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Being Upfront
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salvatore35
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 Please stop. Give it a rest already. You've called me a liar, threatened to report me to mods, told me all about how I should be worried about my reputation here, told me you're "on to me" and not fooled by me. So no, I'd rather not be friends. |
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Well Fran...as you can see..it takes two to heal.I have extended a hand and apologized...so now what?
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Being Upfront
Edited by
salvatore35
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Tue 06/16/09 07:26 AM
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Please stop. |
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Being Upfront
Edited by
salvatore35
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Tue 06/16/09 07:26 AM
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I love that she is passionate about her feelings...and that she knows what she wants and dosen't give in if it doesn't agree with her truth.I do love alot of qualities about her....now i don't agree with some of her opinions...but that doesn't mean we can't be friends.I keep extending my hand in friendship to her...but she says NO everytime.It is possible for people to agree to disagree!
I am sorry singmesweet..i apologize and ask for peace from you.Do you accept? |
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And in my personal experience- don't ask for something you are not ready to handle. Most women who have demanded me to express my feelings have inadvertantly opened one big f*cking pandoras box and afterwards have all replied "I'm sorry I asked". Don't tease tigers. They may maul you dead. Probably because most of us are working and respond when we have a chance. now Sal if you don't behave you won't be able to go outside and enjoy recess  play nice w/sings - she rocks!!!   |
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And in my personal experience- don't ask for something you are not ready to handle. Most women who have demanded me to express my feelings have inadvertantly opened one big f*cking pandoras box and afterwards have all replied "I'm sorry I asked". Don't tease tigers. They may maul you dead. Probably because most of us are working and respond when we have a chance. |
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Eh, I'd rather talk about things than avoid questions that I might not want to hear the answer to. |
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I'm thnking Biker....mabey if you adress it to the original OP..she will have an answer!
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And in my personal experience- don't ask for something you are not ready to handle. Most women who have demanded me to express my feelings have inadvertantly opened one big f*cking pandoras box and afterwards have all replied "I'm sorry I asked". Don't tease tigers. They may maul you dead. |
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And it goes both ways ya know. You women for centuries have forced men into no- win situations. We, like all animals have adapted to our environment. Cavewoman orga asks caveman volg "Ugh! Does this animal pelt make my ass look fat"? Volg replies "Umma! Yah! It so fat you can't hide behind triceritops"! BLAMMMM!!! Orga smacks volg with club! 35 million years later we've adapted to our environment. Suburbanite jane asks suburbanite d!ck "Ugh! Do these pleated rayon pants make my ass look fat"? D!ck replies "Why no dear, they are very appealing on you"! |
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Sal, Fran, Sing, Biker and whoever else I missed. (sorry) Thanks for the morning convo! Men are from Jupiter and Women from Saturn (hence the rings) and that's why we still have URANUS!!! Gotta get movin' on the day here! Have a great one y'all!!!  |
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That's why so many "TALKS" turn into 'fights'. Many men think the woman is attacking them and they become defensive instead of just truly listening and then sharing their thoughts and views in return. Don't they know that everything doesn't have to be a combat!! That's why I say 'many' and 'most' I would NEVER say ALL!!! I've come across quite a few men who can open and share but usually they were just friends. When in a relationship I think men are less open. I believe they feel more vulnerable and scared to let down the wall. I must have been a man in my former life  and I must have kept some of the traits
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That's why so many "TALKS" turn into 'fights'. Many men think the woman is attacking them and they become defensive instead of just truly listening and then sharing their thoughts and views in return. Don't they know that everything doesn't have to be a combat!! That's why I say 'many' and 'most' I would NEVER say ALL!!! I've come across quite a few men who can open and share but usually they were just friends. When in a relationship I think men are less open. I believe they feel more vulnerable and scared to let down the wall. |
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I don't think either sex has any real intentions of being confrontational. It's just perceived that way by party not getting what they wanted from the other party. Exactly Fran! There is NO intent but the communication goes awry when two different approaches collide. Dont think it's the approach (can be) but the recipient of delivery that dictates whether we shall have a conversation or you shall just sit there in misery while I go on and on and on about what I forgot but you made me miserable and now it's my turn to make you miserable, I shall talk about shoes, shopping, my co worker, my brother, etc, etc, etc. Just kidding!!!  |
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I don't think either sex has any real intentions of being confrontational. It's just perceived that way by party not getting what they wanted from the other party. Exactly Fran! There is NO intent but the communication goes awry when two different approaches collide. |
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Ok Biker...i am stealing that line and using it whenever possible....classic!
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You women have no right to complain about men holding back their feelings. You did that to us. When women invented PMS, men invented ESPN.
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That's why so many "TALKS" turn into 'fights'. Many men think the woman is attacking them and they become defensive instead of just truly listening and then sharing their thoughts and views in return. Don't they know that everything doesn't have to be a combat!! It's why some avoid talking at all about certain things, too. |
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 Morning! I think it is generally best to be up front in most situations. Kinda goes along with honesty and trust.... know what I mean? Exactly! |
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