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Afraid of loving!
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Mon 11/14/16 09:34 AM
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How can you love when you've been hurt?is live even real or is it just an illusion? WHEN WE STAY STUCK AND NOT FULLY GRIEVE THE FEELINGS CAN BECOME FAVORITE FEELINGS......THE GRIEVING PROCESS IS WHEN YOUR GET IN TOUCH WITH HOW ANGRY YOU ARE AT YOURSELF AND THE PERSON..THEN THERE IS THE SADNESS FOR THE LOSS YOU NEED TO FEEL AND LET GO OF....THEN YOU WILL FIND SOME SCARE YOU HAVE DEAL WITH AND LET GO OF THE BELIEF THAT OTHER PERSON IS LIKE EVERYONE ELSE, THE TENDENCY TO BELIEVE OTHERS WILL DO SAME THING, AND YOU WOULD BE RIGHT EXCEPT FOR ONE THING ''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY WHAT WE WILL EXCEPT FROM THEM'' RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT ONE HANDED AND YOU NEED TO SEE YOUR PART SO YOU DO NOT REPEAT......BOTTOM LINE ITS OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS THAT IS RUNNING OUR LIVES......WHEN WE PUT THE RESPONSIBILITY FOR OUR LIVES ''OUT THERE'' DO YOU REALIZE HOW POWERLESS IT MAKES US!!!!!!!''VICTIM'' |
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what are your ideas ...
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its been a little cold here now ... and not sure how she would do with a inside bath ... + maybe I should ask the owner first... maybe the best thing to do ... shrugs ... and thanks ... i wash druppy first then i wash myself.....when i first washed him as a pup it was in the sink big mess so decided to wash us both at same time a lot less of a mess.... |
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Topic:
No Objectivity in Journalsim
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IF I WANTED NBC'S OPINION I WOULD AS FOR IT...!!!!!I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED NOT SOME STUPID BIOS OPINION....NBC, ''IF IT BLEEDS IT READS''....AND NOT A BUNCH OF MAG PIES SITTING AROUND SPEWING LIBERAL HATE PROPAGANDA ..... |
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what are your ideas ...
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DISH SOAP AND WATER.....WORKS FOR MINE...... |
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Topic:
No Objectivity in Journalsim
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''FOLLOW THE MONEY'' |
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Well, you say the electoral collage sucks, ok. You belive if you win the popular vote, that should be the true people's choice??? Ok, read'em and weep. The final tally votes are in! Trump wins the electoral collage, yes duffy, we know that... Trump wins the popular vote! Will the Cheating news network put this out??? Sure, in a couple of weeks, when their lies cause someones son or daughter to be killed.. CNN you are a disgrace to the remote idea of a free press. https://youtu.be/_lk8-M5XZR4 LIBERAL PRESS LOW LIFE......... |
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Topic:
The Main Change We Need
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ALL THIS IS PURE CRAP...... |
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Topic:
Love
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describe true love with just two key point? Pair bonding, responsible social commitment. NOW YOU ARE GETTING INTO A PERSON'S VALUE SYSTEM...,., |
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Topic:
Love
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which view point male or female.....big difference... |
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COLD DAY
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i am snug as a bug in a rug..... |
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GF
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how to get a girlfriend? [/quote you must first ''be a friend'' REALLY: THERE IS A LOT OF STUFF OUT THERE TO LEARN HOW....BOOKS,VIDEO'S, LIFE COACHES, OR JUST HANG WITH GUY'S WHO ARE GOOD WITH WOMEN....ALL IS BEST. FIRST YOU HAVE TO REALIZE ''ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE'' NOW GO AND FIND OUT WHY I SAID THAT.... |
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Not confident about myself
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I dont know i just lack of confidence about myself only when it comes to relationships.. THEN YOU NEED TO ''GET IN TOUCH WITH YOUR FEELINGS'' AND FIND OUT WHERE IT COMES FROM..!!!!...THIS IS VERY COMMON WITH LADIES,AND A LOT OF MEN THESE DAYS....THIS IS LEARNED AN CAN BE UNLEARNED....IT TAKES TIME LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF, YOUR UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS ABOUT YOURSELF AND OTHERS AND WE ALL HAVE FAVORITE FEELINGS...SO WE HAVE OR GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS TO VALIDATE THOSE BELIEFS AND RECYCLE THOSE FAVORITE FEELINGS....GOOD LUCK..... |
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TAKE I REAL SLOW...IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED ABOUT YOUR PART IN THE PAST RELATIONSHIP FOR YOUR OWN GOOD SLOW DOWN EVEN MORE.....ATTRACTION IS NOT A CONSCIOUS CHOICE ALL THOUGH WE WOULD LIKE TO THINK SO....BEHIND THE FAILED RELATIONSHIPS ARE BELIEFS LIKE ''NOT DESERVING LOVE'' ''PEOPLE I LOVE WILL LEAVE ME'' ETC..RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEVER ONE HANDED WE ALL PLAY A PART...YOU CAN NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF...LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN ABOUT YOURSELF LIKE,, WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE FEELINGS???...WHAT BELIEFS DO I HAVE THAT WILL SABOTAGE ME GETTING MY NEEDS MET ..????..GOOD LUCK,I HOPE YOU FIND THE LOVE YOU WANT.... |
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55-70 is dating fun?
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WHEN WE WERE YOUNG AND SO TRUSTING IT WAS MUCH EASIER TO GET CLOSE TO ANOTHER PERSON.....I HAVE FOUND FROM THE WOMEN I HAVE DATED THAT THEY HAVE BEEN WOUNDED SO MANY TIMES THAT THEY HAVE A WALL BUILT UP AROUND THEM......I REALLY LIKE TO HAVE A WOMAN TO SHARE MY LIFE WITH. SOMEONE LAUGH, HAVE FUN, AND SHARE MY FEELINGS WITH.....I GUESS I HAVE BEEN LUCKY I HAVE HAD TWO PEOPLE IN MY LIFE I COULD SHARE ANYTHING WITH AND KNOW THEY WOULD NEVER JUDGE ME....THEY WERE NOT MY MATE....''FRIENDS ONLY'' THATS HOW I LEARNED WHEN A WOMAN LISTENS SHE IS LOVING YOU.....I WILL ALWAYS LOVE THEM BOTH THEY HAVE A SPECIAL PLACE IN MY HEART.... |
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Topic:
Belive or not
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Thu 11/10/16 09:31 AM
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WHAT EVER YOU BELIEVE...WE ALL HAVE UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS.....MOST OFTEN THE FOCUS IS ON THE SURFACE NOISE AND NOT ON THE REAL ISSUE THAT KEEPS US FROM GETTING OUR NEEDS MET.....THE BEST WAY IS TO BE A GOOD FRIEND...... |
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Topic:
Lost all hope of love
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I'm at a spot where I cant a gf cause of my hobbies> i.e. I love tornadoes. what should I do. LIFE IS FULL OF CHOICES....OH BY THE WAY , SHE NEEDS TO BE NUMBER ONE IN YOUR LIFE JUST AS YOU NEED TO BE NUMBER ONE IN HER LIFE.....DO YOU WANT THE HOBBY OR BE HAPPY...?????????......ONE OF THE BIGGEST PROBLEMS IN RELATIONSHIPS TODAY IS PEOPLE BELIEVE YOU SHOULD NOT HAVE PROBLEMS IN A RELATIONSHIP...DA....THE RESULT IS THE RELATIONSHIP NEVER GETS TO POINT WHERE IT KNOWS IT WILL WITHSTAND DIFFERENCES AND MISUNDERSTANDINGS ....... |
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Topic:
kids in profiles
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lady's I totally understand that you love your little ones. mad props for that. but let's get real for a moment. there too many bad people in the world. people who live kids.....so to protect the little ones, the lil ones should not be on pics in daring sites anywhere. hate me for being honest and right. but this is the reality of our day and age. LIKE YOU SAID PROTECT THEM, SHOULD THE KIDS WEAR MASKS IN PUBLIC...??????????? |
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Americans have difficulty in accepting negative emotions and often act out like adolescents when faced with contrary input. Both parties have many who behave similarly as immaturity is rampant in society and people do not know how to deal with their emotions and politicians use this ignorance to advance their own agendas.... OBAMA WAS AN EXPERT.......... |
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THATS ABOUT RIGHT FOR LIBERALS.....NARCISSISTIC ANIMALS.........BURN AND DESTROY THE WOLD AROUND THEM......... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Wed 11/09/16 04:32 AM
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I didn't vote for Trump. I hate him. THE CLINTON'S HAVE DONE A LOT OF HARM TO THIS COUNTRY AND ITS PEOPLE, IT WAS TIME FOR THEM TO GO.... |
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