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Thu 08/25/16 03:29 AM


sick of these regular and boring day


Make something.. anything.
Be creative


with no strings, go out and do something nice for someone........

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Wed 08/24/16 05:50 PM

being there for her is priceless.....and far more valuable in every way...

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Wed 08/24/16 05:39 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 08/24/16 05:43 PM

It has more to do with our unconscious beliefs about ourselves and others...not

all the surface noise created by our persona's, that is where most are stuck.



It is so important that each person feels good about themselves when they are in

the company of there other....its really hard for most to realize that we are

separate people with our own wants needs. you have to give your mate what they

need so you can get what you need.....when it come to males and females they

both take in info differently and then process it differently....that's why most

women are starved for there mate to ''just listen to them''....empathy between

two people forms a strong bond....smile2 bottom line the first person we

need to introduce ourselves to is ourselves....most people do not realize that

they have favorite feelings and emotions. or that they have a starting gate

position in the drama triangle....thats my two cents....

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Tue 08/23/16 06:12 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 08/23/16 06:14 PM

I have had this happen in the past but I handled it differently. I confronted him (boyfriend not husband) with my suspicions and when he said he wasn't cheating, I knew him well enough to know he was lying and I told him that and he confessed that he had cheated on me with my best friend. I gave both of them their walking papers and have never spoken to either one since.



ITS SEEMS A PERSONS VALUE SYSTEM IS ONE OF THE MOST OVER LOOKED TRAITS....OF

COURSE ''ATTRACTION IS NOT A CHOICE'' (NOT A CONSCIOUS CHOICE)..EMOTIONS ALWAYS

WIN OUT WHEN IT COMES TO ATTRACTION....ITS OUR ''IMAGO MATCH''WE THIRST FOR....

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Tue 08/23/16 06:04 PM

Love and sex are both are equal when a girl love her boyfriend she can do anything same boy can love his girlfriend he is can do any one equal death i think love dating are equal say yes or no friends


OK ....MEN TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY THEN WOMEN AND ALSO PROCESS THAT INFO

DIFFERENTLY...THEY DEAL WITH THERE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS DIFFERENTLY..EXCEPT FOR

ANGER BOTH ARE REQUIRED TO STUFF A LOT OF ANGER IN THAT WAY THEY COULD BE SAID

TO BE SIMILAR ......WE WILL NEVER BE THE SAME...AND SHOULD NOT BE EXPECTED TO

BE....SO MUCH FOR EQUAL.....

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Tue 08/23/16 05:51 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 08/23/16 05:52 PM

amazed at the amount of interest from younger men in older woman. Blows my mind why.? opinions???


i am only interested in my age..BUT I CAN UNDERSTAND WHY YOUNG GUYS ARE

ATTRACTED TO MATURE WOMEN....THE YOUNG ONES LOOK GOOD BUT THEY LACK LIFE

EXPERIENCE FOR MOST PART LIKE THE YOUNG GUYS DO....

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Tue 08/23/16 05:43 PM

commitment to a mate is good thing....you can not win with only one foot in the

game..a mate needs to know they can win with you......today a lot of

relationships never get to the point of mature love when the relationship

knows it can withstand rough times...hence a lot of wounded and disillusioned .

and a lot are not willing to give there mate what they need so they can get what

they need...being all in is part of the process to get ''real love''.

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Tue 08/23/16 05:27 PM

aaaaa


fonz ??????

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Mon 08/22/16 04:52 PM

Been burned so many times but for some reason I still have hope


REALLY,,, TAKE A LOOK AT THE COMMON DENOMINATOR ...WHEN YOU DO THE THE SAME

THING OVER AND OVER AND EXPECTING A DIFFERENT OUTCOME ITS TIME TO FIND OUT

SOMETHING ABOUT WHAT IS CAUSING YOU TO KEEP REPEATING THE BEHAVIOR ...WE CAN NOT

DO ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE BUT OURSELVES...''CHANGE A BELIEF, CHANGE A

OUTCOME''...STUDY SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS FOR A WHILE IS ONE OPTION...GOOD

LUCK...

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Sun 08/21/16 07:45 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 08/21/16 07:49 PM


ITS NOT SO MUCH THE IGNORANCE OF LOVE IT'S THE IGNORANCE OF OUR AND WANTS AND

NEEDS AND OUR MATES WANTS AND NEEDS, BOTH EMOTIONAL OR PHYSICAL...MEN AND WOMEN

TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY AND PROCESS IT DIFFERENTLY.....BOTTOM LINE ITS SELF

AWARENESS IS THE FIRST STEP.....ITS REALLY HARD TO UNDERSTAND OTHERS WHEN WE DO

NOT KNOW OURSELVES....

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Sun 08/21/16 04:06 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 08/21/16 04:08 PM

whoever tell me...?


ITS EXACTLY WHAT YOU BELIEVE IT IS NO MORE.....HOW WERE TREATED BY THE ONE'S WHO

WERE SUPPOSED TO LOVE YOU GROWING UP AS A CHILD...CHECK OUT THE BOOKS AND

VIDEO'S OF LEO BUSCAGLIA YOU SHOULD FIND THE ANSWER. DO A SEARCH ON INTERNET YOU

WILL FIND LOTS OF INFO ON HIM....THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE TO HAVE A EPIPHANY IN

YOUR SEARCH....GOOD LUCK....

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Fri 08/12/16 10:41 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/12/16 10:45 AM
AND THE DEMS ARE COMMUNIST PARTY USA BUNK BUDDIES...''OF THE NEW WORLD ORDER

TAKE OVER''

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Fri 08/12/16 10:38 AM


NOW A DAYS INTROSPECTION IS THE KEY.....




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Fri 08/12/16 10:29 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/12/16 10:32 AM

DOG WORKS FOR OBAMA....HE APPOINTED THE HEAD DICK AND DEMOCRATES AFFIRMED

HIM.....ITS A STACKED DECK OF #@$%&*ERDS. TOP LEVELS OF GOV SHOULD NOT BE

APPOINTED IT LEADS TO CORRUPTION EVERY TIME ANY GOV......

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Fri 08/12/16 10:16 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/12/16 10:23 AM

lol thanks for the advice will write a new post then


men like to feel they can win with a woman...i know because i are one.. i know

how hard it is to stuff your feelings... women for the most part are not allowed

to express anger, there are ways to to get feelings across to others without

others feeling like a victim...

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Fri 08/12/16 09:45 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/12/16 09:48 AM

I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures. I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask?




thats it be suppository that will bring them around...'' when you focus on what

you DO NOT want you will only get more of the same, focus only on what you DO

WANT''..smile2 P.S. ON THE OTHER HAND PAIN SOME TIMES CAN BE A GOOD TEACHER....

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Tue 08/09/16 12:12 PM

What is it with guys who like buying stuff for girls?
As in "spoiling" when they're just starting to date.
It's weird how generous they try to be.
Are they trying to buy me?
Is it a sexual thing?
(Because I've known guys who get off on being forced to buy things for women.)
It baffles me.
Isn't dating about things you can't buy in life?
Mayhaps I should clue them in.


REALLY WANT THE TRUTH READ ''MEN ARE FROM MARS ,WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS

BY JOHN GRAY...OR ''THINK LIKE A MAN ACT LIKE A WOMAN BY STEVE

HARVEY'' ....OR SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS....

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Tue 08/09/16 10:43 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 08/09/16 10:48 AM

It is wonderful when the person you love, loves you back for all your quirks and imperfections. And yes, I would also call that unconditional love. And I think it is something we all wish for. happy


FEW A WILLING TO DO WHAT IT TAKES TO GET IT..LETS FACE IT PEOPLE GET

INTO RELATIONSHIPS TO GET WHAT THEY NEED AT FIRST....TAKES COMMITMENT

OVER TIME.....EVERYONE NOW A DAYS HAVE ONE FOOT IN ONE FOOT OUT WITH

THERE EYES ON THE EXIT...BECAUSE WE DO NOT HAVE A NEED TO WORK ON THE

RELATIONSHIPS LIKE MY GRAND PARENTS HAD TO WHILE LIVING MILES FROM

THERE NEAREST NEIGHBOR....smile2 THERE IS A LOT TO BE SAID ABOUT

PEOPLE WORKING TOGETHER FOR A COMMON CAUSE THAT BENEFITS BOTH....

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Tue 08/09/16 10:00 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 08/09/16 10:02 AM

A while ago, my taskbar has malfunctioned lol. The "start" button in the bottom left corner doesn't work, as to bring up the programs, go to documents, my computer, ect. The volume control doesn't work properly, like if I click on it, the little bar to adjust doesn't come up. I have to right click it and tell it to open volume manager... any suggestions on the fix? I've tried using reg cleaners, general cleaners, virus scan and so on. Out of ideas lol


did you make a system restore repair cd or stick and save image of

your hdd to a usb hdd drive.??? if not you did not good luck. next

time do it..


or try restore in control panel....frustrated frustrated frustrated

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Sun 08/07/16 10:13 AM

I wonder were my Love is gone


you still have it. its inside your heart anytime you need it....smile2