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in the name of love❤️
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IYS LIKE PEELING ONIONS ONE LAYER AT A TIME. GOOD LUCK CRYSTAL AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK. |
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Choice
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Wed 08/03/16 11:45 AM
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What are the option for a lady without the right choice on a dating site? Right choice? The wrong choice is someone that thinks they know the right choice for her. [/quot WHAT HAPPENS IS AFTER THE TWO HAVE SETTLED INTO THE RELATIONSHIP THER COMES A TIME WHERE ONE STARTS TO TRY TO GET ''ME BACK''.VERY COMMON ISSUE....ITS BECAUSE THEY HAVE GIVEN TO MUCH OF THEMSELVES...LEARNING TO SAY NO WHEN YOU REALLY DO HAVE IT TO GIVE MUST BE LEARNED... |
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Religion & Relationship
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I think you can as long as the two of you are respectful of the others beliefs. I am Lutheran personally and I don't think that will change based on the beliefs of a new partner. I will expect that person to respect my beliefs as I respect his. I would not try to change his religion or his views. How can we learn and grow from trying to change each other to suit ourselves. I would rather share our different views and learn from them.  THAT GOES FOR BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE.... 
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Topic:
in the name of love❤️
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have you ever experienced conquering any of those fears in life in the name of love? I don't know exactly what fears you mean but i've done a lot for love...things i didn't know i could but when the moment came up & life surprised me with how strange & unpredictable it can be, i found myself doing things only for happiness of the woman i once loved SOMETIMES THE LOVE WE WISH FOR OTHERS IS NOT THE SAME KIND OF LOVE THEY SEEK... |
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Topic:
in the name of love❤️
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Wed 08/03/16 11:12 AM
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YES ITS REALLY HARD TO ESCAPE THE PAST. SO MUCH OF OURSELVES WERE INVESTED IN
THOSE RELATIONSHIPS. WORKING THROUGH OUR FEELINGS AND FULLY GRIEVING AND LETTING GO IS A MUST. AND THEN REALIZE WE WILL NOT GROW AND TRULY BE HAPPY UNTIL WE STEP OUT OF OUR CURRENT AWARENESS OF OURSELVES AND OTHERS. IT CAN BE SCARY AND PAINFULL GIVING UP OLD BELIEFS, ISSUES AND FAVORITE FELLINGS AND EMOTIONS ....CRYSTAL I BELIEVE YOU ARE ON THE RIGHT TRACK AND YOUR LIFE WILL REALLY IMPROVE FOR YOU.... |
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Fear
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Is it wrong to become a loner out of fear? Or to stay single? So you take away the fear or push it way down enough to allow yourself to be fooled into loving another to be burned again? Is it a bad to stay single bcs you do not wish any bs in your life? WHEN WE HUMANS ARE BORN WE HAVE BUILT IN SYSTEM THAT IS ALWAYS SCANNING FOR DANGER. ITS WHAT HAS KEPT THE HUMAN RACE SAFE OVER MILLIONS OF YEARS. I SEE IT ALSO IN OTHER MAMMALS.SOMETIMES IT WILL GET IN OUR OWN WAY AND CREATE PROBLEMS BECAUSE WE ALSO HAVE ANOTHER SYSTEM THAT ONCE WE FIND THE ANSWER TO SOMETHING STARTING OFF AS CHILDREN WE SAY TO OURSELVES ''OK I GOT IT, THATS THE ANSWER''.THE PROBLEM IS WE DON'T UPDATE THE INFO AS WE GROW UP BECAUSE WE ''ALREADY HAVE THE ANSWER''. |
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Fear
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Is it wrong to become a loner out of fear? Or to stay single? So you take away the fear or push it way down enough to allow yourself to be fooled into loving another to be burned again? Is it a bad to stay single bcs you do not wish any bs in your life? TO BE FULLY HUMAN WE NEED TO LOVE AND BE LOVED. WITHOUT LOVE IN OUR LIVES IT STUNTS OUR GROWTH AND LEAVES OUR LIVES WITHOUT A SPECIAL JOY THAT MAKES OUR LIVES FULL AND EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY. LOVE IS A SPECIAL CONNECTION TO LIFE THAT EVERYONE REALLY NEEDS. 
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Religion & Relationship
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when it comes to religion more often than not its really all about shoulds and should not's. i am referring to parental tapes and the shame and guilt associated with it. a person of good moral values of right and wrong is most important i believe. to much can turn off permission to be real and experience the healthy joys life has to offer. |
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Trust
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a word about ISSUES WITH TRUST OR OTHER ISSUES....I HAVE FOUND FOR EXAMPLE
SOMEONE WITH TRUST ISSUES , THEY SEEM TO BELIEVE THERE IS A LIER AROUND EVERY CORNER AND UNDER EVERY ROCK. HOWEVER ONCE THEY REALIZE THAT AT ALL PEOPLE WILL NOT LIE TO THEM SUDDENLY ALL THE LIERS HAVE GONE AWAY. EVERYTHING IS ABOUT OUR BELIEF SYSTEM, THAT IS OUR REALITY. AND THE GLUE THAT KEEPS US STUCK TO THOSE BELIEFS ARE OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS.
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Trust
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WHEN I THINK ABOUT TRUST THE WORD HONESTY COMES TO MIND...WHEN A PERSON TELLS ME
SOMETHING I TRUST THEY ARE BEING HONEST WITH ME. UNLESS THEY HAVE LIED TO ME BEFOREHAND . ESPECIALLY WITH MATTERS OF THE HEART...  I HAVE FOUND WOMEN ARE FAR BETTER AT NOT BEING HONEST THEN US GUYS. ONE REASON IS THEY HAVE ON AVERAGE MUCH BETTER SOCIAL SKILLS THAN US. 
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Meeting the wrong people.
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women are really different than us, they have different wants and needs. they
take in info differently and the process the info differently than us also. you need to hang out with guys who are good with women .learn as much as you can on what makes them tick. its not easy , they have hormonal changes that can effect there behavior ...MOST MEN SPEND MORE TIME LEARNING ABOUT EVERYTHING IN THERE LIVES EXCEPT HOW TO RELATE TO WOMEN.. AND WHILE YOUR AT IT YOU NEED TO GET TO KNOW YOURSELF BETTER. LIKE WHAT ARE YOUR LIMITING BELIEFS ?? WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AND HOW THEY EFFECT YOUR LIFE AND THE PEOPLE AROUND YOU...GOOD LUCK..... |
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The right way?
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 07/29/16 04:10 PM
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Okay does anyone still believe in getting married having kids and staying married? Because all I see in my generation these days are so many broken families and it's sad. It's like everyone just wants to have sex and not deal with the consequences of it all afterwards. What happened to the traditional way of things? I think it's romantic stick to YOUR VALUES SYSTEM,, TO MUCH LIBERAL THINKING AND BEHAVIER.....THE PATH TO ''TRUE LOVE'' IS BEING COMMITTED OVER TIME.....LOVE IS NOT A SMOOTH LEVEL PATH ...YOU SET THE STANDARDS TO HOW A MAN CAN AND WILL TREAT YOU....YOU ARE ALLWAYS THE PRIZE NOT HIM....''WE ALL TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US'' CHOOSING A MATE IS NOT A LOGICAL CONSCIOUS CHOICE, ITS AN EMOTIONAL CHOICE (IMAGO MATCH ) WE PICK A MATE BASED ON OUR OWN EMOTIONAL HEALTH....SO IF THINGS GO WRONG ITS TIME TO LOOK INSIDE OURSELVES FOR THE ANSWER.......SO OFTEN THE GAL TRYS TO FIX HIM AND NOT TAKE A LOOK AT THE ROLL SHE PLAYED IN RELATIONSHIP....GOOD LUCK |
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Single and mingle
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When love comes it asks for changes ... its automatic emotional changes on the surface..... favorite feelings and limiting beliefs are still there. to get past all that we have get to know ourselves, like and love ourselves first .........to be fully human we must be able to love and be loved.....not being able take in love because of self-esteem issues is more wide spread them commonly believed...... |
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Why search?
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Why is it important to search for love? Isn't it better when love finds you? Letting it happen genuinely and true. how many women do you have outside knocking on your do right now??????? the world does not know you unless you go outside and introduce yourself..... Absolutely true- blunt, straight forward, and to the point. I like it! Very well put my friend  thanks for the flower,,,most of the stuff is just surface noise,,getting past a persons persona is very difficult, over the years people develope various defences they think will protect there real self.... getting to know, understand, and even love another person is next to impossible when they have a wall between them and others.....however i guess personas are necessary till you find out whom we are dealing with to a point. when wounded emotionally...its really sad though to be the one wounded and others in our life.... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 07/29/16 09:59 AM
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its an unconscious emotional choice.....we are looking for our imago match.. do not take my word for it do the research, you will find i am correct....the last person we ever get to really know and love is ourselves...... |
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Why search?
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Why is it important to search for love? Isn't it better when love finds you? Letting it happen genuinely and true. how many women do you have outside knocking on your do right now??????? the world does not know you unless you go outside and introduce yourself..... |
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Three ways
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it involves many risks fiscal and emotional.....both can be tissue destructive .......... |
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- why do young guys are acting like childish in a relationship? is it true that older guys is much better in terms of relationship? young guys act the way do is because they are trying to get something for nothing.....and it really surprises me that so many gals just hand it over.....not all older guys have it together ether ...... |
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Topic:
second wind
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most of us here are hoping to find yet another chance to love again. what drives/motivates you to finally decide you wanted to be with that certain person? OUR CHOICES ARE NOT LOGICAL CONSCIOUS CHOICES , THEY ARE EMOTIONAL UNCONCIOUS CHOICES....THEY ARE SOMEONE WE ALREADY KNOW ON AN EMOTIONAL LEVEL...THE ANSWER IS INSIDE US AND NOT OUT THERE.....SO MUCH TIME IS WASTED ON SURFACE NOISE INSTEAD OF THE REAL ISSUES.... |
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Topic:
love
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TRUE GIRLFRIEND OR TRUE LOVE COMES FROM BEING COMMITTED TO THEM OVER
TIME....NOW FINDING HER IS A DIFFERENT STORY....BE NICE TO ALL WOMEN YOU MEET AND SHE WILL TURN UP......MEN AND WOMEN TAKE IN INFO DIFFERENTLY AND PROCESS IT DIFFERENTLY, SO ITS IN YOUR BEST INTEREST TO FIND OUT WHY....MOST MEN KNOW MORE ABOUT FISHING OR FIXING THERE CAR THEN WONDER WHY THINGS DON'T SEEM TO GO RIGHT WITH THE LADIES....LIFE COACH'S , HANGING OUT WITH GUYS WHO ARE GOOD WITH WOMEN ,BOOKS ON DATING BY DAVID DE ANGELO AND OTHERS. MORE YOU KNOW THE MORE SUCCESSFUL YOU WILL BE.... GOOD LUCK ON YOUR QUEST..... |
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