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Thu 09/15/16 05:51 AM


who has the best booty on mingle? send your pics and get your rating. lots of competition on here. good luck girls :stuck_out_tongue:


So the gals are just going to snap a pic of their A** and post it?.. that's what you think will happen?


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Wed 09/14/16 03:15 PM


WHEN ALL THE BUSINESSES GET RID OF EMPLOYEES THERE WILL NO LONGER BE ANYONE

WORKING TO BUY THERE GOODS AND SERVICES........EVERY CHAIN STORE IN AMERICA

WANTS SELF CHECK OUT........''ITS AMERICAN GREED''....

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Wed 09/14/16 03:04 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Wed 09/14/16 04:00 PM


THE COOKIE AND WATER MELON ...pitchfork :angel:

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Wed 09/14/16 06:17 AM

ENJOYED YOUR STORY...drinker smile2

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Tue 09/13/16 06:15 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 09/13/16 06:20 PM

You try them on for a while :-)


the right person is always there......i guess you have heard that ''we teach

people how to treat us'' its pretty much the the same thing with

attraction....the more we clean up our act the more we attract people who have

worked on getting there act together.....most people have limiting beliefs that

causes them there problems in relationships.....attraction is not a choice. it

not a conscious choice anyway because its an emotional choice......good

luck....smile2

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Tue 09/13/16 04:11 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 09/13/16 04:12 PM

True love is really had to find


its what you believe it is....everything in life is about our beliefs.......our

reality we make up in our own little heads.....those beliefs become self

fulfilling.....because our unconscious wants to validate them.....''change the

belief, change the outcome''...... the path to true love is commitment to

another over time......its learned and earned not just found.....

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Tue 09/13/16 07:59 AM


there value system will give the answer.....and or very strong parental

tapes.....

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Tue 09/13/16 07:56 AM


we all want to feel connectedsmile2 .....the truth is there is no way we can

not be connected......smile2 to emife500...you are already complete....if that

were the case you would loose yourself,happens a lot with women in

relationshipssad2 ....

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Tue 09/13/16 07:45 AM

I signed here today, and am kinda want to know if this site is actually met for those in this century. Just thinking out loud.


yep..smile2

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Mon 09/12/16 05:31 PM


yes i understand you. your very good at english. better than a lot of people who

where born here....you are taking a lot for granted about this guy....the

problem with young people is they lack life experience which is necessary for

wisdom....not spending time with him in person before committing your heart may

very well be a problematic .......everyone has hidden agendas...there is

nothing that can replace eyeball to eyeball and thats not perfect.....the

question i have is what is going on with you to put yourself in such a

frustrating situation??????????...... there is love:heart: all around you where

you live and you pick love just out of reach frustrated ,

why..???????????.good luck...

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Mon 09/12/16 02:18 PM



i read your profile....thats a lot of issues, what about a time when couples

went out together to enjoy themselves and get to know each while they were at

it....and besides thats a lot to put on someones plate all at once....i met

someone one time that had a issue with people lying to to them.there were liars

around every corner and under every rock...once the person found out that not

all people will lie to him all of a sudden all the liars were gone.....WE

ATTRACT WHAT WE BELIEVE....ALWAYS WISH FOR WHAT YOU ''DO WANT''..NOT WHAT YOU DO

NOT WANT....WHEN YOUR MIND IS FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU ''DO NOT'' WANT YOU JUST GET

MORE OF WHAT ''DO NOT'' WANT....ALL SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE KNOW THAT........

.......................:smile: :smile:


Let's just agree to disagree.


O.K. smile2

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Mon 09/12/16 02:14 PM

Not so sure. I worked for a company and travel was a big part of my job. While how love is expressed may be different in other cultures the "Feelings" seem to be the same.

This is very obvious when visiting shopping or open market places. Looking at a young couple stare into the others eye's in a park it's very easy to see how they feel. Whether in China, America, Europe or South America one can see the expression of love is very similar to ours. Some countries are more restrictive in physical contact, i.e. Arab cultures but one can still perceive their intentions.

It's difficult to hide when a couple is seriously in love. Sort of refreshing to see as well.


IF A 60 FT TREE HAD PARENTS AND BRAIN IT WOULD BE A 2 FT TREE......OUR EARLY

YEARS OF BRAIN WASHING IS SOME TIMES CALLED ENCULTURATION FOR GOOD

REASONS....smile2

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Mon 09/12/16 05:59 AM

OUR OPINION OF OURSELVES SELDOM MATCH'S WHAT OTHERS BELIEVE ABOUT US...THERE

BELIEF SYSTEM IS DIFFERENT....BEING FREE OF THE OPINION OF OTHERS IS PATH TO

SELF ACTUALIZATION AND ESCAPING THE ILLUSION OF AUTONOMY....smile2

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Mon 09/12/16 05:46 AM




:see_no_evil::see_no_evil::see_no_evil:


Most of the time... the min. sex or romance is part of the relationship or even mentioned or the notion entertained.... the friendship is over. (Because at least one of them will always want more).

Few friendships, actually become a couple.
(Now days anyway), & even fewer stay together.

If people can't figure out or have a real friendship, with respect & boundaries, how can they have a 'real life', 'couple relationship' ? noway




SO SAD, THE GOOD NEWS , THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO BECOME LIFE TIME FRIENDS AND

LOVERS.......


Absolutely, we both posted on this before.
It is just rare, now days. People don't want to invest in the time, that it takes, to build it. To be friends first.

But, if that it the case, I think those relationships last the longest.


2 out of the 4 life positions are ''not o.k.'' positions which are driven by

beliefs about themselves and others which causes self fulfilling prophecies

.AS AN ADULT WHEN WE LOOK AT ''WHY WE KNOW WHAT WE KNOW'' (AN EPIPHANY) THEN
WE CAN MOVE PAST BEING STUCK AND GROW..LOTS OF TIMES A PERSON DOES NOT SEE THERE OPTIONS TO MOVE PAST A ISSUE...ITS LIKE THERE ADULT EGO STATE IS POLLUTED BY THERE CHILD OR PARENT EGO STATES.....BOTTOM LINE ITS ABOUT OUR OWN BELIEFS THAT PREVENT OUR GROWTH NOT OTHERS....smile2

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Sun 09/11/16 07:36 PM


:see_no_evil::see_no_evil::see_no_evil:


Most of the time... the min. sex or romance is part of the relationship or even mentioned or the notion entertained.... the friendship is over. (Because at least one of them will always want more).

Few friendships, actually become a couple.
(Now days anyway), & even fewer stay together.

If people can't figure out or have a real friendship, with respect & boundaries, how can they have a 'real life', 'couple relationship' ? noway




SO SAD, THE GOOD NEWS , THERE ARE PEOPLE WHO BECOME LIFE TIME FRIENDS AND

LOVERS.......

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Sun 09/11/16 06:30 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 09/11/16 06:35 PM

i read your profile....thats a lot of issues, what about a time when couples

went out together to enjoy themselves and get to know each while they were at

it....and besides thats a lot to put on someones plate all at once....i met

someone one time that had a issue with people lying to to them.there were liars

around every corner and under every rock...once the person found out that not

all people will lie to him all of a sudden all the liars were gone.....WE

ATTRACT WHAT WE BELIEVE....ALWAYS WISH FOR WHAT YOU ''DO WANT''..NOT WHAT YOU DO

NOT WANT....WHEN YOUR MIND IS FOCUSED ON WHAT YOU ''DO NOT'' WANT YOU JUST GET

MORE OF WHAT ''DO NOT'' WANT....ALL SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE KNOW THAT........

.......................:smile: :smile:

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Sun 09/11/16 06:10 PM
scared scared scared

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Sun 09/11/16 05:23 PM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sun 09/11/16 05:25 PM

:see_no_evil::see_no_evil::see_no_evil:


i believe friends have ''matching illusions'' looks like a match see no, hear

no, and speak no.....

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Sun 09/11/16 05:21 PM


LYING TO ME.....I BELIEVE IN ORDER TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP THAT A COUPLE

MUST BE STRAIGHT WITH EACH OTHER.... AND BE WILLING TO WORK ON ISSUES AS THEY

COME UP....AS THEY WILL........ to klc...''account book'' some call it a ''love

bank''...

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Sun 09/11/16 05:09 PM


BAD IDEA IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED A LITTLE ABOUT YOURSELF AND WHY YOU WERE

ATTRACTED TO THE LAST ONEsad2 .......A RELATIONSHIP THAT WE DO NOT GROW

EMOTIONALLY I BELIEVE IS A WASTE OF TIME AND ENERGY.. smile2 P.S. LIKE WHAT

NEED WERE YOU TRYING TO SATISFY IN THE LAST RELATIONSHIP ?