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Topic:
Judging
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Tue 11/29/16 04:06 PM
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How can you judge a person by photo and a couple of lines. This driving me mad. How's real and how's the jokes. ITS THE SAME EVERYWHERE.....ON THE STREET,WALMART,ETC,EVEN IN CHURCH..A WORD ABOUT ''REAL'' EVEN PERSON ON THE PLANET HAS HIDDEN AGENDAS THAT ARE EVEN HIDDEN FROM THEMSELVES......THEN AS THEY SHOW UP IN THERE BEHAVIOR WE CAN THEN SAY THEY WERE NOT BEING REAL........THAT'S HOW IT STARTS ''HOW THEY APPEAR AND A FEW LINES''..........SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO KISS A FEW FROGS TO FIND YOUR PRINCE OR PRINCESS......CHILL,RELAX, YOU WILL REACH YOUR GOAL SOONER...IF YOUR REAL.... |
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Topic:
Love and relationship
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how ever did she/he become a partner ??? might as well call the person a stranger.  And with that strangers just drift apart. GOOD POINT..... |
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Topic:
women who love women...
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THATS LIBERAL COUNTRY....SOUNDS ABOUT RIGHT FOR THEM...... |
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Edited by
sparkyae5
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Mon 11/28/16 06:18 AM
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if we only had the power to create our companions for life, this world would be a happier place and peaceful too  THE PROBLEM IS OUR CONSCIOUS SELF SAYS ONE THING AND OUR UNCONSCIOUS SAYS ANOTHER........AND OF COURSE OUR UNCONSCIOUS WINS EVERY TIME......DIFFERENCES CAN ADD SPICE TO OUR LIVES....AND EVEN HELP IN OUR EVOLUTION, WE ARE ALL WORKS IN PROGRESS....THERE IS NO 10.........THERE SEEMS TO BE A LOT OF PEOPLE WHO GO FROM EXTREME HIGHS TO EXTREME LOWS IN LIFE, THEN IT BECOMES ADDICTIVE....ITS LIKE A DRUG ADDICT THE NEED BECOMES GREATER AND GREATER TO SATISFY THEMSELVES SO THE GAMES BECOME HARDER AND MORE SELF DESTRUCTIVE..... IN MY GRANDFATHERS DAY MY GRANDPARENTS NEW THEY WERE DIFFERENT AND LET OTHER LIVE IN PIECE IN THERE WORLD, THEY HAD TO BECAUSE THEY NEEDED EACH OTHER TO SURVIVE....THE WORLD TODAY IS ''WE DON'T NEED YOU''....THE TRUTH IS TO BE HEALTHY WE NEED TO BE CONNECTED AND WE DO NEED OTHERS....... |
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Topic:
ID Verification
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I have someone requesting I verify my identity on a different website before they meet me? Is this legit or is it a scam? Thanks in advance A WORD TO WISE,, YOU ARE GOING TO MEET THEM SOME PLACE THEY WOULD FEEL SAFE OF THERE CHOICE,CORRECT??????????..IF SOUNDS LIKE SCAM....WELL YOU KNOW THE ANSWER.... |
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YOU CAN NOT CREATE THAT PERFECT COMPANION, NOR WOULD DO YOU NEED TOO. THE BEST
YOU CAN DO IF YOU LACK KNOWLEDGE OF THE PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL DIFFERENCES OF YOUR MATE IS GET A GOOD BOOK ON HOW TO TRAIN YOUR PUPPY.....NOW A DAYS BOTH SEX'S TRY TO FIX THERE MATES.....''NOT GOOD IDEA'' THE REAL CAUSE OF MOST PROBLEMS IN A RELATIONSHIP IS ONE OR THE OTHER ''FEELS DEVALUED''..!!!!...... 
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Topic:
Cheating....Faithfulness
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sun 11/27/16 09:33 AM
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I'm not sure if it's my age, because I'm 43 years old and growing up relationships were real, but now it just seems like everybody is sleeping with everybody no matter how good they have it at home. I actually am scared to give a woman 100% because I feel at some point she will stray away. Am I wrong for holding this wall up when it comes to trust? A PERSON'S CORE VALUE SYSTEM IS VERY IMPORTANT, IT CAN KEEP US AND OTHERS SAFE FROM HARM.....STD'S ARE VERY REAL...THERE ARE A LOT OF GOOD HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS OUT THERE YOU JUST DO NOT HEAR ABOUT THEM.....TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP THAT WILL GROW GOOD SOCIAL SKILLS ARE A MUST...1..LIKE REFLECTIVE LISTENING, BEING ABLE TO TELL THE OTHER PERSON WHAT YOU THINK THEY ARE SAYING WITH OUT BEING JUDGMENTAL OR CRITICAL...2.EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY DISAGREE LET THEM KNOW ITS OK TO THINK THAT WAY....3..ASK IF THERE IS MORE TO IT THAN JUST THAT ONE ISSUE..4..ACKNOWLEDGE THERE FEELINGS, EMPATHY IS THE BEST GLUE EVER FOR BONDING TWO PEOPLE.....GOOD LUCK.......
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FIND A GAL FOR A GUY CAN ALSO BE A PROBLEM....SO YOUR NOT ALONE....HAVE YOU TRIED GOING PLACES MEN HANG OUT...???? LIKE THE GEM, AUTO RACES, SKEET AND TRAP CLUBS AND ALWAYS WARE THE MOST ATTRACTIVE THING A WOMAN HAS, A SMILE.!!....AND WHEN YOU FIND HIM LET HIM KNOW IN LITTLE WAYS HE CAN WIN WITH YOU.....HE WILL NOT BE PERFECT SO YOU WILL NEED A GOOD PUPPY TRAINING MANUAL FOR PROPER CARE AND FEEDING....GOOD LUCK..... |
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Topic:
Anger
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Angry people are poor communicators and even worse listeners. Their empathy is foreshortened, and they have trouble imagining the other’s point of view. It makes people less healthy, and when both parties are angry, fewer are likely to find middle ground. If the only way people feel they will be heard is when they are angry, then our public discourse will be an arena for shouting past one another. Now that a sanctified modern method, a poll, has shown we’re angry, perhaps we can have a reasoned public discussion about how to calm the rage and begin the work. You can be principled even when you speak in a soft voice. http://time.com/4166326/why-americans-are-so-angry-about-everything/ RAGE CAN COME FROM A PERSON NOT HAVING PERMISSION TO FEEL THERE FEELINGS OF ANGER AND NOT BEING ABLE EXPRESS THEM AND LET GO....SIMPLY BEING ABLE TO EXPRESS OUR FEELINGS IS ALL THATS NEEDED TO HEAL.....IT CAN BE A PROBLEM WITH MOST MALES BECAUSE HOW WE ARE TAUGHT AS CHILDREN....''BE A MAN''...''KEEP YOUR COOL'' ...ETC....AND IT DOES HAPPEN TO THE GALS ALSO..... |
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Topic:
Love
Edited by
sparkyae5
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Sat 11/26/16 01:16 PM
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IT'S CHOICE..........AND THERE ARE SO MANY WONDERFUL WAYS TO LOVE..  ...MEN TEND TO LOVE DIFFERENT THEN WOMEN, COULD BE THE REASON FOR SO MANY MISS UNDERSTANDINGS.....MEN TEND TO COMPARTMENTALIZE THERE EMOTIONS, WHERE WOMEN TEND TO FEEL THERE EMOTIONS ALL OVER.....BOTH CAN FEEL THERE FEELINGS JUST AS DEEPLY WITH PERMISSION........
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Topic:
what true love is...
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''WE TEACH PEOPLE HOW TO TREAT US BY WHAT WE WILL EXCEPT FROM THEM''......LAST BUT NOT LEAST:...''IF YOU THINK THE WAY YOU HAVE ALWAYS THOUGHT,YOU WILL GET WHAT YOU ALWAYS GOT''.....'SELF AWARENESS IS BECOMING CONSCIOUS OF WHAT WE REALLY THINK''..... |
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im real and sometimes smart would that count YOU LEFT OUT PRETTY...????????? |
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Topic:
You know that feeling ...
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that when it is really right, it feels peaceful, tranquil, good, quiet. Just right and wonderful? Apparently most women (not sure about men) think that when things are right they should feel that constant buzzzz. They think that when it feels peaceful and quiet something is wrong. That the guy is maybe boring, it isn't true love, or just not the right guy. And then they get tempted to break things off. Thing is, when it IS right, it does feel peaceful, good, quiet etc. When it feels like you got your fingers in a socket and you get zapped constantly, it is not right. That's not true love, that's infatuation and/or lust. I have recently worked that one out myself, at first I didn't understand it. I had never felt that way. Never experienced it before. And I did sometimes feel off-kilter because ... it felt and feels so good and peaceful. *Isn't that daft?* I must say I was relieved to hear a relationship coach say the exact same thing. I'm not going as far as to say it's true love, very early days still. But at least I know I'm part of something really good. I wonder how many ppl have experienced this in their lives, or think that not feeling a constant zapping and buzzzzzzzzzz is wrong? And does it work that way for you guys too, or are you generally more relaxed about it all? i wish i could feel that soon too Crystal GIVE YOURSELF PERMISSION....... |
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Topic:
You know that feeling ...
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WHEN A GUY IS QUIT HE IS IN HIS NOTHING BOX....NO YOU CAN NOT GO THERE..!!! LEAVE HIM ALONE, AFTER A WHILE HE WILL MISS YOU AND COME OUT..... |
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Topic:
Being dumped
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Congratulations buddy! You just saved 20K on that divorce! Good job! AMEN..... YEP..GOOD JOB..... IF HER VALUE SYSTEM WILL ALLOW THAT, SHE'S NOT WORTH THE EFFORT...THE VERY FIRST THING WE NEED TO KNOW IF THERE IS ATTRACTION IS THERE VALUE SYSTEM BECAUSE THAT'S WHO THEY ARE...... |
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GOD IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE HE IS......LIKE EVERYTHING IN OUR WORLD....... |
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Topic:
Happy Turkey Day!
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FAMILY. .....
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Topic:
Georgia 60 +
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EVER SENSE I STARTED DATING AGAIN EVERY WOMAN I HAVE MET HAS HAD A BAD GUY THERE BEFORE OF ME.....I SEE THE DISTRUST IN THERE EYE'S.....SO ITS ROUGH ON BOTH SIDES OF THE FENCE..... |
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PEOPLE ALWAYS STAY IN THERE AWARENESS AT THE TIME........A PERSON WILL ONLY DO WHAT THERE VALUE SYSTEM WILL ALLOW THEM TO DO......CHANGE IS DIFFICULT BECAUSE THE PERSON HAS TO HAVE A LOGICAL AWARENESS WHILE IN THERE ADULT EGO STATE MORE THEN ONCE.....THEY ARE WHERE THEY ARE BECAUSE THERE POSITION WAS VALIDATED BY THEMSELVES MORE THAN ONCE USUALLY WHILE THEY WHERE IN THERE CHILD EGO STATE.......SO ''IT'S A CHOICE''..... |
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