving, and just find it easier to talk to a woman who has lost a spouse than a man. We have some of the same issues, but oh so many different ones. I know a man who lost his wife and three months later was calling all the widows he knew and telling them he was looking for a wife. He found one within about a month and they are still married today, it's been 1 1/2 years for them. Again, I'm sorry you felt I was avoiding you. Teresa, thank you for your reply. I have lost every one I ever loved and I feel the lost every day. I was feeling alone when I said you did not reply |
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How many widowers out there?
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We  you too :) But when you said only Betty has replied to you I know others have and I have. But at times we get into ourselves. Hope you having a good day. And smiling :) Yes you have a long time ago. I remember meeting you. I meant in the last month. It's ok |
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How many widowers out there?
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What do you want me to do. I am doing fine and love you all
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How many widowers out there?
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Hi Dave I just read all of the replys you got and as you see I am not your only friend!The people on here are the best people in the world now the ball is in your court to reach back out at them! Now turn that frown upside down and do your Elvis Dance   Tomorrow May 14 will be a tough day for me to cause it would have been my wedding anniversary, but with the help of my kids and friends I will get through it just fine! You guys are the Best!!  What do you want me to say? I love all of you and thank you. I am over my depression and I am willing to help all of you in this forum. |
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How many widowers out there?
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Hello Dave, Rob here. Sometimes people will not reply for a variety of reasons. You may have reminded them of their own situation, with all the memories. It is not that people dont care - we all do. We all handle the process in a different way and with different lengths of time. This Sept it will be 2 yrs since I lost my wife. There seems to be a lot of therapy, just talking to people. Occasionally you will get a response. For me it is just nice to know that someone is listening - no matter if they respond or not. It was 20 years last month and I still miss her. I am sorry for your loss. I know what the problem is, I live alone and have no friends. I need to be with people. I sold my car so it is hard to get out. |
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How many widowers out there?
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Thank you for your advice, I will look into it again
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How many widowers out there?
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I have the feeling no one knows me. My name is Dave and I have been a widower for 20 years. I was married less then 3 years when my wife died, she was only 35 years old. Both of my parents have died and I have no kids. I have a brother who is 66 years old and married and lives in Arizona. I have no family near me. I am 61.
I was staying away from the forums as I was very depressed. I am still a little but at least I am reaching out. |
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