relationships ebb and flow,there are times when we don't have it to give....if

things are cooling off to the point its causing a riff....what both can do is

remember back to warmer days and behave as if it is back then...there are

other

things like when leave the to go out not only a hug but also a very passionate

kiss and the same when you return....and regular ''dates'' with your mate is a

must do.....and most important never judge or criticize each other

ever....offer

advice if asked for only.....i believe it must be a passionate friendship to

grow

to

mature love.......

EVERYTHING IN THIS LIFE IS ABOUT BELIEFS THATS WHY WE HAVE, HAVES AND HAVE

NOT'S.....''WHAT YOU SEE IN YOUR MINDS EYE YOU WILL HOLD IN YOUR HAND''...IT

ALWAYS STARTS WITH US AND ENDS WITH US......HAVE FAITH IN YOURSELF AND OTHERS

AND HE WILL BE IN YOUR LIFE.......THERE ARE A GREAT MANY REALLY GOOD GUYS OUT

THERE FOR YOU......IF HE IS NOT IN YOUR POND LOOK IN ANOTHER POND.....GOOD LUCK

IF I FIRST MET YOU AND YOU TOLD ME EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU AND YOU TOLD ME THE BAD

AND UGLY ALONG WITH THE GOOD WOULD YOU EXPECT ME TO HANG AROUND?????????????

THERE IS NOBODY ON THE PLANET POO FREE...AND I EXPECT NOTHING BUT THE GOOD STUFF

UNTILL A BUTTON IS PUSHED.....THATS WHY WOMEN WHEN THEY MEET A GUY THEY WILL

TEST HIM..............AND I EXPECT TO FAIL MOST OF THE TIME BECAUSE THESE ARE

HER MOST SENSITIVE ISSUES SHE IS USING TO TEST ME....WHEN WE LOOK AT A ISSUE

AND WE SEE ITS NOT ''ALWAYS'' OR ''EVERY TIME'' ITS LIKE MAGIC THE THE ISSUE

GOES AWAY.....

YES WE SEE IT DIFFERENTLY,AS MEN AND WOMEN,,,,WE ALL HAVE FILTERS BASED ON OUR

EXPERIENCES AND HOW WE JUDGED THEM AT A TIME WHEN WE WERE NOT PREPARED TO

FULLY

UNDERSTAND.....THE NATURAL CHILD IN US WANTS SO BAD TO LOVE AND BE LOVED AND

THEN THE ADAPTIVE CHILD IN US GETS IN THE WAY.....

WALK OUTSIDE AND SMILE.......

AN EGG CAN NOT LAY A CHICKEN,,,,,HOW EVER A CHICKEN CAN LAY AN EGG.....AND I DO

KNOW FOR SURE MY ANCESTORS CAME FIRST........

SO TRUE,,,,WHEN TWO PEOPLE START OUT ITS ABOUT ''ME'' ''WHAT I AM LOOKING FOR''

TO PEOPLE LOOKING FOR THE OTHER TO FILL THERE CUP....ITS SO HARD TO FIND

SOMEONE

IT SEEMS TO RISK TO GOING FROM ME TO ''WE''.AND WHEN IT DOES, AFTER A WHILE

COMES THE POWER STRUGGLE WHERE ITS THE WOMAN WANTING TO GET ''ME ''

BACK......BECAUSE THEY FOR THE MOST PART ARE THE GIVERS AND THE MALES ARE THE

TAKERS .......I SEE THE ANSWER AS GETTING TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN US

AND THE OTHER GENDER.....SO OFTEN WE BELIEVE THEY ARE LIKE US AND THEY ARE

NOT......WE SEE LOVE DIFFERENTLY, WE NEED TO BE LOVED DIFFERENTLY.....BOTTOM

LINE WE NEED TO DO ONTO AS THEY NEED US TO DO ONTO THEM......I HAVE A SPECIAL

PLACE IN MY HEART FOR TWO WOMEN THE THAT I KNOW LOVE ME ''FOR WHO I AM''

WITHOUT CHANGING ANYTHING.....AND THEY WERE NOT MY ''LOVERS'' THEY WERE THE

BEST FRIENDS ANY PERSON COULD POSSIBLY HAVE....I GUESS YOU COULD SAY THATS

''TRUE LOVE''.....

its everything including awareness about who they elect .......they turn a blind

eye to all there dirty deeds.....

the rest of the word knows how stupid it is to elect liberals...thats it every

time her mouth opens out comes poo.....

yep, and i am afraid we are getting another liberal sob for prez....she has

already cost to many lives......should be in jail for taking money from foreign

government agents and the list goes on........they do not care about us

vets......

DID YOU READ WHAT I ALREADY SAID ABOUT THIS....LET GO....GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

NOT ALL MEN ARE EXACTLY ALIKE.......IF THAT WERE THE CASE ALL WOMEN WOULD BE THE

SAME......AND FOR HEAVENS SAKE TRY AND SEE YOUR PART IN THE RELATIONSHIP......

WALK SOFT AND CARRY A BIG STICK.......I KNOW THAT FRIENDS ARE USUALLY PEOPLE

WITH'' MATCHING ILLUSIONS''.....NOTICE I DID ''NOT SAY SAME ILLUSIONS'' ALL

THOUGH THAT CAN HAPPEN.......

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GREAT POINT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!OFTEN SHES LEFT EMPTY,,,
,AND HE IS FULL..........

SO TRUE.....

''WASTED DAYS,WASTED NIGHTS'' WHEN ITS NOT MUTUAL ADMIRATION....''EVERYBODY

LOSES''......''BOTH PEOPLE AND EVEN KIDS IF THEY HAVE THEM LOSE''. WITH LOVE ITS

NOT HOW MUCH ( THE SECOND YOU KEEP SCORE ITS OVER ), ITS YOU DO OR DO

NOT......MEN AND WOMEN SPEAK AND SHOW LOVE IN DIFFERENT WAYS THAT CREATE

MISUNDERSTANDINGS......HOW WE SEND AND RECEIVE LOVE SO OUR PARTER WILL

UNDERSTAND IS CRITICAL.......WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THEY ARE NOT US AND WHAT WE

NEED IS NOT WHAT THEY NEED WHEN IT COMES TO MALE AND FEMALE NEEDS....THIS FACT

IS SO SIMPLE I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY MORE PEOPLE ''GET IT''....

Oneec, you are wise beyond your years...most of what i say will go through

most peoples ears spin around and come out the other ear for naught....thanks

for the complement....

ALPHA MALES DO NOT NEED A WINGMAN.......

never happen.......even if your knight rides up to you on his horse you will

still have to clean up the horse poo......NO RELATIONSHIP IS WITHOUT

POO.....SETTING ''LIMITS'' KEEPS US ON SAME PAGE......THEN YOU WILL NOT SAY

''WHY DID HE DO THAT TO ME''...

YOU WERE NOT ''THE ONE''.....HE PROBABLY DID LOVE THINGS ABOUT YOU AND LOVES

OTHER THINGS ABOUT SOMEONE ELSE.....MEN DO NOT LOOK AT LOVE THE SAME WAYS WOMEN

DO....MEN DO NOT FEEL LOVED IN WAYS WOMEN DO......WE DO NOT TAKE IN INFO SAME

WAYS WOMEN DO AND WE DO NOT PROCESS THE INFO THE SAME WAYS.....A WOMAN WANTS TO

FEEL CHERISHED AND LOVED A MAN NEEDS TO FEEL NEEDED AND APPRECIATED....AS MEN WE

WOULD LIKE WOMEN TO WANT AND ENJOY SEX AS MUCH AS WE DO. BUT THE FACT IS FOR A

LOT OF WOMEN THE ONLY TIME THEY FEEL LIKE DOING IT IS WHEN THEY ARE DOING IT

AND A LOT NOT INTERESTED AT ALL,,I CAN UNDERSTAND A WOMENS LACK OF INTEREST

BECAUSE SO MANY MEN ARE

PLAYING SOLO.........