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Topic:
what is love?
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 09/24/16 11:36 AM
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is love being with your lover or talking with him 24/7 or every time to time? how about your other life? your friends, family? hmm. I guess it is not love. It is possessiveness! It is madness. THERE IS A SELF PERCEIVED SAFE AND COMFORTABLE EMOTIONAL DISTANCE BETWEEN OURSELVES AND OTHERS, THAT INCLUDES LOVERS. THERE ARE TWO TYPES MOSTLY CLINGERS AND ISOLATORS ARE THE LABELS GIVEN TO MOST....YOU PUT ONE OF EACH TOGETHER AND IT CAN BE PURE HELL FOR BOTH TRYING TO KEEP DISTANCE AT A COMFORTABLE LEVEL.....  ....GOOD LUCK ....AND THIS IS REALLY COMMON FOR ISOLATORS AND CLINGERS TO GET TOGETHER BE CAUSE WE ARE LOOKING FOR WHAT WE LACK, TO GET FROM OUR MATE....THATS WHY OPPOSITES ARE ATTRACTED TO EACH OTHER SO MUCH.....SO MANY TIMES ONE PERSON EXPECTS THE OTHER TO FILL THEM UP AND OR COMPLETE THEM..NOBODY CAN DO THAT.... |
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Topic:
Women
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Maybe a woman has the power to bring a man to his knees, but that still only works if he's interested in her. If he's already under the spell of another woman ... Also ... not every woman is empowered and is able to do such a thing. I think few women are. A lot of women use masculine energy to achieve that, which often doesn't work long term. Being pure, comfortable and confident in your femininity is what it takes, and most women are sort of stuck in masculine energy and not comfy at all in a more feminine role. It means you have to dare to be vulnerable, which requires inner strength. That's where it goes wrong for many. Now that I'm 50 I find that I'm much better at it. When younger I was shy, very insecure, low self-esteem etc. No way did I dare approach a nice man I was interested in. SO TRUE ,,,FOR A LOT OF WOMEN....ITS SO IMPORTANT THAT WE GET KNOW OURSELVES, AND ALSO UNDERSTAND HOW THE OTHER SEX THINKS AND FEELS.... |
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Topic:
Windows 10
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the only thing i really hate is not being able to turn the Cortana off... GO TO MAJORGEEKS.COM THERE ARE PROGRAMS TO REMOVE MS CALL HOME PROGRAMS AND OTHER CRAP......FREE FREE FREE |
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Topic:
Windows 10
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I USE LINUX MINT 18 ...LOOKS WORKS JUST LIKE WIN 7...ITS FREE!!!!!! AND THOUSANDS OF FREE GREAT PROGRAMS.....ITS BASED ON UNIX LIKE APPLE IS......FREE FREE FREE FREE FREE  
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Topic:
love
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I've meet people that make me want to gnaw off a limb to get away from them. Differences is what makes individuals special. The World's not round, it's an oblique spheroid (ie wider then it is tall). There is no way to guarantee you will meet the same person again (some people like to hide). YEP...... |
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Topic:
hai, chat with me
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THEN GO OUT AND INTRODUCE YOURSELF TO SOMEONE AND MAKE FRIENDS,,,,,JUMP IN AND ENJOY THIS FORUM... 
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 09/23/16 05:55 PM
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I JUDGE FUTURE BEHAVIOR BY THERE PAST BEHAVIOR,,WHEN BUTTONS ARE PUSHED MOST PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY HAVE ALWAYS DONE.......WE BECOME SO ADDICTED TO OUR REALITY (BELIEFS) AND FAVORITE FEELINGS....TO CHANGE TAKES WORK AND CAN BE PAINFUL.....LEAVE ,UNLESS THE PERSON IS WILLING TO WORK TO UNDERSTAND THEMSELVES......I CAN NOT DO THE WORK FOR THEM..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 09/23/16 05:54 PM
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WALL-MART HAS THE GOOD, THE BAD, AND UGLY, LOTS OF CHOICES....  
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Topic:
THE SECRET
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 09/23/16 02:44 PM
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ROOSTER35: I thumbed through it once in a bookstore and I gather that the big "secret" is that "whatever you throw at the universe it throws it back at you". Then it's got some fluffy New Age ideas and feel-good rap so that you don't feel like you wasted your money falling for it. Say, I have an off-topic question for ya. Is the CAP key stuck on your keyboard?  THANKS FOR POINTING OUT MY SHORT COMINGS, YOU MUST BE AN EXPERT WITH LOTS OF THEM...IF YOU SEE ANY MORE OF MINE PLEASE BY ALL MEANS POINT THEM OUT SO OTHERS MAY LEARN.... |
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Topic:
LDR
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 09/23/16 02:36 PM
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LOVE IS EVERYWHERE..!!!!!!!!!......WHY MAKE IT DIFFICULT.. .?????? GEE I WONDER WHAT THE PAYOFF IS FOR SUCH BEHAVIOR?????????????? STRUGGLE..?... WHATS WITH THAT...???? |
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that seems to be the liberal norm, just to say anything to promote your agenda... SOUND LIKE SOME MORE LIBERAL POO ..... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Fri 09/23/16 10:53 AM
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I just want nice guy that isn't just in a relationship for sex like please and thank you. I wish I was born before everything became all about sex and good looks. MOST MEN ARE NOT INTO RELATIONSHIPS JUST FOR SEX....WE WANT A WOMAN WE CAN WIN WITH......IT IS IMPORTANT THAT A GUY FEELS GOOD ABOUT HIMSELF WHEN HE IS WITH YOU....BECAUSE OF THE ISSUES THAT COME UP BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN AND THERE WAS NO SEX I DO NOT BELIEVE MEN WOULD NOT PUT MUCH EFFORT INTO A WOMAN....YOU NEED TO READ THE WORKS OF JOHN GRAY BECAUSE WHEN WE DO UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCES AND HOW NORMAL THEY ARE IT MAKES IT MUCH EASIER TO GET ALONG WITH OUR MATE AND GET WHAT WE NEED.....RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEVER ONE HANDED.....YOUR DEMEANOR DETERMINES WHAT TYPE OF GUY YOU ATTRACT AND ALSO HOW YOU RESPOND TO HIM.....GOOD LUCK... THERE REALLY ARE SOME GREAT GUYS OUT THERE..... P.S. GREAT BOOKS::: MEN ARE FROM MARS,WOMAN ARE FROM VENUS BY JOHN GRAY,,ALSO WHAT YOUR MOTHER COULDN'T TELL YOU & YOUR FATHER DIDN'T KNOW,,,ALSO BY JOHN GRAY.... |
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Topic:
THE SECRET
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Precisely!   Might require spending a lot of time with birds and other flying creatures too, though. I believe I can fly I believe I can touch the sky ... WTF....... |
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Topic:
SWEDEN IN CHAOS
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YES AND IF THE LIBERALS HAVE THERE WAY ITS COMING TO A TOWN NEAR YOU.... |
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Topic:
THE SECRET
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I thumbed through it once in a bookstore and I gather that the big "secret" is that "whatever you throw at the universe it throws it back at you". Yup, it's basically "The law of attraction. " Like attracts alike, so in theory if you think positively and radiate that energy, you will attract happiness, health and wealth. CORRECT, ALL THE HAVE'S KNOW THIS....AND ITS TRUE.....YOU ARE WHAT YOU BELIEVE...OUR BELIEFS GOT US TO WHERE WE ARE NOW AND WHERE WE WILL BE IN THE FUTURE......WE EACH HAVE ON AWARENESS AND FILTERS THAT WE SEE THE WORLD AS OUR OWN REALITY... |
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Topic:
THE SECRET
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I thumbed through it once in a bookstore and I gather that the big "secret" is that "whatever you throw at the universe it throws it back at you". Then it's got some fluffy New Age ideas and feel-good rap so that you don't feel like you wasted your money falling for it. Say, I have an off-topic question for ya. Is the CAP key stuck on your keyboard? YES IT IS STUCK......JUST LIKE SOME PEOPLE...... |
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Topic:
PTSD from mental abuse
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I am a 52 yr old man who has just stared therapy for Ptsd from mental abuse i suffered from my ex wife almost 20 years ago. i have been suffering from this for almost 20 years yet just within the last couple weeks have figured out what it is and am seeking help my now wife does not understand it and it is straining our marriage anyone else dealing with this nd if so can we talk about how you are dealing with it SHE NEEDS TO GO WITH YOU AT LEAST THE FIRST TIME TO FULLY UNDERSTAND HOW BAD IT CAN BE FOR A MAN ALSO.....LACK OF EMPATHY FROM A MATE IS NOT A SIGN OF LOVE....MATES NEED TO BE ABLE TO EMPATHIZE WITH EACH OTHER TO HAVE A GOOD HEALTHY EMOTIONAL BOND WITH EACH OTHER......GOOD LUCK, I HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR YOU AND YOUR NEW MATE.....
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Thu 09/22/16 12:49 PM
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. MAYBE SOME DAY THEY WILL PASS LAWS TO STOP PEOPLE FROM HAVING SEX WITH FAMILY MEMBERS..... |
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Topic:
Mmmmm makes me think.
Edited by
sparkyae5
on
Thu 09/22/16 08:31 AM
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''BOTH'' HAVE TO STEP OUT FROM BEHIND THERE OWN PERSONA AND REALLY SHARE WHO WE ARE....BUT THAT REQUIRES RISKING, AND ALSO DO I REALLY KNOW MYSELF WELL ENOUGH ??? AND IF THEY REALLY NEW THE REAL ME WOULD THEY STILL LOVE ME.???? HOW CAN ONE GET CLOSE TO ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WITHOUT BEING CLOSE TO MY OWN SELF.??? WE ALL HAVE HIDDEN AGENDAS THAT ARE REALLY MORE HIDDEN TO OURSELVES THAN OTHERS.. WHAT I MEAN BY PERSONA IS OUR ''SOCIAL SELF'' THAT WE SHOW THE THE WORLD THAT PROTECTS OUR INNER SELF...... |
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Topic:
THE SECRET
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HAS ANYONE WATCHED THE VIDEO ''THE SECRET'' OR ''THE SOURCE OF THE SECRET'' ??? |
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