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Sun 09/11/16 12:18 PM


I LOVE TO READ THIS STUFF BECAUSE I KNOW ITS THE UNCONSCIOUS EMOTIONAL PART OF

US THAT'S REALLY CONTROLLING OUR CHOICES...smile2

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Sun 09/11/16 12:13 PM

Any Girl want me.... For date.



YA MIGHT WANT TO SHOW YOURSELF...

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Sun 09/11/16 08:46 AM


I LIKE WHAT LEO BUSCAGLIA HAD TO SAY ABOUT LOVE....

LOVE...ISBN; 13 978-1-55642-942-2

EVERYONE HAS FILTERS BASED ON THERE LIFE EXPERIENCES THAT FORMS THERE OPINION,

THE TRUTH IS ,,,WE CAN NOT BE FULLY HUMAN WITHOUT HAVING AND GIVING IT TO

OTHERS.....


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Sat 09/10/16 05:29 PM

Are you a full time single parent? With my current situation I find it hard to juggle dating and being a mom. I work full time from my home taking care of my disabled dad, and I'm a Single parent (her dad moved to Ohio) I barely find time to get out, EVER and I don't trust anyone to watch my kiddo. How do YOU find time to meet people from apps like this?


WE ALL HAVE CLOSE FRIENDS OR FAMILY WHO CAN INTRODUCE YOU TO OTHERS...ITS CALLED

NETWORKING....AND WITH KIDS ITS REALLY IMPORTANT YOU DO NOT RUSH YOURSELF INTO

ANYTHING, ENJOY YOUR KIDS THEY WILL BE GROWN AND GONE BEFORE YOU REALIZE

IT....THERE'S ANOTHER CHILD YOU ALSO NEED TAKE GOOD CARE OF,IT'S THE BEAUTIFUL

LITTLE GIRL INSIDE YOU THAT YOU WHERE BORN WITH...GOOD LUCK....

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Sat 09/10/16 05:12 PM


HANG IN THERE, RELAX AND BE YOURSELF.....GOOD LUCK....

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Sat 09/10/16 12:40 PM

I find it really hard to understand why you guys look so serious always....my gf always tells me to be serious but then starts laughinglaugh laugh laugh ....so I ask why so serious??? :wink: :smile: rofl rofl


FOR MALES ITS ALL ABOUT IMAGE......THE SAME REASON GUYS NOW ARE GROWING

BEARDS...ANYTHING THEY THINK IS ALPHA AT THE TIME.....IT IS FUNNY WHAT PEOPLE

WILL DO TO BECOME ATTRACTIVE.....laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 09/09/16 02:52 PM

I MET SOMEONE REALLY SPECIAL HERE...AND FOR FREE....smile2

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Fri 09/09/16 02:23 PM
laugh laugh laugh

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Fri 09/09/16 02:13 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 09/09/16 02:18 PM

How do you handle a partner who blows up at the slightest provocation? I've decided to give myself some space so as to save my life. ..whatdoyouthink


THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT OTHERS......SOUNDS LIKE SOMEONE WITH A SLUSH

FUND OF ANGER....IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU...THE PERSON IS STUCK IN THE

PAST.....NOTHING ANY ONE SAID OR DID TO YOU WAS ABOUT YOU... ITS ALL ABOUT

THEM....ABRAHAM MASLOW TALKED ABOUT SELF-ACTUALIZATION WHAT HE TRYING SAY WAS

TO BE FREE FROM THE GOOD OPINION OF OTHERS, I BELIEVE WE MUST ALSO BE FREE OF

THE BAD OPINION OF OTHERS ALSO....FOR ALMOST ALL OF US AUTONOMY IS A

ILLUSION.......EVERY ONE IS IN A PROCESS OF EVOLUTION. SOME STAY STUCK AND A

FEW BREAK LOSE OF THE PAST AND ARE ABLE TO GROW AND FIND HAPPINESS....WHAT

KEEPS PEOPLE STUCK ARE THERE LIMITING BELIEFS AND FAVORITE FEELINGS THAT THEY

KEEP RECYCLING......... P.S. AS YOU GROW YOU WILL BE ATTRACTED TO A HEALTHIER

PERSON AND HEALTHIER PEOPLE WILL BE ATTRACTED TO YOU.....GOOD LUCK....

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Fri 09/09/16 01:13 PM

I stated this in another thread:

"Sexual preferences will never and should never define any soul.

It might add more life or possibilities to a personality, but it can't define that either, unless one lets it."


The thing is, when it comes to the personal preferences of others, this very well may go out the window in the grand scheme of things for many reasons, as you already know, and a few you might yet learn.



ALL BEHAVIOR DEFINES WHO WE ARE.!!!!!!! WE ALL WOULD LIKE TO ALWAYS PUT THE

BLAME FOR OUR LIVES ''OUT THERE''. OUR CHOICES DO DEFINE WHO WE ARE,

....SOME OF US USE ALL KINDS OF EXCUSES TO AVOID RESPONSIBILITY FOR THERE

ACTIONS....ITS NOT FARE TO THE WOMAN WITH ADDED RISKS OF STD'S AND OTHER

ISSUES...

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Fri 09/09/16 12:58 PM



i noticed that old men between 40 -49 are hiding, so where they are?


If you think that is old, I must be past death in your book


amen..!!!!!!!!!!!....THEY ARE HIDING BECAUSE THEY DO NOT WANT TO BE A PARENT TO

A 26 YEAR OLD YOUNGSTER OR GOLD DIGGER......

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Fri 09/09/16 12:53 PM


i noticed that old men between 40 -49 are hiding, so where they are?


If you think that is old, I must be past death in your book


amen..!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Wed 09/07/16 02:34 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 09/07/16 02:35 PM


WHAT THE COMPANIES ARE NOT SEEING IS , MOST THE TIME EMPLOYEES ALSO ARE THE

THE PEOPLE WHO PURCHASE YOUR PRODUCT....HENRY FORD NEW THAT, IT REALLY HELPED

HIM BECOME WEALTHY....THERE WILL BE AT SOME POINT THE GREEDY WILL PAY...

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Wed 09/07/16 02:20 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 09/07/16 02:26 PM

I Think There are bad experiences inside each women make her hesitate involve into new relation whatever sort, and sometimes they are right, not all one are honest or suitable ...

I think women need more guarantee, feel in safe and find the lost love or loyalty with men.

agree?


lets see, there are four life positions, three of them are unhealthy 95% plus

minus. the fourth position is five per-cent of the population plus minus then

that leaves a lot of wounded people.....

the positions are:

I'M O.K.- YOUR NOT O.K.


I'M NOT O.K.- YOUR O.K


I'M NOT O.K. - YOUR NOT O.K.


I'M O.K. - YOUR O.K.



THATS BOTH SEX'S


AND THIS IS NOT ROCKET SCIENCE

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Wed 09/07/16 09:45 AM

falling for the right person at the wrong time can really break smbodies heart brokenheart


EVERYTHING A PERSON HAS SAID TO YOU IS ABOUT THERE EVOLUTION AND HOW YOU TAKE IN

AND PROCESS IT IS PART OF YOUR EVOLUTION....THE GOAL IS TO BE ''FREE OF THE GOOD

OPINION OF OTHERS''...

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Wed 09/07/16 09:24 AM

Someone told me that "indifference"is the opposite of love but that doesn't make sense to me.. To me the clear cut opposite of love is hate..


THEY ARE BOTH EMOTIONAL CONNECTIONS TO PEOPLE.....WITH INDIFFERENCE THERE IS NO

CONNECTION....ANOTHER WAY: LOVE IS FEELINGS FOR SOMEONE, HATE IS FEELINGS FOR

SOMEONE..... INDIFFERENCE IS LACK OF FEELINGS....DOES THAT

HELP....

ABOUT SELFISHNESS,,, WE ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS AT LEAST IN THE BEGINNING TO GET

WHAT WE WANT, AND SOME WHO DO NOT GET IT LEAVE THE RELATION...EVERYTHING STARTS

WITH US AND ENDS WITH US....

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Wed 09/07/16 08:19 AM

WHAT IS THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE :heart: ?? IF WE DO NOT KNOW WHAT IT IS MAYBE WE

CAN FIND THE ANSWER IF WE KNOW WHAT IT IS NOT :cry: ?.....

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Wed 09/07/16 08:11 AM

Who would you want to "nipple twist" on here?.. ( o )( o ):ok_hand_tone2:


asleep

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Wed 09/07/16 08:06 AM



yes, even face to face...every has a persona, its like a invisible

wall....because we want to appear in better shape emotionally than we are...some

wonder if you would really like the real me? and so it goes on and on for

reasons to have a persona.....everyone has hidden agendas till the right buttons

are push...how ever body language sometimes is the give away....you can not

learn much with just words without comparing there body language clusters with

what is said....

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Tue 09/06/16 06:16 PM

I want to commend Mr. Castelluci and the good people of Owego for refusing to bow at the altar of political correctness.

BECAUSE POLITICAL CORRECTNESS IS INCORRECT



I want to start a movement...

#WesternWhiteWomenAreOffended.
And we walk around chanting, " Shut the hell up" & " We don't give a rats a*s! " :angry:





AMEN....AS LONG A THE LIBERALS ARE IN CONTROL THERE WILL BE BE NO PIECE, THERE

ARE ONLY SO MANY TIMES WE CAN TURN A CHEEK....THE ONLY WAY TO BEAT THE EVIL

DOER' S IS BY BEING OFFENSIVE AND NOT DEFENSIVE....THEY HAVE TO LOSE MORE THAN

THEY GAIN EACH TIME...THEY ARE USING OUR SYSTEM AGAINST US.....