Thanks {{{{{{Cyndi}}}}}}

Ohhh....that's a tough one.

A circumcision would be extreme, and a hardship at my age.
<<<nearly faints at the thought.

i said it before and i'll say it again
you get nothing for nothing expect it when
you're backseat driving and your hands ain't on the wheel

ohkay now that i got that out of my system, it shouldn't have to be about a man giving up his life for a woman or her giving up her life for him. an adult male and an adult female should be able to merge their separate lives together and find some common ground. on occasion he could go with her to do something she likes and she could go with him to do something he likes. can't we all just get along

Oh Cyndi, you mean to say no to Chris Farley?

(((((Cyndi))))gawd...some days I feel like such a loser...
Chocolate would be good...;))))

Yes, but could you have a meaningful relationship with Tommy boy?

But I like my stuff.

Boys will be boys. Toys are just that, toys. A loving relationship should be forever.

indeed

Kinda ALONE...kinda bitchy...kinda doing without

1Cynderella, are you talking about the physical exam? If so, then we don't have a problem, since my relationship preferences differ completely from yours. Tactics have to be crafted to fit the goals, and my goal is a lifetime commitment. There is no final exam here.

I only value attractiveness because it partially demonstrates a form of intelligence that I value: self control.

or her for having nothing up top

I believe that men are, but they cannot let on to this because it makes women think they are emotional and insecure, which results in us being part of their "friend zone". Have you ever wondered why men can be real ********? It is because you ladies say and do just the right thing to try and remove the scab that has healed over our past brushes with women. Ya'll do the same things that expose our secrets which make us vulnerable, which is what you really want, but when we give in and do this you lose interest, much like men lose interest when you give in and have sex with us too soon. One of many of our (not so secretive) secrets is that we do not like slutty girls, we like you like that in the bed, but not in public, and when you give it up so easily we can only assume you are that easy for anyone. Also, if you say some things that imply that you want a long term relationship, then turn around and say you only want FWB, and not to be anyones GF, and wanna date and meet new people, how can you really take offense when he implies that you might be a slut? If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it must me a SLUT.

I bring kindness and understanding and boundaries (not the doormat type of understanding). I bring space, willing ears and supportive attitude, love of trying new things, true friendship and acceptance....with the expectation that there will be enough room for my shoes, cosmetics and clothes

oh, I also usually know how to fix stuff :)