Just get a decent haircut. A good hairdresser will be able to tell you what will suit you best.
As for the facial hair, I don't think it looks good on you. But it might change if you'd smile :)

And as a tip... remove the half naked photo in the shower.
Men may like half naked photos, women generally don't. We tend to find it off-putting.

Feeling... good! We are currently enjoying a number of summer days with 25C-27C!
I'm loving it!
Finally able to have the sliding doors open, walk outside without a coat, and wear shorts!

Hihi, I think that's perfectly okay when a woman feels sexy and beautiful, Sir!

I guess it depends on how much they drink and/or what's normal in their social circle.
To an alcoholic it'd be 2x a day, to someone like me who truly hardly ever consumes alcohol it means something like 1x a month or (preferably) less.

I generally don't even drink once a year. Never a problem until a man enters your life. Somehow men expect you to drink. More like demand you to.

Feeling... happy my ears are finally unclogged again after a few months!
And happy the new ENT was really nice and very good. I didn't even have time to get dizzy, haha.

Feeling... nervous about getting my ears unclogged as it's an ENT that's new to me.
I never like having my ears done as I get dizzy so easily but at least my regular ENT knew that and was careful.
Fingers crossed this one is nice too!

Thank you so much, Marg!

PictureS? There's only one and you don't even smile in it.

Profile isn't properly filled out, all you say is "hi".

Chances of getting attention 0 or lower.
You gotta do a bit more than just this. If you're not interested in making an effort then why would a woman be?

Thank you so much, Mark!

Thank you, Sir!

Thank you, OskarD!

Thank you, Abhinav!

A couple of Die Hard movies :)
Not all tonight of course, last couple evenings.

Thank you, Slim :)

Thank you so much, Merry!
A beautiful wish and compliment. Makes me happy!

Not skin colour itself, I can actually appreciate that. But different skin colour also means different cultural background and that is a reason for concern.
And not because it means having something against that culture but because it can mean it isn't congruent with yours.
Been there, done that, and we both were Caucasian but from different countries and thus cultural background. Was not easy while both were Western cultures let alone how difficult it can be with another one.

Thank you so much, Soufie!
And yup, me loves the boots as well, hihi. They're actually riding boots, but I got them because I like them.

60 is the new sexy!
Today is my 60th birthday!

To me it really feels special. A milestone.
And oh-so different from when I turned 50 which I had dreaded for 2 years prior. I didn't like that one bit.
I think at the time I was more focused on what I didn't have than what I did have.
And I think mostly disappointed that I didn't have a partner, something I had expected to have by that time.

This time around is entirely different!
I feel good, happy, sexy, feminine, joyful.
Yes, I'd still like a great partner by my side, but I don't need a partner in order to be fulfilled.

In a way I feel like I'm turning 6 for the 2nd time round!
You know, when you're 6 you're generally joyful, open & ready to learn. Eager & ready to venture out in the world! You already know quite a bit, but not nearly enough yet.
It's an expansive energy.
That's how I feel too.
I know a lot, have a lot of wisdom, but still eager to learn as there's always more to discover!

In that sense it feels similar to The Fool tarot card, which happens to be one of my favourite cards.

In any case, I want to share some of my joy by sharing some of the photos I took Saturday in my beautiful new dress. Which I bought especially for today.

Thank you so much, Grumpy Witch!

Hihi, I have a sneak peak for ya.
Will post more on my birthday!

It was a lot of fun to do, took a long time as I had to do it myself with the timer.