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Tue 08/30/16 02:43 PM

You know I wish that if you deleted a member that member should be deleted for good not come back to have to delete again and again


AMEN....AT LEAST LIMIT TO THREE TIMES...

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Mon 08/29/16 09:48 AM

Rate me !!!


DEACTIVATED...?????????

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Mon 08/29/16 09:46 AM

Hey there
I'm from England but German origin joined here 3 days ago but still can't understand how to communicate with a nice lady .
Spontaneous and curious


NO PICTURE AND NO INFO WHAT DID YOU EXPECT.....

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Sun 08/28/16 04:49 PM

it's so hurt when we messed up a good relationships,then no way to be back



....we follow our beliefs its our

awareness....examples are; i do not deserve to be happy......people i love

will leave me..........just like ''attraction is not a choice'' (conscious

choice) so is our behavior.....by the time we reached adulthood our limiting

beliefs have been reinforced over and over. now we have favorite feelings tied

to those beliefs....it was part of you evolution. if you have learned your

part as part of your growth without blaming yourself or another then your

a winnersmile2 .....












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Sun 08/28/16 07:50 AM


At 22, how do you know it is creepy?



good point......

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Sun 08/28/16 07:48 AM

anyone want to talk i could really use it im not having a good day at all


well ! jump in and go for it.......

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Sat 08/27/16 04:00 AM

hi. i am a single mom in Toronto. not looking for someone to be a dad to my son but someone for me. why can't guys get that?


A WOMAN ''CAN NOT'' MAKE A MAN OUT OF A BOY !!!... IT TAKES MALE TO MENTOR

HIM...NOR CAN A MAN MAKE A WOMAN OUT OF A GIRL....

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Sat 08/27/16 03:40 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Sat 08/27/16 03:41 AM


ITS ALL ABOUT BELIEFS....THEY BECOME A SELF-FULFILLING A PROPHECY....''WHAT WE

SEE IN OUR MINDS EYE WE WILL HOLD IN OUR HANDS''....OUR LIVES ARE CONTROLLED BY

OUR UNCONSCIOUS BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND OTHERS. THATS OUR PART IN WHAT

CONTROLS EXPERIENCES IN OUR LIVES. ALSO WE CREATE SITUATIONS SO WE CAN RECYCLE

AND VALIDATE FAVORITE FEELINGS....CHANGE A BELIEF, CHANGE THE OUTCOME. AN

EXAMPLE IS '' POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS'' TO HELP CHANGE A LIMITING BELIEF......I

REST MY CASE...smile2 I HOPE THIS HELPS,, GOOD LUCK

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Fri 08/26/16 05:41 PM



what normally holds you back of not pursuing to know someone even more to whom he/she strongly caught your attention with?

When her husbands car is still in the driveway :yum:



LOL rofl rofl

On a dating site, a completely blank profile. If they can't be bothered to even write a few sentences about themselves, I tend to question whether or not they are scammers.
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A LOT OF THE GALS DO THAT.....

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Fri 08/26/16 04:07 PM

what normally holds you back of not pursuing to know someone even more to whom he/she strongly caught your attention with?


THE PAST.......''THERE IS NO HOLDING BACK IN THE HERE AND NOW''....WHATS HOLDS

US BACK ON ANYTHING IS ARE PAST.....IT TAKES WORK TO STAY IN THE HERE AND NOW AND

REALIZE THAT PERSON NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE AND NOT COMPARE THEM TO ALL THE PEOPLE

WE HAVE KNOWN AND REALLY SEE THEM AS WHO THEY ARE.....EVERYONE HAS FILTERS IN

THERE HEAD....WOMEN ARE ALWAYS TESTING US TO SEE IF WE ARE WHO WE PRESENT

OURSELVES TO BE.....

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Fri 08/26/16 03:31 PM


At 22, how do you know it is creepy?


GOOD POINT!!!!

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Fri 08/26/16 12:17 PM

Been dating for too long.. Been a fool for too long then..


THERE IS AND OLD SAYING; WHEN DOES A MAN WANT SEX WITH A WOMAN??? ANSWER : WHEN

HE TALKS TO HER.....BECAUSE OF THE EMOTIONAL DIFFERENCES MOST MEN WOULD NOT EVEN

BOTHER WITH WOMEN IF THEY DID NOT HAVE THE COOKIE.....

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Fri 08/26/16 12:06 PM

AND AUTONOMY IS AN ILLUSION FOR MOST OF THE HUMAN RACE......ITS JUST SURFACE

NOISE CREATED BY LOTS OF OTHER ISSUES.....WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN POO...

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Thu 08/25/16 08:13 AM


So I changed my parameters, only to find out that my initial parameters HAD been right all along!

laugh laugh laugh laugh
Stop listening to others. You know yourself much better then they do.


BEST ADVICE I HEARD HERE.....MOST ARE SO FOCUSED ON THE SURFACE NOISE , AND WHO

DID WHAT TO WHO, THINGS AND RESULTING FEELINGS....YES ITS ALL ABOUT KNOWING

YOURSELF BETTER...CAUSE YOU DAM SURE CAN NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE BUT

YOURSELF...

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Thu 08/25/16 05:58 AM

in your point of view.what is exactly your real definition of a real man or a woman?


SOMEONE WHO IS IN A GOOD PLACE WITH THEMSELVES AND THE WORLD AROUND THEM....AS

BERNE SAID ''I'M O.K.--YOUR O.K.''

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Thu 08/25/16 04:39 AM
ITS ALL ABOUT OUR BELIEF SYSTEM. WE MADE IT UP IN OUR LITTLE OWN HEADS. WHAT

WE SEE IN OUR MINDS EYE WE WILL HOLD IN OUR HANDS. ITS REALLY LIVING OUR OWN

DREAMS...CHANGE A BELIEF, CHANGE THE OUTCOME.....

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Thu 08/25/16 04:30 AM

With the right man ... any time. Even mornings would be okay (not my fave).



YOUR A KEEPER...MEN'S HORMONAL LEVELS ARE THE HIGHEST IN THE MORNINGS, WHILE FOR

A WOMAN ITS EVENINGS.

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Thu 08/25/16 04:14 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Thu 08/25/16 04:24 AM
VIVA LA CHEMISTRY smile2 IF ALL I WANTED WAS A FRIEND I WOULD GET A GOLDEN

RETRIEVER, ON A VERY BASIC LEVEL A MAN'S INTEREST IN A WOMEN IS ''THE COOKIE''

WITH FRIENDSHIP AS ''ICING ON THE CAKE'' AND FOR A LOT OF WOMEN ITS THE TIME

LIMIT.....

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Thu 08/25/16 04:11 AM
THE BEST WAY TO GET WHAT YOU ''DO NOT WANT'' IS TO NOT ASK FOR WHAT YOU ''DO

WANT'' SET LIMITS AND STICK TO IT, AND CONSEQUENCES IF YOU DO NOT GET WHAT

WANT...WOMEN I HAVE FOUND ARE NOT REALLY GOOD AT DOING THIS... ''WE TEACH PEOPLE

HOW TO TREAT US'' AND ITS BASED ON OUR BELIEFS ABOUT OURSELVES AND

OTHERS....EVERYTHING IN LIFE IS ABOUT OUR OWN BELIEF SYSTEM....''SO IT STARTS

AND ENDS WITH US''......smile2

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Thu 08/25/16 03:29 AM

Just don't know what to say? Hi/ Hell0 all?!


thats it your doing great, excellent first step....