WHEN THERE IS A PROBLEM WITH A PUPPY, TO SOLVE IT THE OWNER NEEDS TO BE TRAINED

ON HOW TO GET ALONG WITH PUPPY......ITS PRETTY MUCH THE SAME WITH KIDS, I DID

NOT GET A SET OF DIRECTIONS WITH MY KIDS. SO I HAD ONLY TWO CHOICES ON HOW TO

PARENT 1- PARENT LIKE I WAS PARENTED,,2- PARENT THE OPPOSITE OF HOW I WAS

PARENTED.....IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH CREATING A HEALTHY AND HAPPY ADULT....I

BELIEVE THEY NEED TO BE HELD, HUGGED, AND REALLY LISTENED TO AND THERE FEELINGS

VALIDATED AND NOT FEELING JUDGED ABOUT THERE SELF WORTH....

P.S. ''LOVE SOMETIMES IS HARD FOR A CHILD TO REALLY GRASP''ON SO WHAT I

DO IS TELL THEM ALSO HOW MUCH I ''LIKE'' THEM...CHILDREN CAN GET A HANDLE ON ''I

REALLY LIKE YOU'' IS MUCH EASIER FOR MOST TO UNDERSTAND.....

MY GRAND PARENTS DID NOT HAVE MANY ''THINGS''. WHAT THEY HAD WAS PRICELESS, THE

TRUE MEANING OF LOVE AND COMMITMENT TO EACH OTHER AND THE PEOPLE AROUND

THEM......I LOVED YOUR STORY.....

ANY WOMAN AROUND MY AGE IN PEARLAND TX FOR DATING..

AMEN TO THAT....THE DAMAGE SHE IS DOING TO THE YOUNG MINDS OF THOSE KIDS IS

UNFORGIVABLE ..........

another crazy.......

i read a interesting book about 40 years ago called ''GAMES PEOPLE PLAY'' by

ERIC BERNE, it was a real eye opener for me...he was the father of TA THERAPY.

he described the parts of ourselves that we show the world....some call the

parts of us we present to world as our PERSONA......HERE IS THE SCARY PART, ALL

OF US HAVE ''DISOWNED PARTS OF OURSELVES''....REALITY IS WHAT WE MAKE IN OUR OWN

LITTLE HEADS...

i hope there is a consequence for that guy....way to many crazy people out there

getting away with this stuff.....

CHEMISTRY IS NOTHING MORE THAN EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION.....LOT OF DREAMERS OUT

THERE...

WHY ARE SO MANY COMMERCIAL ADDS ALLOWED......

ITS WHAT YOU HAD TO DO AT THE TIME.....AND BY THE WAY IT CAN HAPPEN TO GUY

ALSO....SOMETIMES I AM NOT IN THE PLACE TO HEAR WHAT A LADY HAS TO SAY TO ME,

AND OF COURSE THATS TYPICAL OF US GUYS....THE NUMBER ONE COMPLAINT '' HE DOES

NOT LISTEN TO ME'' AND SO TRUE......WE REALLY NEED TO MAKE MORE OF AN EFFORT TO

LISTEN TO WHAT THE LADIES HAVE TO SAY....

UNFULFILLED FANTASY, I WOULD LEAVE IT ALONE......THAT WAS THEN, THIS NOW....

VERY TRUE.....EVERYONE HAS HIDDEN AGENDAS.....

this what happens when the crazy liberals are in charge...i had government job

and happened to us when the young liberals took over common sense went out the

window. we learned to let them suffer the consequences of there actions while

protecting ourselves from being scapegoated.....rule one never help

''stupid is stupid does''........

IT HAS TO DO WITH HORMONAL LEVELS THIS IS WELL KNOWN AND NOT NEW....JUST THE

STUDY WAS NEW.....WE ALSO TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY THEN WE PROCESS IT

DIFFERENTLY....MEN ARE LEFT BRAIN DOMINANT WHILE WOMEN ARE RIGHT BRAIN

DOMINANT. ABOUT 80 PER-SENT OF THE TIME ......THEN YOU ADD A BRAIN WASHING

PROCESS CALLED ENCULTURATION THAT WE ALL GO THROUGH AS WE GROW UP....THE LEFT

SIDE OF THE BRAIN IS THE LOGICAL SIDE WHILE THE RIGHT SIDE DEALS WITH

EMOTIONS....MEN ARE TAUGHT TO NOT TO BE EMOTIONAL......THE ONE FEELING WOMEN

ARE TAUGHT NOT TO FEEL IS ANGER....NO WONDER ITS HARD TO GET ON THE SAME

PAGE........THE ANSWER IS TO ''FIND OUT WHY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU KNOW, ONE ISSUE

AT A TIME''.... THE ANSWER TO OUR PROBLEMS IS NEVER

'' OUT THERE''...I SAY THIS BECAUSE I SEE SO MANY PUTTING THE BLAME ON EVERY

ONE ELSE AND NOT SEE THERE PART IN THERE RELATIONSHIPS.......

in went in turned around went right back out............proves my point there is

no logic to attraction....its emotional.....there is a reward we are looking for

in our behavior, gee i wonder what it could be.?.....

JUST SAYING THE WORDS IS NO GOOD.....THE OTHER PERSON HAS TO KNOW YOU REALLY

MEAN IT.......SO DO NOT EXPECT INSTANT FORGIVENESS .........

WOMEN ARE BORN WITH THE NEED TO BE PROTECTED, PROVIDED FOR, AND BE REASSURED

...IF YOUR POOR THAT LEAVES OUT YOU BEING A ALPHA MALE....IN THERE HEART OF

HEARTS THATS WHAT HAS BUILT IN FOR SURVIVAL OF OUR SPECIES HOWEVER SOME TIMES

THE ENVIRONMENT MAY CHANGE THOSE INSTINCTS.....IN ONE WORD MOST PREFER A

''LEADER'' NOT A FOLLOWER.....YOUR A WOUNDED MAN ....RIGHT IN THE FOOT...

BECAUSE THEY CAN..........

that is so true, there is only one copy of each one of us,each of us is special

and that includes yourself....

women do test men to see if they are who they present themselves to be...i have

been tested many times..they do it on a unconscious level....and its because

they have to do it....there is so much going going on underneath the social

level that if you step out and just observe its amazing what people are really

doing to themselves and others..and with time they need more ''bang for the

buck'' get the same emotional high...in other words the games become

harder....a waste of body, mind, and spirit... p.s. people are not cars!!