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Sun 10/30/16 06:57 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 10/30/16 07:01 AM

how to get over Trust Issues in any relationship?


GRIEVE AND LET GO.....OTHERWISE HIS FACE WILL BE ON EVERY MALE YOU SEE....I KNEW

SOMEONE WHO BELIEVED NOBODY TOLD THE TRUTH HE SAW LIARS AROUND EVERY CORNER, AND

BEHIND EVERY BUSH....ONCE HE REALIZED THAT NOT EVERYONE WILL LIE TO HIM JUST

LIKE MAGIC THE LIARS WERE GONE.....WHEN WE FOCUS ON WHAT WE DO NOT WANT WE JUST

GET MORE OF IT....ONLY FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO WANT.....GOOD LUCK....

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Sun 10/30/16 06:56 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 10/30/16 07:07 AM




A MAN STOPS DREAMING WHEN HE HAS A PRACTICAL WOMAN IN HIS LIFE..!


Agree



SASSY ,,,,YOUR A SMART WOMAN.....P.S. IT IS TRUE.....

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Sun 10/30/16 06:43 AM


A MAN STOPS DREAMING WHEN HE HAS A PRACTICAL WOMAN IN HIS LIFE..!

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Sun 10/30/16 06:13 AM

An old fashion romantic is refreshing :wink:



LADY SHAZBO,,,THIS ONE,RIGHT OVER YOUR HEAD......BETTER CARRY BIG STICK AND WALK

SOFT....

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Sun 10/30/16 06:08 AM




WALMART,

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Sat 10/29/16 09:26 AM




liberal sob's ,,,,,

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Sat 10/29/16 09:22 AM


What are your views to the upcoming American election?


Your 1st mistake is thinking elections have anything much to do with the American people or their thoughts.

Funded by corporations and elite self interested million and billionaires, and biasly scripted by a liberal media..... there is no room or interest in "average" Americans or their thoughts in an election any more, only the appearance of it



thats sums it up....clinton liberals own america paid for by corps and agents of

other liberal commie countries.....

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Sat 10/29/16 07:13 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 10/29/16 07:15 AM


CLINTON IS MORE OF SAME LIBERAL CRAP.........LIBERALS ALWAYS BELIEVE THEY KNOW WHATS BEST FOR EVERYONE ELSE.......OBAMA CLINTON HEALTH CARE GOING UP 25% WHEN WILL IT END....

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Fri 10/28/16 09:47 AM


it was a movie,,,,,,just a movie.......i have witnessed regression but this is way out......

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Fri 10/28/16 08:18 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 10/28/16 08:24 AM

Why do so many nice guys feel that women should fall in love with them because they are NICE?

I have been nice all my life and it never once occurred to me that men should drop to their knees with desire because of my "niceness"

There are soooooo many other qualities and factors which impact upon our ability to find a suitable partner. Sometimes there are other qualities we have to work on like conversational skills, or grooming or confidence etc. Or sometimes it could just be an issue of timing or fate. Some people find their compatible partner later on in life.

So my question is this?

When nice guys complain about women rejecting them because they are too nice, do you think their complaint is valid? Or do you think they are naive /clueless about the complexities of love and relationships?





ALL MOST ALL WOMEN ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A ''NICE GUY''. THEY ARE LOOKING FOR A

''ALPHA MALE'' THEY CAN COUNT ON TO PROVIDE AND PROTECT..... THE RUB IS THEY

KNOW VERY LITTLE ABOUT EACH OTHER WHEN IT COMES TO THERE PHYSICAL AND

EMOTIONAL DIFFERENCES...AND IN THE WORLD TODAY THEY EXPECT NOT TO HAVE

FAULTS AND DISAGREEMENTS.....THEN ON TOP OF IT NEITHER KNOW EVERY LITTLE ABOUT

WHAT MOTIVATES THEMSELVES....THERE IS A LOT MORE TO THIS BUT I DO NOT HAVE THE

SPACE OR TIME TO EXPLAIN IT ALL HERE....START BY READING ''MEN ARE FROM

MARS-WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS BY JOHN GRAY.....GOOD LUCK.....P.S. HE ALSO HAS

OTHER GREAT BOOKS AND HE ALSO HAS SELF HELP VIDEO'S ON LINE.......

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Fri 10/28/16 08:18 AM

Why do so many nice guys feel that women should fall in love with them because they are NICE?

I have been nice all my life and it never once occurred to me that men should drop to their knees with desire because of my "niceness"

There are soooooo many other qualities and factors which impact upon our ability to find a suitable partner. Sometimes there are other qualities we have to work on like conversational skills, or grooming or confidence etc. Or sometimes it could just be an issue of timing or fate. Some people find their compatible partner later on in life.

So my question is this?

When nice guys complain about women rejecting them because they are too nice, do you think their complaint is valid? Or do you think they are naive /clueless about the complexities of love and relationships?





ALL MOST ALL WOMEN ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A ''NICE GUY''. THEY ARE LOOKING FOR A

''ALPHA MALE'' THEY CAN COUNT ON TO PROVIDE AND PROTECT..... THE RUB IS THEY

KNOW VERY LITTLE ABOUT EACH OTHER WHEN IT COMES TO THERE PHYSICAL AND

EMOTIONAL DIFFERENCES...AND IN THE WORLD TODAY THEY EXPECT NOT TO HAVE

FAULTS AND DISAGREEMENTS.....THEN ON TOP OF IT NEITHER KNOW EVERY LITTLE ABOUT

WHAT MOTIVATES THEMSELVES....THERE IS A LOT MORE TO THIS BUT I DO NOT HAVE THE

SPACE OR TIME TO EXPLAIN IT ALL HERE....START BY READING ''MEN ARE FROM

MARS-WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS BY JOHN GRAY.....GOOD LUCK.....

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Thu 10/27/16 01:04 PM


GOOD LUCK,AND WELCOME....

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Wed 10/26/16 09:58 AM

Red, White and Blue
all misconstrued in subtle shades of gray.
A smiley face for the human race,
it just hasn't been YOUR day!
Keep the union whole.
Run it up the pole,
all spun out — syncopated.
We're letting nonsense rule
and when left to fools,
our nation is ill-fated.

-K



VERY TRUE,,,,,,

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Wed 10/26/16 08:40 AM


romantic relationship is something that is quite challenging to keep it right.

what are those possible ways to just probably at least maintain the intensity of emotions for the both parties involved?


Depends what you mean by intensity. Some couples can't get off of each other in public. They kiss with intertwined arms and legs looks like they're fighting some irresistible force that wants to crush them together. That's pretty intense but not everyone likes their space to be constantly invaded by someone who professes to care yet gets upset when you've simply had your fill of "intimacy" and closeness becomes claustrophobic.
Then again, your question precludes the possibilities that, unlike modern husbands, emotions aren't to be controlled at will whenever it suits us. Otherwise you're not being yourself but acting a part of yourself who could exist IF the right romantic conditions were present.
So how intense would you want those emotions to get? pitchfork





like clinton said WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY SEX......

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Tue 10/25/16 11:25 AM

....from the "children lover" and the man she wants to follow.

""A top Hillary Clinton aide expressed alarm in early 2015 that President Barack Obama claimed he was unaware of Clinton's private email server until he learned about it in the news.

"We need to clean this up - he has emails from her - they do not say state.gov," said Clinton adviser Cheryl Mills in a hacked email posted Tuesday on WikiLeaks.

As the scandal over Clinton's use of a private email server was still emerging in March 2015, Obama told CBS News that he learned about the arrangement through the media. "The same time everybody else learned it through news reports," Obama told CBS News' Bill Plante.

White House Press Secretary Josh Earnest later clarified that while the president knew about Clinton’s email address, he “was not aware of the details of how that email address and that server had been set up.”"
http://www.politico.com/story/2016/10/clinton-email-server-when-did-obama-know-230285

Our CHILDREN don't need the EXPERIENCE of corruption and lies represented by Hillary and her gang.....


HOW ABOUT THE STRANGE DEATHS............

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Tue 10/25/16 11:13 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 10/25/16 11:22 AM

Not having luck finding a partner locally. I have my own home and would love to find the right person that would like to share life with me.



CAREFUL BIG GUY..!!!!!!!!!! YOU TOLD TO MUCH ALL READY......LOT OF BAD GUYS OUT

THERE A JUST AS MANY BAD GIRLS.......A SENOR CENTER IN YOUR AREA SHOULD HAVE

LOTS AND LOTS OF

WOMEN LOOKING FOR A MAN....

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Tue 10/25/16 10:42 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 10/25/16 10:46 AM

I refuse to vote for a woman, just because she is a woman.

:)


AMEN......OR A MAN EITHER......YOU SEE WHAT HAPPENED WHEN 98% OF BLACKS VOTED

FOR OBAMA....P.S. OBAMA CARE GOING UP 25% AFTER ELECTION....WE GOT SCREWED BY

LIBERALS AGAIN........

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Tue 10/25/16 10:34 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 10/25/16 10:39 AM

I feeling the outside, but personality defines you, right?


WHAT WE SEE IS THE PERSONA, THE OUTER SHELL, WHAT WE SEE IS THE RESULT OF A LOT

OF THINGS THAT WE ARE NOT AWARE OF.....THE INTERNAL SCARE,PAIN, AND FEAR A LOT

OF PEOPLE CARRY AROUND WITH THEM EVERYDAY OF THERE LIVES....IF THEY GAVE IT UP

THEY WOULD HAVE NOTHING....I HAVE MET PEOPLE WHO ARE ROUGH ON THE OUTSIDE WHO

ARE REALLY SOFT ON THE INSIDE.......

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Tue 10/25/16 09:19 AM


WELL IT LOOKS LIKE WOMEN DO NOT LISTEN EITHER
.....

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Mon 10/24/16 09:36 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Mon 10/24/16 09:51 AM

Is it true that once a cheater always a cheater??? What do you think?


NO....ALL RESEARCH SAYS NO....ONLY 12% OF MEN ARE PRONE TO CHEAT....SOME GUYS

ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS WHERE THEY ARE NOT GETTING THERE NEEDS MET AND SEE NO OTHER

WAY....THE BIGGEST REASON IS GUYS DO UNDERSTAND WOMEN AND WOMEN DO NOT

UNDERSTAND MEN....WE ARE SO DIFFERENT NOT ONLY PHYSICALLY BUT HORMONALLY AND

EMOTIONALLY...YOU CAN NOT FIX WHAT YOU DO NOT UNDERSTAND....WE DO NOT TAKE IN

INFO THE SAME AND WE DO NOT PROCESS IT THE SAME.....THE ANSWER IS TO EDUCATE OUR

SELVES ON HOW THE OTHER SIDE THINKS, FEELS, THERE WANTS AND

NEEDS...smile2 EXAMPLE: WOMEN TALK TO EACH OTHER ABOUT THERE PROBLEMS OR

TALK TO FIND OUT WHAT THE PROBLEM IS......SO THEY CAN LET GO OF IT..!!!!!

IF A GUY TELLS ANOTHER GUY HIS PROBLEM, THE GUY THINKS HE WANTS HIM TO FIX

IT...... SO WHEN SHE STARTS TELL HIM A ABOUT PROBLEMS DURING THE DAY HE THINKS

SHE WANTS HIM TO FIX THEM. WHEN ALL SEE NEEDS IS SOMEONE TO JUST

LISTEN.....NUMBER ONE COMPLAINT ABOUT MEN ''HE DOES NOT LISTEN TO ME''.....

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