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Topic: Are there any guys around here that have decent conversation
dutchess11's photo
Fri 08/12/16 09:37 AM
I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures. I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask?

no1phD's photo
Fri 08/12/16 09:43 AM
No.. that's not too much to ask for.
At all.. I would be more than happy to have a clean interesting intelligent conversation with you..
But first !do you have any naughty pictures of yourself that you can send me...lol...am.sooo kinding...lol

sparkyae5's photo
Fri 08/12/16 09:45 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/12/16 09:48 AM

I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures. I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask?




thats it be suppository that will bring them around...'' when you focus on what

you DO NOT want you will only get more of the same, focus only on what you DO

WANT''..smile2 P.S. ON THE OTHER HAND PAIN SOME TIMES CAN BE A GOOD TEACHER....

dutchess11's photo
Fri 08/12/16 09:57 AM
lol thanks for the advice will write a new post then

SitkaRains's photo
Fri 08/12/16 09:58 AM

I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures. I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask?

Well I get the want of more pictures since you only have 2 and neither is a full body shot. sorry I do get that one.

Maybe instead of focusing on what you "don't" want maybe focus on what you do want and start reading profile and contacting some men on your own.

Send a first message email that you would like to get.

best wishes in your search

sparkyae5's photo
Fri 08/12/16 10:16 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Fri 08/12/16 10:23 AM

lol thanks for the advice will write a new post then


men like to feel they can win with a woman...i know because i are one.. i know

how hard it is to stuff your feelings... women for the most part are not allowed

to express anger, there are ways to to get feelings across to others without

others feeling like a victim...

stuyrob's photo
Fri 08/12/16 12:21 PM
No

stuyrob's photo
Fri 08/12/16 12:23 PM
Ask me directly and my answer may be different as long as i dont get tongue tied by your beautiful ;-)

soufiehere's photo
Fri 08/12/16 12:27 PM

I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures. I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask?

If you list specifics in your profile, and they do not 'listen' to it,
might be a pretty good indication of lack of conversational skills :-)

no photo
Fri 08/12/16 12:57 PM
Are there any guys around here that have decent conversation

Sure.
Almost everyone.
But only offline.

Online penalizes people for decent conversation, and offers very little to no incentive towards decent conversation.

I am tired of perverts and guys that only want pictures

To me that's like saying "I'm sitting here in a football stadium during the superbowl and I'm tired of all these people screaming and focused only on football! I want to talk and get to know someone!"

What is the majority of the internet? Porn, immediate gratification of shopping and information and opinion ejaculation.
What do you expect?

I am looking for a decent conversation with a decent guy. Is that too much to ask?

Yes.
You know how you are tired of and hate being asked about sex, the focus on sex, strange men you don't know only wanting sex?
Men are tired of being used for emotional validation, of just wanting to talk for no other reason than for strange women to feel connected.

What you are asking for, IMO, is the female equivalent of the exact same thing men are doing to you.

Assuming you are looking for it online, to find some strange guy and have some magic conversation for the sake of conversation, where you can just disappear afterwards, or come back when the mood strikes you that you need some decent conversation attention.


If you aren't, then your best bet is to find someone you can spend an hour with offline, meet, and be willing to start and actively engage in a decent conversation, not let the straying bother you, and help steer it back to the conversation you want.

Everyone is capable of decent conversation.
Sometimes you have to be the one to drag it out of them.
If you're unwilling to do that, if you are only willing to wait until someone comes along and offers you the conversation you want, then you are going to be nothing but frustrated for an extremely long time.



imastranger2's photo
Fri 08/12/16 01:45 PM
why is it when they see your picture they say he is ugly. It is what's in your heart that counts. he is to old for me but well age is just a number.

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Fri 08/12/16 04:31 PM
It is in the nature of all searches for companionship of the best kind, conducted through such vague and general means and situations as this, that great patience is required.

In other words, when you are seeking a diamond, you accept that you will have to dig through a great deal of filth and "not diamonds," to find it.

Kartimp's photo
Fri 08/12/16 05:11 PM
Hi, how r u, would like to chat

Dodo_David's photo
Fri 08/12/16 05:15 PM

why is it when they see your picture they say he is ugly. It is what's in your heart that counts. he is to old for me but well age is just a number.



Wrong. One's outward appearance is important to some people.
Also, age is not just a number. Age matters.

no photo
Fri 08/12/16 05:49 PM
Can we have this conversation ... in bed? pitchfork

TheAthegianDisciple's photo
Fri 08/12/16 06:26 PM
Good conversation is the spice of life girlfriend. We can talk anytime.

BreakingGood's photo
Fri 08/12/16 08:15 PM
Absolutely you will find I can definitely hold a conversa........

Oh crap. No perverts. Sorry.

mikey5360's photo
Fri 08/12/16 08:55 PM
Ummmmm...
Maybe...
Ohhhh...
Ahhh...
Blah...blah...
Oh....what was the question again??...
happy

no photo
Fri 08/12/16 11:46 PM

I totally understand where your coming from . I get the same old asking for pictures, or just been plain rude. Or they say there a gentleman, and turn out to be idiot on meeting . Dating sites no disrespect to them but mostly have the worse men on them. Only a few men and ive heard from men the women can be just as bad . Its mostly due i think it's to easy to join. meaning the people who actully looking to date nice genuine man. Keep getting crazy guys or the men that i would not date if they become the last on earth lols. But ay cant moan it is a date site happy hunting guys

TMommy's photo
Sat 08/13/16 06:43 AM
hahahaa..best of luck on this one bigsmile

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