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Sun 08/07/16 09:39 AM

hypothetically,in this very moment you will meet your lifelong partner.

do you have any specific expectation in mind from that person?


WE ALL HAVE UNCONSCIOUS EXPECTATIONS.....THEY NEED TO FIT OUR FAMILY TRIANGLE...

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Sun 08/07/16 09:26 AM

Some won't respond to profiles without pics. Add a profile pic and see if that helps.



GOOD ADVICE...

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Sun 08/07/16 08:56 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 08/07/16 09:25 AM

Has been single for too long and forgot how to woo a girl


BE YOURSELF, WHAT EVER YOU ARE. ITS IMPORTANT TO BE CONGRUENT WITH WHO YOU

ARE....WITH TIME YOU WILL FIGURE IT OUT.....WOMEN UNCONSCIOUSLY TEST US

ANYWAY....GOOD LUCK...DO NOT WORRY ABOUT NOT BEING RICH OR EVEN GOOD LOOKING

(WHATEVER THAT IS ) there are enough women out there that are looking for

relationships based on other values...

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Sun 08/07/16 08:47 AM

...coz it hard to wait for someone that will never be yours...:cry:


EVERYTHING IS ABOUT BELIEFS...NEVER FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DON'T WANT BECAUSE YOU

WILL GET MORE OF THE SAME...FOCUS ON WHAT YOU DO WANT.!!!! VISUALIZE IN YOUR

MINDS EYE GETTING WHAT YOU WANT AND HOW YOU FEEL GETTING IT....STAY FOCUSED ON

IT....DO NOT LOSE SIGHT OF YOUR GOAL AND YOU WILL REACH IT.....:heart:

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Sat 08/06/16 10:52 AM

Would you be willing to put distance aside and get to know the person and if all goes well travel to see them in the future or would you rather date someone closer?


THE ONLY WAY TO TRUELY GET TO KNOW SOMEONE IS UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL. SO YOU CAN

REALLY HEAR WHATS SAID AND HEAR THE UNSPOKEN WORDS. SO ALL YOUR SENSES ARE

ENVOLVED...IF YOU CAN'T SEE,HEAR,SMELL,TASTE,AND FEEL YOUR NOT CLOSE ENOUGH.

WORDS ARE ONLY 7% OF CONVERSATION...

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Sat 08/06/16 10:35 AM

how you have made through after a painful goodbye?


YES, SEVERAL TIMES....GETTING OVER IT IS LIKE PEELING AN ONION, ONE LAYER AT A

TIME..AND HOPEFULLY SEEING MY PART...LOGICAL IS EASY ITS THE EMOTIONAL PART THAT

CAN BE SO DIFFICULT. NO LOGIC TO FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS WHEN THEY ARE

HAPPENING.frustrated

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Sat 08/06/16 10:08 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 08/06/16 10:09 AM

September 17, 1972?


correct,last episode feb 28 1983 tears

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Fri 08/05/16 12:39 PM

WHATS REALLY GOING ON IS EMOTIONAL NOT LOGICAL. STAYING FOCUSED ON THE SURFACE

NOISE WILL KEEP A PERSON STUCK ON AN ENDLESS LOOP OF FAVORITE FEELINGS AND KEEP

THE PERSON REINFORCING LIMITING BELIEFS....IT TAKES WORK, TO DISCOVER THE

UNCONCIOUS BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS. AND GET AWAY FROM

WHO DID WHAT TO WHOM. WNEN WE ARE HAVING SERIUS PROBLEMS WITH PEOPLE IN OUR LIFE

ITS BECAUSE THE BEAUTIFUL LITTLE CHILD INSIDE US THAT WE WERE BORN WITH IS

WOUNDED...THE CHILD IN US NEEDS TO HEAL FOR THE PERSON TO HEAL.smile2

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Fri 08/05/16 11:33 AM

HAS ANYONE READ THE BOOK''LOVE'' BY LEO BUSCAGLIA ...ITS A FOR REAL EYE

OPENER...HE HAD A CLASS AT USC ''LOVE 101'' U-TUBE HAS HIS VIDEOS YOU MIGHT

ENJOY.....

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Fri 08/05/16 11:04 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/05/16 11:21 AM
WE ALL HAVE ''STIMULUS HUNGER'' AND ''INCIDENT HUNGER'' .THIS IS THE SIMPLE

TRUTH WHY PEOPLE ARE ''ENGULFED IN FINDING LOVE'' AS YOU CALLED IT....WE ALL

HAVE STARTING GATE POSITIONS ON THE DRAMA TRIANGLE THAT NEEDS REINFORCING, AS

WELL AS RECYCLING FAVORITE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS.....THAT SOUNDED OMINOUS AND

OVER THE TOP TO SOME...HOWEVER ITS REAL THOUGH...IN OTHER WORDS WE GET REWARDED

FOR OUR BEHAVIOR IN WAYS WE ARE UNCONIOUSLY LOOKING FOR....TAKE AWAY THE REWARD

AND THE BEHAVIOR STOPS AND THEN LOOKS FOR ANOTHER SOURCE...KIND LIKE WHEN MY

PUPPY CHASES ITS TAIL....

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Fri 08/05/16 10:55 AM

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THANKS.

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Fri 08/05/16 10:41 AM

Hi Everyone. Can someone please explain to me the purpose the Friends? Clearly I'm new here or I would know the answer to this. Why am I receiving Friend Requests when there's been no contact with someone? I can understand this after you've been communicating with an individual but as a first form of contact? Thanks in advance!


RELAX, ENJOY THE SHOW.flowerforyou

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Fri 08/05/16 07:57 AM

what have you missed being in a romantic relationship?


a deep emotional connection.smile2

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Wed 08/03/16 05:44 PM
they are liberals what did you expect?????

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Wed 08/03/16 02:01 PM

lifes are full of up and down but all we need to do is to move on and believe in our emotion


its our emotions that are driving us.that's why we have the ups and downs, its

what emotion is driving at the time that's important. is it correct for the

moment? SO MUCH FOR LOGICAL THINKING....

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Wed 08/03/16 01:13 PM
i new it was another fake democrat bs

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Wed 08/03/16 12:43 PM



Is it bad that I don't like guys my age? I'm 18 and guys my age are to into themselves. They try to act cool and like somebody they aren't. I feel like I want a man who knows who he is and is financially stable. Am I wrong for thinking this way?


GIVE YOURSELF TIME... DO NOT RUSH THINGS THEY NEED TIME TO GROW UP AND SO DO

YOU. ITS OK TO LOOK AND STUDY THEM FOR WHEN YOUR BOTH ARE READY.....GOOD LUCK.

STD'S ARE FOR REAL,HAVEING CHILD YOU CAN NOT TAKE CARE OF IS NO FUN EITHER.

That's why u get birth control lol


a lot of mothers out there will tell you they had a child while on birth

control..and nothing but nothing is 100% pretection from std's.between the

ages of 14 and 49 1 in 6 have genital herpes for life....good luck....pain is

sometimes required to wake up some....lol

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Wed 08/03/16 12:24 PM

Is it bad that I don't like guys my age? I'm 18 and guys my age are to into themselves. They try to act cool and like somebody they aren't. I feel like I want a man who knows who he is and is financially stable. Am I wrong for thinking this way?


GIVE YOURSELF TIME... DO NOT RUSH THINGS THEY NEED TIME TO GROW UP AND SO DO

YOU. ITS OK TO LOOK AND STUDY THEM FOR WHEN YOUR BOTH ARE READY.....GOOD LUCK.

STD'S ARE FOR REAL,HAVEING CHILD YOU CAN NOT TAKE CARE OF IS NO FUN EITHER.

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Wed 08/03/16 12:03 PM

its hurt so bad, when you being hurt by whom you love and hope for



THE PAIN AND HURT GO'S AWAY REAL FAST AFTER YOU REALIZE THE PART YOU

PLAYED.....LOVE IS NEVER ONE HANDED...

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Wed 08/03/16 11:59 AM

Seems to me you ( the women who post here ) keep making the same mistakes over and over again without realizing it, getting romantically involved with 'bad' men then having to live with the pain and trauma.
What happened to your "red flags"?
What happened to your "woman intuition"?

There is another instance where someone keeps doing the same thing over and over again expecting different results, it's called insanity.



ITS ALL THEY HAVE. ITS THERE AWARENESS AT THE TIME. ITS NOT LIKE YOU TAKE A

ASPIRIN.

IT TOOK TIME TO DEVELOPE LIMITING BELIEFS AND TAKES TIME TO WORK THROUGH THEM.